I have been married to my husband for 13 years last September. We have 2 beautiful children together. In May of last year I was tested to find out my brain injury did not make me as stupid as I thought I was. I signed up for College. Well in August either right before I started college or just right after my husband and I were working in our garden. He gets a text message and drops everything to go to walmart. That hit me like a ton of bricks and when he got back I was crying. I knew that was not right. He got down on his knees saying it was nothing, that I was the only one for him. that he loved only me and that if he ever cheated on me he would dig a hole, load the gun stand in front of the hole and pull the trigger. That has always been his promise to me because of my childhood. No our marriage was not perfect. We both came from bad childhoods but I was determined to make a good family for my children. That’s why I started to go to school, to show myself I was not disabled and I could be a great mom and wife.
Well, I kept having this bad feeling, but kept ignoring it, yes I had major denial, even before I knew for a fact. His behavior had changed. He started watching bad stuff on TV and always drinking with a neighbor, though he never got drunk. I would not allow that. Our sex life had sucked big time. He has PME. a medical condition, that well could have been fixed if he went to a doctor as I asked. I started blaming myself. but he did not even work with Annette. So I know it was not me.
He was getting depressed. I could see that, tried getting him to exercise, even got St Johns Wart, he would not do anything. In September we started having more sex. I kept trying. He kept pouting when he did not preform. He was a first responder and fire fighter and he got a call on the job that a co-worker was having chest pains. Well hell the thing weighs about 270. fFom that time on she was all over him. Even before it became sexual she wanted him to leave me, saying they could be happy together. Later on he said about our anniversary she kissed him and he kissed her back. He said he started talking to her about our sex life, to improve how he performed with me, wanting a woman’s take on it. That is just what he is saying.
Then one day she asked him if he ever had a b*******. He said no, and right there on the clock at work, she gave him a half ass b*******. He says about a week later she texted him and wanted to know where he was. He was hunting and so she went to him, and they had sex in the back of her car. He said she was so big she hurt him. I asked why he continued. He said he thought that was all he deserved -a fat w****. They had a few more blow jobs then she stripped naked for him again on the clock at work in Cabin 9. and he again had what he calls a real quicky. He said he tried to finger her once but she was too fat so he did not even try. Later they had sex again in the lower level again at work on the clock. Sadly she still has her job. Anyways again another hand job , then in November she texted him and told him she was coming to my house. Yes the b**** came to my home, and yes again he f**ked her in my bed. said he did not even let her get undressed. Then again later in November she gave him a hand job when I could not even touch him because he had been sick.
On Nov 29th 2013 I caught a text message at 4 am. I have never looked at his FB emails or phone, the phone I bought, then something just snapped. Here I was not sleeping after making love with him, and yes like a fool thanking God for him being in my life. When the text came in I was in so much shock, I woke him up and made him leave. So what does he do, he goes changes were his check goes, changes his address, then yes goes back to his fat w****. I texted her back and told her to come get him, she denied it all till I sent her husband all the texts. Then what do they do, that night they again f**k and she again asks him to leave me. He again told her no but all this time totally denying it to me. She finally confess to me on Fb . I have since blocked her and her husband. They have harassed me and my children and I have had to call the law. This w**** was married to a man for 18 yrs. and well I get why he did not want to have sex with her. she was too fat but what does she do, she turns to my man and yes he was the f**king idiot for going there. My children and I suffered great pain and hurt from this. But for all the other woman out there. Please expose her for who and what she is. A fat filthy mouthed dirty w****, who will knowingly try and take married men. Save others from my pain. Show her for exactly what she is.