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Tara Love Kersey

My husband and I have been married for 17 years. We have a ten year old daughter who used to think the world of her dad ( and is slowly coming back around to those feelings). Like every couple who has been married for many years, we have had our ups and downs – times when one of us was too busy for the other, for me that being taking care of my daughter, for my husband that being his career. The first few years of our marriage were difficult because I worked all the time and my husband was a medical resident taking call every other night for years in a row. We worked hard to make a successful live for ourselves. Nothing was given to us! We were both very ambitious and very hard workers. Once he finished residency, we began trying to have a baby. It took a few years but we got our amazing baby girl. In my eyes she was a miracle – a gift to me from my deceased father-in-law since I had been told by several fertility specialists that I was very likely infertile and should consider adoption. Just when we had resolved that we would be a childless couple, I became very ill and eight weeks later we learned that I was pregnant. I was so happy to be given the chance to be a mommy that I vowed I would be the best mommy a child could ask for. So along the way, through the years, she became my priority – not my husband. But at the same time, I was no longer his priority. He was deeply devoted to his career and being the best that he could be. I don’t think that either of us deliberately distance ourselves from one another, it just happened. Don’t get me wrong – we rarely fought or argued. I thought we had a pretty decent marriage.

UNTIL the past year or so when my husband turned very angry and hateful towards me and my daughter for no apparent reason. After a year or so of wondering why my husband had suddenly turned into a monster, I confronted him about his attitude and his air of secrecy. The secrecy, I felt, was mostly about money and a general lack of communication, but when I confronted him he told me that he had been seeing someone that he worked with for about a year. I felt like my heart had stopped beating and that I might die. I certainly never expected to hear those words from him. I thought I had married a special man, a man unlike all the other men I had met in my life.. I thought I had a husband who respected himself too much and loved his family too much to ever let himself go there. Come to find out this person (with three kids by two different baby daddies) had been knocking herself out to seduce my husband while they were working. Supposedly she would “bump” up against him with her breasts and bend over in front of him with her thong hanging out of her scrubs. He says she relentlessly pursued for at least nine months before he gave in and hooked up with her. (Keep in mind that she had a very small child at the time, like two or three years old and two older children who were teen or pre-teen.) In my opinion, a good mother is more interested in her children’s well-being and happiness rather than chasing a married man. May I also say that this person knew my husband was married with a child, and she just didn’t give a damn! Still doesn’t. No remorse, or guilt, or shame on her part at all. She thinks she was perfectly justified in doggedly pursuing a married man with a daughter who thought he hung the moon. She nearly ruined my marriage and my daughter’s soul, but thank god I came to my senses and decided that some skanky whore doesn’t get to decide when my marriage ends – I do. My husband has the deepest regrets for what has he done – not only for how it has affected me and my daughter, but also how it has affected our extended family and friends. He was one of the least likely guys you would expect this behavior from and complete and total shock is what everyone in my world felt when they learned of this situation.

My husband and I love each other and are resolved to keeping our family intact. We have been working with a therapist and both he and I have changed. He is the husband I always wished he would be, and I in turn am trying to be the best wife I can be. I would like to not be one of those people hell-bent on revenge and destroying the wanna-be- home wrecker, but she has no remorse and continues to try to contact my husband to this day even though he made it clear to her months ago that she was the biggest mistake of his life. Their affair continued off and on for 18 months, mostly while I was away with my daughter on mommy/daughter trips. I would love an apology from this person. I would love for my family (and her) to be able to move on and heal but she does not seem open to that so I am going to make sure that the world knows what kind of person she is. A selfish, egotistical, immature, thoughtless, gold-digging, piece of trash.

 

 

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95 Responses to “Tara Love Kersey”

  1. Meth Kills says:

    I could say a lot after reading this story, but I have two questions, do you work?? Did you stay for the money???

