Well this is a very long story so I will try to make it short.  My husband and I have been together for 17 years and have 3 beautiful girls. I was diagnosed with breast cancer and fought a long hard battle but finally was over it and getting better. I thought the world of my husband. We became very close through my illness; he was great stuck by my side and everything.

As I was recovering my husband took a new job at work and became involved with this homewrecking whore! They took a business trip away together and continued their affair for 3 months before they were caught. I blame myself for being so stupid but I have taken my husband back. Not sure it was the right thing to do because now he’s back and I have lost something for him, not just trust that, I can’t seem to get back. I love him, I know I do, but that closeness we had is gone! I keep telling myself to give it time but it’s been almost a year ago now and I just am not sure. I just can’t get over it.  What do you do any advice?