My husband Mike and I were married in 2006 when our first daughter was 5 months old. This made a complete family for both of us, as I brought three children into the marriage from a previous marriage,
I have been married to my husband for 12 years when I was told I was dying due to illness. So he felt he couldn’t watch me dye. So he got a girlfriend and when I found out I talked to her. She said she was so sorry, but she keeps coming in the picture. I have asked her to leave our family alone. We have two small children that need both of us at this time. But she doesn’t feel that it is wrong. So she calls him and texts him. I know he is to blame too, but I really don’t want to die alone.
My husband and I have always driven a big rig together. We heard about all the money to be made up in North Dakota where the oil is. We decided that this was our chance to pay off all our bills and get ahead in life. We live in North Carolina. He was to go up, work three weeks and come home for a week. I was staying at home, taking care of the kids. Let me tell you….this did NOT happen. When he got up there, they would work like crazy for four or five days and then have three or four days off. Apparently, my husband started going out to bars with the guys and drinking. He has never been a drinker. Then I started noticing that he would never answer the phone when I called, but would always call me back.
My hand to God, I dreamed about him cheating on me the night he met this w****. He met her in a bar; she took him home, to where her children were, and screwed him. I talked to him the next day, and he was very distant and I told him about the dream. He told me later that it scared the s*** out of him. It took me another week to find out for sure he was messing around, and the way I found out is he pocket dialed me and I heard him talking to her. I have NEVER been so devastated in my life. I loved this man with all my heart and I thought I would die. He confessed after I confronted him via phone, and I told him to leave THAT DAY and maybe we could work things out. Turns out, he had moved in with her. And started doing drugs, which he had never done. He was doing CRACK for god’s sake. I got the b****’s first name out of him, and thanks to a friend, who works for a lawyer, I had her last name, address, phone numbers, name of kids and ex-husbands, criminal record (and yes, she had an extensive one). I called her and told her he was married, and she needed to boot his ass out and send him home. Her exact words were “I don’t care, I want him anyway.”
I did not have the money to fly up to ND, and she should thank God every day that I didn’t. Meanwhile, he stopped sending any money, and would not answer my calls. Over the course of the next four weeks, my heart was thoroughly broken. I lost about 30 pounds, started smoking again, and was generally a mess. My husband was cold; the only time he would call was when he was sober for a few minutes. He was disgusted with himself even as he was screwing her! He was sucked into that drug lifestyle so quickly. I prayed and begged God to make me stop loving him so I could stop hurting. Our teenage daughters witnessed all this, and were horrified at the turn our lives were taking. My mission in life was to destroy her. I called CPS on her, I called the cops, and I did everything I could. My husband finally decided he had had enough. He told me he heard a song that reminded him of everything we used to be, and had to come home.
I wasn’t sure I wanted him back, but I did want him out of her life. He came home March 1, 2012. This crazy b**** called me and told me all the sexual things they did together, SHE IS A NASTY w****. My husband told me it looked like IT had tried to claw its way out of her belly….when he got home, he had a phone she had given him and the pictures….EWWWWWWWW, her nasty, flabby boobs, her crotch that looked deformed and rotten. We have been back together for a year now, but things will never be the same. I will never love him like I used to. I will never trust him again. He said he will spend the rest of his life making it up to me, that he regrets it, blah, blah, blah. I never believed he would do this to me. Her life has gone to hell in a hand basket. She got convicted of child abuse, felony drug charges, etc. My only wish is that she love someone like I loved him, and that she experiences the heartbreak that I did. I still love him, but not like I used to, and that is sad, because I thought we had the perfect love story.
My boyfriend and I had been together for 2 years when this w**** came into the picture. My boyfriend met her through a mutual friend I found out later on. He and I had gotten into a fight over something stupid, he said he needed space. He turned off his phone and I didn’t hear from him for 3 days. He called me asked me to come over to talk. I did and he confessed he had spent the weekend with her and they had slept together. I flew off the handle and made him call her with me there. They ended it and I heard it all. But she kept texting him saying why do you want her? He texted back saying thought of her the whole time I was with you. He blocked her number, I forgave him and we worked our s*** out. I ended up pregnant and he lost his head. During my pregnancy I got multiple messages from this woman on Facebook. She would tell me how she had sex with my boyfriend the night before and that she forgot her cigarettes in his car. Remember, I was PREGNANT with his child. I was also babysitting his daughter through all this (we worked different shifts.) I told him that I couldn’t do so anymore because of his b****. So this thing would message me on Facebook “I’m supposed to tell you we didn’t have sex so you will keep watching his daughter.” Excuse me b****? This thing also had a son of her own she couldn’t even get custody of and who lived with his dad. She would tell me she was a better lay than me and it should be her pregnant with his kid because she’s a better mom. I ended up leaving him when I was 5 months pregnant. I was losing my mind dealing with this s*** and while I know he was NOT innocent, why the hell does this b**** do the things she does? She knew about me the WHOLE time. She never stopped. Always found a way to get to him. Even went as far as changing her number when he blocked it.