I never thought I would be submitting my story but here I am. I want the whole world to know what type of home wrecker Kristel Lara is. My husband and I have been together for 13 years with 10 of those years being married. We have 3 beautiful children together my youngest being 2 years old. Our marriage has never been perfect on the contrary it’s been hard but we have always overcome any obstacle that has come our way. When we got married we were very young had no money so we just got married by the court but on our 10 year anniversary which was just 6 months ago, we decided to get married by the church in front of God, our family, and friends. We had a beautiful ceremony followed by a grand reception. It was my dream wedding, just like I had dreamt of when I was a little girl. However my world came tumbling down a month ago.
I received a notification of a child support case being opened in my husband’s name! Mother of the child was Kristel Lara, his co-worker. Not only was she his co-worker she was once a person I considered my friend. She was so nice and friendly at the time and boy was I wrong. What’s worse is that she would watch my children so that my husband and I could have some alone time. She came to my children’s birthday parties!!! Last birthday party she attended was at our home where she was welcomed and appreciated by me. Although other wives of my husband coworkers could see right through her and warned me I defended her, saying “that’s her character she’s just friendly like that.” The other wives had noticed that she was too touchy and flirty with their husbands. She would always want to be the center of attention. I felt sorry for her because no one liked her. I never saw her that way with my husband if I would have I would have said something to her. Well at the birthday she announced she was pregnant I thought nothing of it because I had seen her out with a guy before. I congratulated her and went on my way. A few weeks later Kristel had a dilemma with one of the wives at work so it was brought up to the manager that none of the wives felt comfortable with her working there anymore so she was transferred to a different location. At that point I told my husband we had to cut ties with Kristel because the wife she had an issue with was now one of my good friends so I felt I had the obligation to end the friendship we had with Kristel. He agreed saying Kristel was just problematic and that his job site would be better off without her, that she was ditsy and annoying that she was just an inconvenience and that when they were partners (at the jobsite) she was just costing him money. So he was glad she was being transferred. I later came to find out that that arrangement didn’t last long she became a floater so she would still be around.
The day I found out about the child support case I felt my world came crashing down on me. I saw no signs. Of course we had our disagreements but nothing we never worked out. We still went out on dates, had family outings, holidays were normal. Nothing made me suspicious. My husband had never slept anywhere else but our home. I was so confused and hurt. How could he do this to me, to our children? How could Kristel? Knowing he was married and had a family. She interacted with our children and was welcomed into our home. What kind of monster did I let in? She also claims to be a Christian and attends church!! I confronted him at work and he admitted to having an affair. I was still hoping it was a cruel joke on her behalf. After our altercation I left heartbroken thinking what am I going to tell our children? I then was notified that Kristel was actually there at the job site. I didn’t know that she was a floater and I didn’t see her during my altercation with my husband which took an hour or so. In my anger and rage I turned back around not knowing what I would do. I saw her as soon as I parked and I gave her my piece of mind. (Not going into details because I don’t want to get in trouble and I have to think about my children)
I am still hurt and confused still trying to figure out things. I’m just taking it day by day. I know my husband did me wrong but I just can’t erase 13 years and yes I still love my husband. He says it was all a big mistake. She was persistent and he wasn’t happy and felt lonely which is no excuse so he fell into the temptation. He said he always told her he wasn’t leaving me or his children. It was just sex. She told him she was on birth control and thought she could never have children so when she got pregnant he told her she needed to have an abortion because he didn’t want another child especially with someone that wasn’t his wife. She refused. I believe she wanted to trap him telling him lies about birth control and not being able to have children. She probably thought he’d leave me if she got pregnant. She was dead wrong. Instead she caused a lot of heartache, pain, and suffering. And they both changed me. I no longer trust anyone. I would give everyone the benefit of the doubt I always felt that everyone deserved a chance. I no longer feel that way which saddens me because that’s one quality I loved about myself but yet it was my biggest downfall.
We are currently waiting on DNA testing and everything that comes along. I ask God to give me the strength that I need everyday. I took my vows very seriously and I believe in God and in his word that I should forgive but how can I when I’m so broken? I have attached some photos of the two faced hoe wrecking monster. Beware!!! She likes working with men, don’t let her I’m a sweet innocent person act fool you. I can only imagine what sappy story she is telling her family and friends. Tell them the truth b**** you went after a married man that had kids of his own. That he didn’t leave his family for you, what kind of piece of trash goes after a man she knows is married. It’s karma and believe me there’s a lot more coming your way Kristel Lara. She’s originally from Laredo, TX but currently lives in San Antonio, TX.