I need help. My boyfriend is on dating sites, and he has met people off it & says it’s just friendly. He says he wants me & loves me. Things have been rocky but we were working on it. He says he has a lot on his mind & wants to take a break to focus on himself but says he’ll still see me & talk to me & if I want this relationship then I’d give him the time. I’m just scared he goes off with someone else. He promised me he’d not meet or talk to anyone else. I made a fake profile on the dating site & started talking to him to see if he was responding to messages, I owned up it was me but he said he knew it was me & is disappointed in me for doing that. I wasn’t trying to deceive him, I just wanted to know the truth. I don’t know what to do, I do love him & he says he loves me but needs time to focus on things as he’s trying to pass his driving test & he’s stressing out about it as he’s failed a few times, I’ve offered to help but he says he needs to do it himself. I do want to give him space but I’m scared about what could happen. I want to fix things between us & he says he does too but has too much going on right now & I’ve told him I’m here for him.
I’ve been following this page for years and I finally have the courage to ask y’alls advice. My stepmother is younger than me and she married my dad last year. This is his third wife and he’s 35 years older than his ‘soulmate’ who celebrated her 21st birthday yesterday. About six months ago I spotted her out with friends at a nightclub. Yup she was under age at this place in Hollywood but that’s the norm around these parts. Our family moved here from Texas last summer after the 3rd divorce. Yes my father is well off. Anyway, I spotted her kissing another man/boy more her age. They were all over each other. I even took pictures to show my father. Well, I haven’t told him or showed him anything. He’s so happy with her, I don’t want to break his heart. My question is. What should I do? My Dad said in his birthday speech that he wants to die with this woman and he gifted her a 90k car for her birthday. Also, I cried that night when I saw her cheating.
I never thought in a million years I would post this story, ever. I read a lot of stories on your website and Facebook page, and see the hurt. I want to remind those hurt by cheating, that Karma always wins.
My ex husband had an affair with a co-worker, they ended up having two kids – A & A. One was born during our marriage, the other? Hours after our divorce decree was signed (no really- hours).
That ish was the most humiliating experience of my life. 9 years, 3 kids later, I was broken. I shared all the homewrecking posts to my FB on public just for her to see… Fast forward a few years, I have moved on, happily I might add. Married my best friend and my life is good.
Since I have kids with this sh*t bag and the ho, Alishia, is still involved, the kids have informed me, the greener grass my ex wanted? Yeah..not so green. She’s cheating on him. To make matters worse? She’s pregnant. And he doesn’t know if it’s his. If he kicks her out, he’s on the hook for child support for the two “older” children, and we all know that’s not going to happen. She pawned her engagement ring he gave her. It’s an absolute mess.
At first, I was angry at her for trashing what she destroyed so easily. But then: I realized this is what Karma is. Keep your heads up girls! It does happen!
Advice please. Around this time last year I found out my boyfriend has cheated on me with a coworker. We were in a very bad place. And I’m not making excuses for him. Because its completely %100 percent his fault. He was always working and I was in school and had a part time job, the relationship just wasn’t a priority for either or us and we were always fighting. I stayed quiet about me knowing he had cheated and packed up my stuff and left. I also cheated as well after finding out but it made me feel worse. Like I said the relationship had taken its toll over 7 years and I didn’t want our attitude towards each other to effect our child. Anyways, he did his best to get me back. He stepped up to the plate and began showing me he could change. 6 months went by and I decided I should let him back in. Everything has been great. He does what he’s supposed to do. Helps me out with everything. We actually got married last month and he really seems to be happy. Now. This is where I need the advice. His boss from his old job called and offered him more money then what he’s making right now at his current job. After we split up he quit and found the one he is current working. Anyways, it’s a restaurant near a college where I swear the sluttiest girl work. The same whore doesn’t work there anymore but I’m worried.. We’ve already talked about it and he says over and over again that were married now and before he didn’t know what he had. I just don’t know.
Okay, so I would like to stay anonymous for family’s safety, but this women keeps crossing too many lines. My ex and I met 11 years ago started dating for two years then went our separate ways. 4 years later we got back together moved in and began to raise our two children together. After about two years he began a party phase. It started as one day here and there then it was a whole weekend, which turned into every weekend. After about two months of this I began to find long blond hair all over my bathroom and bed(I’m brunette) then condoms stashed away and then my $1000 earrings went missing off my mantel. I knew what was going on and confronted him. But he accused me of being crazy and screamed until he left our home for four days. When he came back he asked if I was sorry then refused to talk to me all week. Another two months goes by and we decided that it was time to buy a bigger house before we start to expand on our family. We were sitting on the couch about to put an offer in when he looked at me and simply said “I can’t do this, I need six months separate from you before the wedding. After that time I will be yours forever”. I was devastated. I knew what he was asking for was a free pass to sleep with whatever women. I left and vowed to never go back. Two weeks later I receive word that he is moving to Tucson from our home on another state for a work transfer. Mind you, it takes six months to apply for and receive a transfer with this company. I knew that meant this had been in the works without my knowledge. He informs me that he messed up and he wants his family back. So before he leaves he vows to “fix this” and I take him back. We make long distance work for a year. He comes to see the kids and I twice a month. On my birthday after a year, I received a heartbreaking email from the other women. I was blindsided. What I had feared a year and a half earlier was all true and becoming a quick reality. But this reality turned into a nightmare before I could process what happened. This women has become a lifetime movie special and is the exact reason there are terrifying warnings against cheating. Her message to me asked me why I was on holiday with him. Then accused me of knowing that they had bought the house together in this other state and had moved together. She followed that by giving me intimate details about my dog and house that he and I had once shared. Telling me about the things she did to him in our bed and that she had won him fair and square after I neglected him. She told me not to be a home wrecker in the same breath. I was devastated. He was sitting next to our daughters and I when I received all of these messages. Him and I talked for 8 hours. He swore to me that the two of them were in fact broken up and that she only moved down there with him as a friend then they began dating after. Like a fool I believed him for a while. That night she started sending death threats to my youngest sister and myself. She informed me that I should start checking my breaks before my pretty little daughter and I both die and told my sister she would like to fight her. She has never met either of us. Early last year she found out where I lived and sat in front of my house for an entire day while I was at work. My neighbor informed me that it was suspicious and when I got home she pulled away. I called the police but without the license plate number on her rental car, they could do nothing. She has decided to email and call and text us all constantly for the past three years. Him and I have stopped seeing each other romantically for the majority of that time. He also had her removed from the property and tried to break up with her. Unfortunately the death threats that she has still been sending to all of us will not stop so I have had contact with him, as well as his parents who live in different states independent from him and I as well. His parents have also never met her but still receive daily communications from her. When one number or email address is blocked, she creates another. Three weeks ago she sent text message pictures of the herself taking selfies from within his house. His roommates girlfriend came down the stairs to find her broken in and going through everything. Scared for her life she ran upstairs and called the police. This women recently text me again saying the two had gotten back together and informing me I need to lay off. She is what my nightmares are made of.
I want to stay anonymous but what should I do she acted like my best friend why I was recovering from a double stroke hemorrhage and she messed around with my husband knowing me and him are married and me and my husband have starting fixing our marriage for two days after the affair ended she blew up my phone and his I still have the messages and before we figured out how to block her we dont know how many friends she was able too friend request. But two days ago a person that is friends with both me and my husband had to block her because she was trying to come between him and his wife. So she is still trying to come between marriages. So should I tell our married friends who she is or stay out of it?