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Brandy Andrews-Goldie Little Rock, Arkansas

My husband and I were together 13 years married for 10. We had some issues a year before this “friend” destroyed our marriage and separated for 8 months. We decided to work out our issues and were doing great, or so I thought. We got back together in October and by March he was getting a lot of phone calls and texts. Saying he was working late, which was nothing new because of his job, and was just acting different. I kind of blew it off until Father’s Day. I took off work. His phone rings at 6 in the morning and I answered. She says hey sweetie how’s your morning. I said who is this and she hung up.

Then I started noticing things over the next few months. Like when I would go to his contacts it always went straight to her number, his entire text and call log deleted. So I went online and looked up all his calls and text and was blown away. He called and texted one of our supposed to be good friends all day every day. This is in October by the way. Thanksgiving day he went and ate with her family instead of ours and told me and the kids he had to work. He came in after we were done eating with the family and lost his cell phone which my 2 year old nephew found. Needless to say he flipped out. Well December comes around and I’ve been questioning him and hearing things from friends but they deny, deny, deny. Well my car broke down so I had to drive his truck for a few days and in his truck I found letters from her to him about how she loved laying in the bed with him and how she hated that he had to come home to me. Letters saying how perfect they were together.

So I called him and her and it was war from there. She even changed her Facebook picture to a crazy face and said game on. Come to find out he had even been taking my kids with him to see her and told them to lie to me. When I went through the call logs she went and got him another cell phone so I wouldn’t know they were still talking. My daughter finally broke down after I found out and told me everything. She was 12 at the time. It had her so emotionally torn. Needless to say they are now married. They got married 12/12/12. I wish them the best of luck. Not really but I did tell her and him how you got each other is how you will lose each other.

We have a lot of mutual friends and when we run into each other she acts like I’m the one who tried to destroy her life and of course she believes everything he said that I did wrong to him. The day I found out she started posting pictures of them together and when I found out for sure it was going on he was out of state at a pool tournament with friends and I stayed with our kids. He accidentally forgot his cell phone so he says. So I called a mutual friend and he was like yeah he and brandy are here. Now to wrap this up. I’m happy now. My kids are happy now and I wish them all the best because I don’t have room for hate anymore. It took up too much of myself being.

 

 

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12 Responses to “Brandy Andrews-Goldie Little Rock, Arkansas”

  1. T Bryant says:

    Well with friends like that you don’t need enemies, and your right if he will do it with her on you he will do it to her as well karma is a bitch

  2. I am so sorry for you and your children!!! I’ve been there and have people I know that have gone through the same and have in each incident see the same end result!! They either lose each other the same way they got each other or as they become much older and are invested longer financially and their youth and looks are gone, they become just two people living in the same house living their separate lives unhappy because it just works!!! Empty and meaningless. I have four phenomenal daughters from 34yrs. old to 17 yrs. old who unfortunately from their fathers actions have a hard time trusting men! I think therapy helps but it will be therapy in their lives off and on as needed. The big positive that’s come from all of this is 3 out of 4 daughters have become self independent strong women which gives them the confidence they need to have happy successful lives!!!! My forth daughter we will continue to make sure she gets their! Good luck you’s will get their too!!

    • Deidre Goldie says:

      Thank ya much. They are doing pretty good for the most part. All honor roll students and very active in sport. Mind you that he has not came to one sports event since the divorce. He isn’t even allowed to talk or text me or the kids unless she’s with him. So they’ve learned to adjust. It’s just hard on them sometimes. Up until 3 yes ago mom and dad was the perfect couple then in an instant their whole worlds changed. But I do believe with all of my heart that it will make them stronger in the long run. They strive at everything they do so I have no worries that this too shall pass in time and they’ll chalk it up to his loss not theirs. Again thank you very much.

  3. Deidre Goldie says:

    I didn’t put everything that happened in this cause it would’ve been way too long. This is just a short version. My children are in counseling now and doing better. We have 3 children. Only one of them attended their wedding. Thank you all for the comments. Really wish I could’ve told the whole story and more details but I think folks get the big picture.

    • me says:

      What kind of man or father involves his children in his deceit? He sounds like the scum of the earth. He has caused long term damage to his children and all for a slutty homewrecker. If the homewrecker knew that he was doing this to his kids, she is even worse that what I thought. You should thank your lucky stars that you are no longer married to this immoral man that has no character whatsoever. The homewrecker will reap what she sowed because it is very likely he may do this to her one day. Karma is real and the pain you (homewrecker) knowingly cause to innocent people comes back ten-fold to you.

  4. Krystal says:

    Completely disgusting that he involved your children in this…. that to me is the worst part, he should not be involving them in his deceit and lies!! she seems like a complete idiot to be marrying someone that did that to their wife, even with her….. if he will cheat with you he will eventually cheat on you……. anyways good luck and stay strong for you and your children !

  5. annoyed says:

    Ass-hole of the year! Relationships and marriages like this never last. They were built on a lie! my question is do his children hate him as much as I do right now? I don’t even know this guy and I want to kick his ass!

  6. Deidre Goldie says:

    Our youngest and him have a pretty good relationship but she didn’t quite understand the situation. Our older two don’t really speak to him much. They love him of course but the have a lot of resentment and hurt. They are teens now and speak their own minds. He don’t like that and told them they have to respect her when they are at his house so they refuse to go to his house anymore. I’m not gonna force them to go. He even had the nerve to come to me after they got married and ask me to go to court to have my last named changed cause she don’t like us having the same same last name. I said ummmmm no. I could care less about what the donkey don’t like. But thank you all for your comments. Him involving my kids hurt worse than finding out he was cheating with the ratchet donkey. But I’m a strong woman and love my kids and we are doing great without him and his shady ways. We were together for sooo long that I didn’t know how to be a single woman but I’ve learned over the last 3 yrs and I love it!!!!!!

    • Kimberly says:

      Is your ex’s name Phil? Just found a Facebook account called BrandyandPhillip Goldie?! There’s a picture of a young blonde girl with the brides maids. Please tell me it’s not your daughter?!

  7. Diva says:

    Wow he showed just how low he really is by having his kids cover up for him!! True piece of shit!!!!

  8. Mais ils soupçonnent qu’il n’y a pas une telle capacité, il n’y a pas possibilité de tels niveau technologique de l’engagement. Je pense que le rêve est un bon début, nous espérons avoir la possibilité d’innover dans ce lieu.

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