My husband and I have been together for 14 years, married almost 10. We have two small children, one still a baby. My husband is a recovering alcoholic and as the pressures of business and family life were getting to him, he began drinking small amounts a few times. His willpower was already weak and he was unhappy with himself for hiding his drinking and not being as involved with his family as he knew he should have. Enter Yaneli. What a stupid name. At least cheat with someone with a better name!
They met at a casino bar, she saw his wedding ring (it’s too tight and he can’t get it off) and proceeded to try to be his fantasy girl. There’s a lot wrong with a 34 year old divorced woman who knowingly starts a relationship with a married man – probably low self-esteem, dysfunctional in relationships, unhealthy self-image, doesn’t believe she deserves better than being someone’s gross little secret – and for whatever reason, she wanted my husband. She took his phone and programmed her number in, and they kissed the very first night. From there she began calling and texting him all the time. He made his fair share of calls and texts to her too, and after a few days, she invited him to her house and they became intimate.