This woman is married with children- she had an affair with my husband while I was pregnant with our 3rd child about 18 months ago. She knew he has having trouble in his relationship and knew he was married and his wife was pregnant. She is a whore and while my husband has broken my heart after 12 yrs of marriage and 2 affairs….she is a mother and knew exactly what she was doing. That is the lowest of the low. Evil!
Long story short this is Christy Fletcher of Laporte, Indiana. The drug dealing mistress. My mother in law divorced my father in law after finding out he was cheating on her with this thing. She has an arrest record a mile long FOR DEALING COKE twice, along with many other drug charges. We forbid my father in law and christy from seeing our children, said when he got rid of her and clean we would slowly bring him back in our lives. He gets clean after 2 years and leaves christy and my mother in law and him agree they want to work it out, my mother in law moves in with him into his brand new house, we’re going good, they were getting along, had a nice house, he was not in drugs, he got rid of christy so after a month of my mother in law being back with him they invite us over for a family dinner, I agreed to take the baby bc I knew if things didn’t work out she wouldn’t remeber, and took my 6 year old to my grandma’s for the night bc I didn’t want her thinking her grandparents were back together if they were not gona last. So we go have dinner, have a nice time, my husband is happy feeling like his parents are back together and boom 2 days later my father in law wakes my mother in law up at 445 in the morning after not coming home all night with christy standing next to him telling my mother in law to get her crap and get out. So fast forward to this afternoon I text my father in law a long text pissed off telling him what I really thought of him, what he did, what I thought about christy. And she had his phone, her and I bicker ed back and fourth till I sent her photos of her several mugshots and told her these were only a few of the reasons we would never approve of this, and she replied she felt famous and sent me a dirty photo of herself. So let’s make her famous!!!!
This woman helped my husband destroy our family. Completely turned him against me while they were hiding their relationship. He got her pregnant and she aborted it saying it was my fault since he was supposedly getting back with me. Also convinced him he was cheating on her with me while we were still married. Real peach of a winner and lied to him but somehow he still beloved her. You get what you deserve karma sucks.
I would like to add a side note about myself and my personality before this little biography of a “home wrecker” ensues. I have always been depicted as having a “realist” personality throughout relationships, whether as a friendship, boyfriend/girlfriend status and even as a wife. When I met my current husband, I didn’t ONLY admire him for his physique, personality and the determination to consistently prove his love for me but also for his past, present and future baggage that would follow behind him, his down-right grotesque habits, his failures and the relationships that he had began prior to us coming together as one. My concrete feelings throughout personal relationships were that of being as open as possible about past friendships, relationships, desires, needs, etc. Whatever has happened in the past with whomever, is fair game because I didn’t know him and vice versa.
The BIGGEST failures, in my opinion, are not being trustworthy because of the lack in truth, openness and communication. If a man cannot communicate to his spouse that he has dark desires because of being firghtened of the outcome within his truth, he will begin to journey secretly. It is the same for a woman. Let’s get real people, whether in a relationship and/or marriage, we all still look at the opposite sex. It is what the two do within their relationship about this “reality” that will ultimately pave the way for their healthy future WITHOUT infidelity. Now mind you, I have zero tolerance for any forms of cheating, whether emotional, physical or just through words and pictures. I will harp on this until I am six feet under. If communication is not present on day one about the entire package of each, there WILL be a war that ensues. It is not if but when. I met my husband in January of 2012, as we worked at the same company. We went on our first date a couple days later, where we conversed for hours. From that day forward, we were inseparable. My husband is the only other man that my son knows besides his biological father, which I will always strive for. In April of 2013, we had our daughter and in September of 2013, we were married. Our long talks sometimes consisted of speaking about our past relationships so Kala was not someone I wasn’t familiar with. A high school sweetheart that ended when she found someone she thought was better for her, which led to her first pregnancy with that someone.