  2. jolene says:

    The best thing to do with this type person is exposure, it derails them. Always be more confident than them and never fall for their feel sorry for me traps. Don’t waste your time praying for her to change, she never will, focus your prayers on your family and keeping her out. If ever a confrontation be strong. She will never appologize. But just when she thinks she’s on top again is when she will fall the hardest it may take years, and she may be in someones else life.

    So glad you saved your family and marriage. Very wise and admirable..

  3. SharonR says:

    You were not having a “decent marriage” if neither of you were not making each other a priority. I understand it’s hard when you have a child, but you said yourself that your attention was mainly on your daughter. And I understand both of you working a lot to make a better life for your family. My parents did the same thing when I was small. And they worked their asses off to obtain what we had. But they always found at least a little time for each other. I can remember them slow dancing and kissing each other in the living room, which totally grossed me out at that age. My point is your partner has to be a priority, and I’m sure counseling is helping you with that. But it doesn’t seem to be helping Mr Man if he is continuing and or continued the affair 18 more months during a time that both of you were trying to work on your marriage. Something is amiss here. Best of luck to you.

  4. jackie says:

    So finally he finally ” gave in ” to her advances? I just don’t like when wives think their husband had no say in the matter or they were seduced and couldn’t say no. He not a victim and I’m def not taking the hoewrekers side either. Its very sad how it affects your children and these bitches don’t think about that I guess your husband didn’t either. I mean a big mistake is a one night stand or they got together a couple time..this is 18 months of your marriage he’s basically leading a double life and carrying on another relationship! I would have divorced his ass..yup sure would.

    • I will never understand says:

      This just goes back to the lowest common denominator.. boys starting at 6yrs of age, immediately thing of sex. As age progresses, boys to men, and with the help of the internet, and women posting porn and selfies of themselves at a alarming rate, men will think of anything sexual every 1-2 minute increments. So when a woman throws themselves at a man, and the man is in the mode of these increments. Of course, he will accept on some strange. This is not indicative of him being a serial cheater.

      A wife or GF under these circumstances should not be held at fault, because they didn’t give it up enough or reluctant to something special or different. Its purely a biological reaction to the male gene of hunter/gatherer, and to reproduce. Such is the way of the female, to eat, sleep, and reproduce.

      As a married man with 3 children, I have these urges and act on them. There is nothing wrong with it. Do I want my wife to know?? Of course not, no need to upset her unless necessary. But Im a proponent of getting urges out in order to focus on your family so you can provide to the best of your ability, stability, comfort and order in your home.

      • Lori says:

        So, what you are basically saying is that, family is your priority, but if some woman seduces you by brushing her breasts against you, eventually you will give in. And, your wife will never find out……right.

        • I will never understand says:

          In a simplistic way, yes that is what Im saying. But Im not carrying on an affair. Its like one and done, and most importantly there is no emotional ties. A blow job is like a hand shake to me, and a little strange once in a while means nothing. And I just don’t sex it up with anyone. I believe ppl think from my past comments that Im doing this everyday, that’s just not true. I haven’t done it at all this year, and last year it was 5 possibly 6, one time pieces of trim. There is no shortage of women, willing to take up the offer of some one time action. I was tappin this woman I meet at the petrol station, I remember we were leaving the room, and she said, maybe in a few years we can do this again some afternoon. I just thought it was a great statement to end the encounter, in that she was looking for just some one time action, and needed to get on with her busy day. Its just a bit of fun, Im very very loyal to my family and wife. I want them to have everything to make them comfortable and happy

          • Waffles says:

            I pity your fucking wife. She’ll figure it out when you wind up giving her AIDS.

          • Louniece says:

            Your wife is your ‘bottom bitch’. She knows it. But as long as you keep up the $ and outwars appearancesshe’s good to go. What she grew up with.

