My story starts out with me and my ex-boyfriend were together for three and half years. We had a good relationship, I thought, we really never fought much till the end. Which I found out why because of this homewrecker Aqueta Helmer. Me & my ex-boyfriend had opened a business on our own. The business was going great. We talked about having a baby together, I already had 2 kids with my ex-husband. Well I got pregnant and we both were happy. His family was so happy. My family wasn’t so happy because they didn’t like my ex and I didn’t care I was so in love with him. I ruined my credit and spent every dime trying to support us because he didn’t work for the first two years of our relationship. Before I caught him with the home wrecker I helped him buy his car with the down payment. He met her at a friends child birthday party that me and him went to and I had no idea that he was talking to her and seeing her for 2 weeks. Now here is the story after getting a little history between me and him.
I was 4 months pregnant. This girl knew I was pregnant from him and we lived together and had a business together. Well on October 28th, I got a phone call from one of his friends telling me that he and her were sleeping together and met up for 2 weeks. That he had met up with her last night while I was at home cooking and cleaning the house all day. I was shocked and couldn’t believe it. They told me her name and I had her on my Facebook. So I messaged her on Facebook to see if it was true by this time I was already very upset and crying. She sent me a message back “yes me and him been together and I’m glad you know it saves me a phone call.”
Right then I fall apart my world came crashing down. I was 4 months pregnant and now I found out my boyfriend is sleeping with other girl. I was at work when I found out so I left work and went to pack up my stuff and went and move back in with my parents. It took me two days to move back since I was pregnant and couldn’t lift anything heavy so I left ALOT of my stuff there. I was so scared being alone and pregnant. He played games with me telling me he wanted to be with me and the baby for a whole month after. I believed him putting all my hope that he was going to stop seeing her and be with me and our baby. But little did I know he moved the home wrecker into the house we were sharing only one day after I moved out. She started putting all kinds of stuff on Facebook how she was going to be the mother of my unborn child. She threated me so many times its unreal. She sent me all kinds of messages on Facebook how they were going to get married and I better let them have my child and I was unfit and all kinds of stuff. Mind you I don’t do drugs or really drink that much, both of them are drunks & use drugs. But I’m unfit.
She still to this day post stuff about me on Facebook and sends me messages. She loves to start drama with me. I try to ignore it but it always gets back to me. She even has pretended to be pregnant for him, mind you she has 4 kids already, so that his family will accept her. But she posted a fake ultrasound picture which my ex mom figure out it was fake. His family can’t stand her and she is not allowed on their property because of everything she done to me. It’s really sad because the one who is going to suffer is my daughter. She never met her dad and he doesn’t care. She is now 3 months old and I’ve footed all the bills. He hasn’t helped me once. And Honestly I don’t want her to even know him. He is a drunk and on drugs. This girl is all about drama and I don’t want my precious little girl around all that crazy stuff. I still get random messages on Facebook from her and she still randomly post stupid stuff on Facebook about me. The sad part is she older than me and calls me childish when she is the one who starts it all.
I just hope Karma gets both of them. I hope they both fall on their faces and he does same thing to her. He choice her & her kids over me & his OWN daughter. None of her kids are from him but I guess he would rather raise her kids then his own daughter. But I’m doing better. It was so hard while I was pregnant. I spent so many nights crying and feeling like it was my fault and I felt like I wasn’t good enough. She made fun of me saying I was so fat & ugly (mind you I was pregnant & she is fatter than me even when I was pregnant) I lost over 70lbs after I had my little girl. I work full time and take care of all 3 of my kids with the help of my parents. I am also going back to college. I also found an awesome guy who is great with my kids and treats me so good. I love my life but it took a lot to get it back right after this happened to me. I still have ups and downs but in the end I know I’m better off now. But still waiting on the karma bus to run them both over!