I wasn’t going to post this exposure, but after not hearing from Syreeta Palmer for a year, out of the blue she sends me a message in April telling me that she was looking at my profile and saw lots of pictures of my son, but none of my husband. She wanted to know if we were still together because she still had feelings for him and believes that if she would have had a better paying job that my husband would have chosen to be with her. I have since blocked her from my profile (my husband has had her blocked for over a year), but still want others to know about her. I apologize for the long post, but I wanted to get out as much as I could.
My husband and I met 7 years ago and our relationship developed fast. We were living together within a month and it seemed serious. We agreed that cheating was anything you wouldn’t do when your significant other was around, or wouldn’t want them seeing. He was the one who voiced this definition and I thought that this was great. Finally, someone who cared about a relationship like I did. 7 months in, he told me that when he went to OCS (Officer Candidate School) for the Army, that he did not want a girlfriend. I was hurt and decided that if he didn’t want to be with me then that I would end things and not drag it out. I ended up moving to Colorado. 18 months later he contacts me to see how I am. He comes to visit and everything goes back to how it was. He told me when he moved to Texas in 2 months he wanted me to move with him. He was going to be deploying soon after he got to Texas, but wanted me to be there when he got back so we could get married. I agreed and packed all my stuff to move there in 2010. Things were great and we were enjoying spending time together before he left. He started to get texts and was telling me it was from this girl he was seeing after I moved. She was asking why he was with me and if I was pregnant and blackmailing him to be with me. I told him it bothered me yet nothing was done and they kept coming. On December 16, 2010, I sent Syreeta a message on Facebook telling her that I was his girlfriend and I knew she knew about me. I told her I wasn’t pregnant and didn’t need to blackmail him because he wanted to be with me. I told her if she continued to contact him that I would tell her all the things he had said about her. She said she would never contact him again. She lives in Alabama and had this whole time….