          • Jade says:

            Lmfao @ your “marriage”

      • SharonR says:

        I will never understand, I have to agree with you partially here. Once a male discovers what his johnson is capable of, that’s it…they are sniffin it out like dogs in heat. Although I am very open minded, I don’t condone cheating at all. Are you still in love with your wife? Not love, in love. Don’t you think she will eventually find out? Would you like it if it were the other way around? Don’t get me wrong, I totally understand men and their urges, it’s natural. And this comment is not meant to be rude, I’m just curious about how you would feel.

      • SharonR says:

        And are you using condoms whilst acting on your urges?

        • I will never understand says:

          SharonR, Ive been posting on this site for a few days now and if you go back 2 or 4 HW pages, I think your questions, will be answered honestly and honorably. If I couldn’t use a condom or didn’t have one, I would just not do it. My wife who I am madly “in love” with and without her I am nothing. Just flat out wont find out, if there is any suspicion on my part, its not that I become distant and quarrelsome. It would be because I become more attentive and want to shower her with gifts and accolades. And its not out of guilt. I had a good earning February, and last night I asked her, if I had some extra cash what would you want. She said, I would like to do something for the children, I stalled for a minute, pulled up on my Ipad a Disneyworld vacation. I asked if she thought this might be something she had in mind.
          She agreed and we booked the trip and will tell the kids at dinner tonight. Then “pardon my language” I got my brains fucked out for the 3rd time this week. I love doing this for my family, and my wife is happy too.

          • SharonR says:

            I know I am going to get a lot of dislikes and or negative comments, but if it works for you and your wife, then go for it…who am I to judge. What you do in your life is your business I guess. I just wouldn’t want her to find out and be hurt. Have you thought about bringing her into the mix? Swinging? Or would she not go for that? I’m 50 and I will admit, I’ve had plenty of opportunity and chances for all kinds of crazy shit, but I have not tried either. I don’t have anything against it, just not for me, and believe me, I enjoy sex just as much as a man. There is nothing I can say to you to make you not stray a little, so all I can say is carry on…but please be safe about it. I’m not condoning what you do, and there may come a day when she does find out something. I think you will break her heart.

      • jolene says:

        There is nothing wrong with it? Then why hide it from your wife? If she new the truth how stable would children, wife and home be. Ultimate devestation will come to your home the day she learns the truth. Are you prepared? As when the truth comes out you will finially see what was wrong with it. Your being very naive. Just understand that when your wife finds out the truth she will experience her own personal Armageddon and be expected to fight the urge every 1 to 2 minutes from killing you, or the one your involved with. Just keep that in mind.

        • I will never understand says:

          Jolene, please explain to me, what am I doing wrong!?!?! First off, my wife will never find out, my chance encounters are brief and quick. Sex is as natural as going to the restroom, for men as well as women. People ask, how would you feel if your wife was doing the same thing….. To answer that, I would believe she would have developed a emotional connection to that individual, and I would be upset. And I cant speak for all women, but I believe this could be the case 50% of the time. I on the other hand, do not develop emotional connections to the once off encounter. I am very careful of who these chance encounters happen with, its kind of easy for me to read the woman I am dealing with, if for a moment I feel theres a chance of emotional attachment, I respectfully decline. And again, I have to preface this, these are just once in a while chance encounters. In my 20yrs of blissful marriage, its anywhere from 3 to 6 times a year. Sex with my wife is always something I look forward to, but I find nothing wrong with something different once in a while. And I know its hard to believe, but it makes me appreciate my lovely bride even more.

          • Louniece says:

            Pray you don’t end up fuckin’ the wrong trick. Just takes that one psycho to destroy a persons life. We hear of these cases from time to time in the news. Don’t be too cocky. No pun intended. Lol!

          • Youranoldbastard says:

            Wait, so it’s okay for you to do it, but not your wife??? I have had my share of 1 night stands in my life (while single of course) as have most of my female friends, and I assure you we did not get all emotional about it.
            From your comments you are old and think that you just meet women and they straight away want to have sex with you, so I am inclined to believe you are just a lonely ugly old perv, writing stories of your imagined sexual encounters while stroking your dick with a old fat wife cooking you something in the kitchen.
            If your stories are true (big if), you have a sham of a relationship if you lie to your wife. I have no judgement for how couples handle their relationships and I know lots of long term relationships are less monogamous than our society believes, but she obviously would be devastated if she found out, and believe me, one day she will. To put someone you claim to love through that, and to willingly do it again, you are a disgusting human being and I hope she leaves you, takes everything and leaves you with nothing.