My husband and her were friends on Facebook and I was okay with that as he asked before confirming and I trusted him. I am not exactly sure when their “affair” started but she contacted me at the end of May with a full confession. Her reasoning behind why she confessed was because my husband had ended it and blocked her number, which devastated her. I had even communicated with her on the phone that same night of the confession to get more of a detailed glimpse of their relationship. She stated several times that she was shocked that I was so easy-going with her rather than pushing juvenile statements. I proceeded to tell her that I did not make a commitment to her but to him but don’t get it twisted, I bluntly told her that her portion of this affair was disrespectful to me as a wife, and toward my children because at that moment, their world could be shattered because I was deceived and she played her role knowing he was married. Mind you, she is presently with the same guy, engaged and has two kids of her own with him. The affair consisted of several text messages, explicit pictures and phone calls. She was ready to leave her current finance for my husband and was trying anything she could to get my husband to leave. “I love you’s” were exchanged throughout, talks of being married to each other, having kids with each other and intercourse were also noted within these conversations. She tried to manipulate my husband into thinking that I needed to get a job because I should be making my own spending money, rather than his. Reality proved this stemmed off jealousy of what she dreamed of her future being. I am currently a junior in college and as a married couple, we each spoke our opinions of me quitting my current job to pursue the degree as well as aid in the children. This was no one man decision.
There was a night, about a month prior to Kala messaging me of the affair, that myself and my husband had an argument. He said he was leaving to stay at his parents to cool off. The four, almost five years we’ve been together, we have never separated, taken a break or plainly walked out. Come to find out he was to meet her that night for intercourse and he “pussied” out because he couldn’t get the nerve to lay down with another woman. She was devastated, as she told me herself. After the truth was out about their activities, I unloaded on him. I had lost my brother when I was 17 but I must say that fixing this now broken marriage was the hardest I have ever been through. We are still married and we never separated during this time. I was completely open as well and told him every time I felt like quitting, but love is a strong drug. Call me weak for staying with a cheater and I will understand your thoughts but for better or worse was not something I preached in my white dress because it was cute. If he ever deceives me again, I will walk away knowing that I did everything I could and I didn’t just punk out when it got rough. It is astonishing to say, as I type this, that I trust my husband more than I did when I met him, but it is true. Our communication was strong before but stronger now. Like I stated above, I didn’t look for perfect but for someone I could grow with amongst all the blows thrown our way and negativity that followed each of us into our future. You all may be wondering why I am blowing this girl up on this site if I have clearly stated that I have worked things out as well as continuing to grow as a spouse. Kala has continued to contact me, allowing me to try and remember that she was his first and current love amongst so many other things. She had texted him the following day stating that she still loved him and didn’t know what to do not being with him, and you know what, because this has been the only outlet to preach the bullshit.
Kala, if you do find this and read just know that while you cracked me, I didn’t break. As a mother yourself, you should be ashamed of yourself for putting a total of four children at risk of a split home because the actions you made and him following. Do not EVER point the finger at me, the wife who was oblivious to these actions, as the reason you and him pursued this affair. Own up to the actions before, during and after. Karma runs full circles. I was cool with you, knowing you were the side chick because it wasn’t you I was committed to but you continuing to run your mouth after you realized I wasn’t leaving and you weren’t getting your man, has ended in my glory by sharing your beautiful love story.
She used to be a friend of my husband and he was interested in her till he realized she only used him for things. She showed no interest in pursuing things until we got married. Then she tried to cause tension in our marriage thinking he was going to leave me for her. He blocked her and cut her off.
She likes to give blow jobs out in the car! Caught my boyfriend snapchatting her, seemed like nothing at first. Then one night we got into a pretty bad fight and his choice for the night was this person. Shortly after he complained because his dick was all itchy and red, it all makes sense now. Whatever she has, it comes with a price. She messed with someone who had a loving family, and she even took pictures with our family dog. Thank god- he wants nothing to do with her. She came on to him. Stay away from her, she’s a home wrecker! Not quite sure I’m forgiving my boyfriend but if he wants to keep me he’s got a lot of points to make up and his ass is getting a tighter leash moving forward. She convinced him to go to her apartment after that blow job, he’s a man couldn’t resist I guess. His penis was itchy for two weeks lmfao.