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Brittany Renee Allen Harrison, Arkansas

My husband and I were not married yet but boyfriend and girlfriend when this event took place. I met my husband and was with him in a long distance relationship for upwards of two years. I would visit him for a week or so every few months things were amazing he was my best friend and the only person in my life I’ve ever trusted. I found out I was expecting a child and was very excited and from what he said he was too. I was planning to move to be with him and start a family. My life was amazing and going forward in a great direction. That is until his mother who hated me called my then boyfriend and asked him to come visit her she was “dying soon” like usual and he called and told me he was going to spend the weekend there. I gave him his space and didn’t call all weekend but during the weekend I got a butt dial from his best friend and then hung up on which I thought was odd. Suddenly I started to get an unexplained bad feeling and didn’t know why I brushed it off.

He returned home that Sunday and was acting weird. He got home and went to work. I called and left a mean voicemail on his phone and thought if he listened to it he may not call back so I called his phone again and got into his voicemail. Before I could get to my message I hear one from a guy saying “I’m going to kill you mother f**ker for having sex with Brittany.” My heart sunk, I was devastated and I decided to push the number to get call info and got this guy’s number. I hung up and called him and he told me that her and my boyfriend had sex at the party that weekend! I heard her say so and I couldn’t take it so I hung up. She called me back threatening to kick my ass! Silly her I was 800 miles away. I decided to get on his Facebook page and message this girls friend when I seen a post that she was at the same party I said “I love my girlfriend please don’t tell her what happened” she replied back” if you loved your girlfriend why’d you f**k Brittany?” That was my question too.

By the time he got off work I had gotten ahold of so many people and found out this wasn’t the first girl and wasn’t the first time. My life crumbled and I ended up having a miscarriage 2 days later. My life fell apart and Him and Her both are just as bad. He never did admit to it and he never will. I stayed with him stupidly. Since this, even though I have full access to his money, phone and anything with a password, slowly my love for him dies. I try to be a good wife but in the back of my mind I’m always waiting for it to happen again.

They both were in relationships, they both didn’t care who they hurt and I’m exposing her because she has emotionally scarred me. I forgive her now but I won’t ever forgive him and even though this was years ago, the pain of the trauma this put me through has now made me realize I can’t stay with this man. I hope if you ever read this you know that you destroyed a life I cherished, that not a day goes by that I’m not still hurt and that I pray to God every day that you are forgiven for this because I wouldn’t wish the pain I’ve felt for years on even you. I hope you can live with it because it has torn a wedge in my life that may never be fixed.

 

 

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15 Responses to “Brittany Renee Allen Harrison, Arkansas”

  1. i h8 homewreckers says:

    :( Getting past the kind of.deception you’ve been.put through is hard. Specially.if he.wont admit it.and.be sincere and apologetic. If he did too much
    Damage to you, there is.no.shame in walking.away.
    You will find.someone who doesn’t cause you pain when u look at them. Nightmares torment me often but im still here and still trying.
    I wish u the best! There’s a good man.out there for I :)

  2. me says:

    These cheating pigs sometimes have no idea the damage they cause when they cheat. For them, it is just sex. For the betrayed woman, it is soul destroying. You tried to make it work but not everything can be fixed. The sad thing is this slut will not care about the pain she caused you anyway. All she will care about is the fact that she got blasted for being a filthy skank that cheated on her own man with yours. I hope your husband realizes that he caused your heartache and the end of his marriage because he couldn’t be faithful to you. I wish you luck and I hope you are able to find happiness with a man that will know your true worth.

  3. R&R says:

    I’d fuck her, what’s your problem? Lol

  4. Lana says:

    Leave him whilst your still young and meet a man who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve. Don’t let this define you, in a couple of years if you choose to leave you will look back and wonder why you stayed with this prick for so long.

  5. Diva says:

    I’m sorry you got hurt, but honestly, you went ahead and married him with the full knowledge that he had cheated on you?? And more than once??? Why??????? Sorry but you need to wake up and realize you made a mistake by marrying him. For your own sake please use better judgement next time.

  6. chas says:

    I live in Harrison Arkansas hunny and there is s ton of them here…I been threw it with my husband as we’ll….

