Where shall I begin?? Well for start I have been married to my husband for 21 years! He was my middle school sweet heart. I can say when we met it was love at first sight. I was 15 at the time I met him. We dated for a year before I had our first child a son. I was 16 1/2 when I had our son. After 4 years we had our second son. I was 20. At that point we decided to get married make it official. We later had a 3rd child in 2009. She was our blessing. So a little bit after that I suppose my husband fell into temptation. He was a restaurant manager and there he met this “homewrecker” Roxanne Gomez. I suppose with me being so busy with the kids, house work and working full time I didn’t realize what was happening right underneath my nose. Don’t get me wrong we did have what many beloved was the “Perfect marriage”. Haha oh so I even thought. We did everything together, so many family outings, traveling, camping, going out etc.
We were not a boring couple. We were also very active with each other “intimately” but that still didn’t stop my husband leading into temptation with this s***. I started to suspect after him having unexpected meetings. Lies, after lies. So one day in 2011 I decided to out a GPS tracker in his vehicle. Once the technician stating to install device he discovered not one but two hidden cell phones right underneath the steering column. I had to swallow that and put them back. Well later that night we decided to buy the Spider-Man movie at Wal -Mart. At that point I couldn’t hold it in so I confronted him. Of course he denied having secret phones and any wrong doing. Long story short we argued and had a huge fight. He left that night & went straight to the homewreckers apartment. That’s when I discovered it was real.
I did take him back. However I did investigate who lived at this apartment. I called his job & asked for information. The girls at work were more than willing to give me info. That’s when I learned who Roxanne was. Time went on but he never stopped we separated at least twice and reunited. I tried so hard to make my marriage work. I was the only one fighting. It was a long journey as it seemed. I confronted this trash and she said. My husband promised her a life together. He asked for her to give him 5 years. So our kids would be big and he could leave. He started to slip, he lost his job because he would sneak away leave restaurant unattended to see her. Finally in December 2012 enough was enough. He decided never to come home and stay with her. Right before Christmas he abandoned his kids and me. That was the 1st Christmas without him after 20 years! This lady threatened him saying if he came back to me that was it. She would no longer wait and he was to leave us or else. To this day it’s been 8 months now. He went from a wealthy life style to a raunchy apt. This s*** doesn’t work, doesn’t know how to drive. She lives off her dead husband’s life insurance money. She uses this man that was murdered, money to support and buy him gifts.
I have given up. I am ready to divorce however he still argues with me as if I was the bad one. God sees everything and god doesn’t like ugly. This tramp knew very well this man was married yet she did everything in her power to buy my husband’s heart. Life goes one and karma is real. This man has lost all connection with his family and parents; he refuses to talk to anyone. Maybe because he is too ashamed to face them. He never wants to be around his kids. These people are evil. I would never wreck a family as Roxanne has. My kids ask why?? Why this happened. Only god knows. In time we will heal.