          • wtf is wrong with u says:

            I Will Never Understand, Your marriage is one big lie. It’s full of deceit, lies and manipulation. You are a narcissistic player and your wife is your puppet.

            Tell her the truth because maybe she wants to play in this twisted selfish game you got going on. Fair is fair right? You don’t need to know anything about it. You do your thing and she does hers. Then you just come home to each other and live life as a normal married couple. You wouldn’t have a problem with that, right? Imean, she wouldn’t be doing anything different than you are doing. Think how incredibly happy you would be. Then you don’t have to hide it anymore..whew! Right!? Stop controlling her, shes not stupid as you make her sound like a ignorant dependant airheaded child… . What’s good for the goose and all……

          • dave1234ca says:

            ‘Youranoldbastard’ and ‘Wtf Is Wrong With U’, at least ‘I Will Never Understand’ hasn’t left his partner. If she has been with him for 20 years I would think they are and were good years.

            Frequently people say the spouse should be told so they can do the same thing. If they desired to do the same thing they would be doing it. Just consider how many would do it just to get back at their partner. That wouldn’t accomplish anything good.

            I’m not condoning affairs but I believe if two people are in a good marriage and the only difference is their sexual frequency/desire it doesn’t make sense to throw it all away. Obviously ‘I Will Never Understand’ has no intention of abandoning his partner and isn’t that a major concern with affairs?

            I really don’t understand why people so casually suggest divorce. The first thing divorce means is the person IS going to sleep with someone else. If sex is the bad thing about affairs it has to be bad when talking about divorce. They are deserting their partner. What could be worse for their partner if their partner loves them?

            Affairs and the possible consequences were much different in the past than they are today. Single mothers, children born out of wedlock and the resulting abject poverty and the condemnation of society resulted in a life worse than hell.

            Again, I’m not condoning affairs but if it’s a choice between an affair and a divorce I would certainly prefer my partner have an affair rather than leave me. Assuming we both love each other, of course. Divorce should be the very last option, certainly not the first.

  5. Kathy says:

    Were they reported to Lee Memorial Hospital in FL? According to her FB, she has been working there for over 10 years. Or is an affair with a married co-worker at a hospital acceptable with no repercussions for either party? Hopefully your hubby still doesn’t practice medicine there.

  6. Elisheva says:

    Wow. Is it just me or does the homewrecker’a name sound like something a porn star would have as a name?

    She also has big jubalees–like a porn actress… Well, we can certainly see what the attraction was for the cheating husband (queue in Dave1234ca and his sexsexsexsexsex–which in all fairness to Dave1234ca this story lends credence to his argument ).

    Wife – Your story will strike a chord of fear in a lot of
    Women…the story of a husband’s hot looking colleague pursuing him until he accidentally stubs his toe on his ego and trips into her gaping vagina.

    Usually the affair fizzles out after the smoke and mirrors are removed (or forgotten to be put back up prior to their romp in bed) and the cheating husband realizes that she’s not as carefree and uninhibited and wants nothing more than to please him w/out asking for anything in return–as she lead him to believe.

    Pretty soon he’ll start noticing that a lot of guys will be lusting after her and sooner or later the jealousy and suspicions start kicking in and he starts feeling a little bit insecure of what he knows what she’s capable of doing and damnit all to hell he not only has to pay out of the ass in child support but he has to be able to keep up with his high maintenance trophy girlfriend/new wife who no longer wants to work outside of the home because she wants to be taken care of now.

