So here’s the story of the whore bag home wrecker in my life – my hubby and I have been together for 9 years, married 6. Best friends, so much alike it was scary. He has always been a great provider for our family and so I have been fortunate to have been able to stay home with our daughter for 2 + years and now can go to school. We have a beautiful daughter together who is his lil mini me.
So, I started school in December going at night, so we wouldn’t have to pay for daycare/sitter. While in school my hubby was going to the gym leaving my 13 year old and 2 year old home while he was “working out” with his so called buddies. The gym is open 24 hours a day. Granted he works till 5-6pm and would go around 9pm (which he had been doing even before I started school) and not get home till midnight-1am, claiming the gym was packed then! So my suspicions or as I like to call is my gut instinct kicked in. Keep in mind that even as of March he was so loving to me bringing me coffee or dinner at night while I was in class. Texting me he loves me and so on. A normal routine in our marriage. So our marriage wasn’t really ALL that bad. We have had our ups and downs (like any marriage) but NEVER once did I ever really think he’d cross that line, we fought about stupid shit. So about 3 weeks ago he got home around 2am. He did he’s usual routine came in watched tv then took his shower. I then decided to “snoop” in his phone and found a text that had a guy’s name but suspected it wasn’t a guy. I questioned him about the text he said it was his friend that he works out with at the gym. That was on Wednesday. So I decided to look that guy up on his facebook and low and behold that guy’s number was on his facebook and it wasn’t the same number! So my hunt was on.
That Saturday I asked my sister to call the number and see if a guy or girl answered. It was a girl. I came home and grabbed his phone and got to her number woke my hubby up and said let’s call the bitch! He immediately said hang up. Some bitch answered and my reply was how long have you been f*cking my husband! She hung up and then I just went off. I was so mad! After yelling and questioning he denied it was sexual. He left that morning and I packed his shit and kicked him out! It has been 3 weeks of hell. I lost 12 lbs in 10 days, can’t eat, sleep and some days have to drag myself out of bed. So he called and asked if he could come over on the following day. We talked and he broke down crying (in 9 years I had only seen him cry 3x) saying he messed up and was sorry he hurt me and that he wanted to work on us but we needed time apart because we didn’t want to jump back to the same routine and start fighting over this and what not.. I agreed, he admitted to the affair and all and gave me details. This is a BIG step for my husband. So long story short neither of us want us to go back to fighting. I agreed we had some issues, but I didn’t think at the time were a big deal but we’ve both been opening up and talking and at times I think we can work it out. So he comes over every morning to see us (and has done this since he left) before work and comes over every night after work, some days eats dinner, we talk, we cry, and some days I have to ask over and over why, how come, and probably the same questions over and over. I went to a therapist last week and she said it’s perfectly normal for me to want to know details and that asking the same questions is a way of trying to catch him in a lie?
I know he loves me I don’t doubt that, but what made him cross that line is what is bothering me. He came over last night and out of the blue said, I think I need to go talk to your counselor – I was so shocked! I wanted to jump for joy. He has NEVER thought about counseling before and was always against it. He said he felt he was too angry all the time and sick of feeling that way and wanted to seek help and see what she suggested about our situation. I am hoping that once we are in counseling maybe even if he doesn’t know the answer it’ll come out then? I can’t foresee the future, I don’t know if he will ever come home. But I just know we have to at least try. I am in no way a perfect wife. But I love my family regardless and it’s important that we at least try for us and for our daughter. I’ve been married before and know that it sucks to have to raise your kids apart. But I think we can work on it as long as both parties are willing to try. But in no way shape or form will I allow this bitch and him to be in contact. My doctor says for my peace of mind he is to call her in front of me without her knowing and tell her to leave him alone and that he can NOT go back to that gym (we have several more so that’s not a big deal) and if I ask to look through his phone there shouldn’t be an issue to hid it. He agreed. But said he wants to hear it from the doctor. I think he may think I made that part up? But honestly that’s what she said. That’s how we start to rebuild the trust.
So back to this ugly bitch – I have blocked her from calling/texting him but she can still send iMessages via internet on an iPhone and they are only received nothing sent back! I have texted her and told her to stay away from MY family and if I see her number on his phone I am contacting the police because I am the owner of those cell phones. They’re in MY name not his! The bitch literally lives 2 minutes from my house. I found out where she lives and that’s how I got her last name so, I called her mom last Saturday and told her mom did you know your 22 year old daughter is having sex with a 35 year old married man! Her mother said her daughter told her we were almost divorced! In the state of VA you have to be LEGALLY separated for one year with a child before you can get a divorce. I just found out 3 weeks ago! Lies on top of lies! The mother said the family is against the whole relationship but can’t stop the daughter. The daughter is 22 and living at home and babysits her niece during the day! She’s a POS and did I mention ugly as heck! She has horse teeth and was a fat girl trying to lose weight and lost it and now thinks the first man she talked to in gym she needed to go after! She literally is liking everything he likes from music, to clothes to gym stuff. It’s like she’s trying to be him and have his interests so he’ll want her! No individuality whatsoever. I know my husband is just as guilty but this bitch knew and knows he’s married and is still trying to get with him! If any of you are in VA Beach and go to Planet Fitness look out for this crazy bitch and stop her before she’s on to her next prey! Obviously she has daddy issues since she is messing with a man 12 years older! Sick!
Thanks for letting me vent and post this ugly bitches face all over your page so everyone can know she’s a home wrecking whore from Virginia Beach VA!