  7. Trying to move on says:

    No matter what age you are (I’m 50) or the circumstances (we were living in separate states due to a family situation) – a cheating husband destroys his wife on so many levels – her heart, her ego, her self-esteem, her self-worth, her relationships with friends and family. I’ve done a lot of things I’m not proud of the past 2 years, but when you’ve been with someone for 20 years, it is so hard to let go. For you younger ladies out there – move on as soon as possible. You don’t deserve this kind of treatment, and there is someone out there waiting to give you everything you deserve in life to make you happy.

  8. Cali says:

    If you’re not happy, leave him. You’ll never trust him again, you said your love for him is dying….leave him and go make yourself happy. Why continue to be miserable?

  9. the op says:

    I have since left and you have valid questions as to why i stayed and married him and ill explain. At first for me after this happened i was devistated but i also felt like she and him hurt me so bad i had to WIN. I had to be able to say this was mine because i loved him truely. But after i “won” the depression kicked in and the reality of it all sunk in and in my then very young adult mind thought “if we get married then we can just start over” Silly me. I couldn’t forgive HIM nor forget. The reason i exposed her wasn’t because i didn’t forgive her but because she knowingly had sex with a man who had a pregnant girlfriend but she was also in a relationship. She’s also done this to other people i know. He’s cheated more than this and i have now since left him but of all the women she’s the only one who knew. As young adults we always feel as though pain can be erased, that men can change from scum to prince charminh if we love them enough and by the time you realize your with a cruel narcissistic person you have kids, selfesteem has been beaten out of you and you no longer know how to fix it. It took me growing up years later woman after woman to realize MY worth. And I infact HAVE forgiven her but i will never forget the betrayl that she put me through. Or him and i am more angry with him by far he owed me more she was just a hoe with easily spreadable legs and potentially no selfesteem either. She got her karma her new fiance tried to sleep with me two years ago i didnt I’m not a whore and he’s been locked up on and off for the last 3 years and right now she is too. She’s not living a happy life karma for helping a narcissist destroy mine.

  10. HonestDave says:

    This girl doesn’t sound like a homewrecker. Sounds like a drunken mistake to me, and I’ll be honest.. I would, she’s hot!

  11. Jesse says:

    Maybe you should have learned your lesson from the long distance D that you were so mad to get, or maybe a clue could have been gained from the fact that this happened before you were married, or maybe even the ultimate clue is this happened and you still CHOSE to get married. Advice of the day: Learn to like threesomes

  12. Brittany Allen says:

    This is insane lol omfg. FOR ONE: I NEVER had sex with him…that’d be why he never addmitted it. It never happened you crazy ass whore. And she made all of it up in her head cuz i was at the same party as him..just so everyone knows…what she says happened was when i was 17 im 22 now. lol wtf. and Ew your boyfriends gross. anyways my fiancee didn’t try to sleep with her i seen the half naked pictures she sent to him askin if he wanted to get back. all the while im sittin there with here stockin my fiancee to try and get back at me for something that never happened. I was actually the victim in the whole damn thing. This bitch is seriously wacko. when i seen this shit i about fell out of my seat laughin. like how can you be so fucked up in the head to post anyone on here at all exspecially when its only a cry for attention from whoever will give her some. And obviously shes a liar i aint in jail. Yeah I did 3 months here recently but its the only time I’ve ever been to jail for more than a night. and thats only happened twice. sooo ya’ll believe who you want all the while ill be sitten back doin me as usual while everyone who does, say they do, and more who dont know me at all talk their shit cuz their soo jealous of how sexy and fuckin awesome I am. Thank you. :)

  13. MaxiPaderson says:

    Brittany, I think you could really benefit from a community college Introduction to spelling and grammar course.

  14. brittany allen says:

    Wow aren’t you just the best shit talker around. Hater

  15. you are stupid says:

    omg & you still married him..even after he cheated…i would have never done that..it is stupid..you should have been over the affair way before you agreed to get married & now your are the one who looks stupid…so when he cheats on you again, the old saying goes, “play me once shame on you, play me twice shame on me..” i dont mind if a women forgives a man after he had cheated (only when there are kids involved) but you married the man that cheated (have no kids) & that is the stupidest decision i have heard on this site…

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