    He’ll begin to long for the days when his world with his first wife–while not perfect–was considerably more peaceful and meant more to him then he realized because it was a world that he and the first wife worked hard to create. Plus, the benefit of watching his amazing children grow up and help them navigate the world before them.

    Unfortunately, for some men, these mundane details of their life feels like their life is lacking some how. What they don’t realize (until it’s too late) is that there is beauty to be found in the mundane details of their life.

    Let’s hope that you and your husband will be able to surmount this hit on your marriage and that your marriage will be stronger than ever. The Japanese have a practice of repairing broken ceramics by filling the cracks with gold. It’s called “kintsugi”. Kintsugi is the belief that when something has suffered damage it becomes more beautiful and valuable because it now has a history–there is a lesson in this Japanese wisdom :o)

    Good luck!

  7. Jamie La Reina says:

    It’s clear as day that both spouses put other priorities first, marriage last. Their lack of intimacy was obviously on both of them. It’s only a matter of time before Dave comments and shuns the wife, blaming her 100%. We’ll see….

  8. shann says:

    18 months hunny he dont regret her he regrets telling you.

  9. jolene says:

    The wife admits that both parties did not make one another a priority, and they both worked hard in the first few years… So both husband and wife were vulnerable as a result, yet the wife was home child rearing and he was working. If the wife had been working out as well and a hot male attractive co-worker hit on her everyday for a year, she most likely would have fallen on to his penis. Even a very moral person would have a very strong temptation, being in contact on a daily basis, as none of us are strong 365 days a week. Yet this is no excuse, as if there was a woman hitting on him or tempting him astray, he could have made the choice to communicate to his wife what was going on and changed that temptation at work. He didn’t because he liked the attention and found it harmless and thought he could handle it, then one day it just hit and he lost control of all rational thought. The affair lasted 18 months, because she was a co-worker and provided daily opportunity to keep in contact. The true illusion of the affair ended when exposure of the affair to the wife came.

  10. Emma Nymphadora is a Delusional Slut! says:

    Wife, it’s good to know you and your husband are making your marriage a priority. Your daughter deserves two parents who love and respect each other. You both are her role models. Children are very perceptive. However, don’t be complacent. Your husband can cheat again. Serial cheaters get better each time. They get more crafty, develop better strategies. Listen to your intuition. Good luck on getting slutty Tara Love Kersey to apologize. These bottom-feeders see nothing wrong with having a relationship with a married man and feel no guilt (just like you, Emma S).

  11. Lori says:

    Well, you certainly gave some words of wisdom yourself! :)

  12. Louniece says:

    OP, sending light and love to you and your family! Keep on keepin’ on!!! You both have so much more love and good times ahead! Rootin’ for you both!

  13. realdeal says:

    Wife,
    The last line of your story also describes your bad boy.
    With the exception of “gold digger”.

  14. Louniece says:

    Tara keep moving on. You will find your pawn. You whores always do at some point. Hope you don’t end up dead unlike a few in your position. jmo

    • dave1234ca says:

      Jamie La Reina writes, “It’s only a matter of time before Dave comments and shuns the wife, blaming her 100%. We’ll see….”

      Elisheva writes, “She also has big jubalees–like a porn actress… Well, we can certainly see what the attraction was for the cheating husband (queue in Dave1234ca and his sexsexsexsexsex–which in all fairness to Dave1234ca this story lends credence to his argument ).”

      Jamie and Elisheva let’s take a look at what Jolene writes, “If the wife had been working out as well and a hot male attractive co-worker hit on her everyday for a year, she most likely would have fallen on to his penis.”

      You see, denying or avoiding or ignoring ones partner has penalties. Why can’t people understand that? Why do men and women get together in the first place? Regardless of what people may say when they look at a potential partner the first thing that crosses their mind is, “Can I see myself on/under this person?” Where do they think those feelings go after they marry?

      Both men and women, regardless of how busy they may be, get sexual feelings/thoughts. They may not last long or they may not act on them but surely they realize that sooner or later something is going to happen.

      Was the good job, the promotion, not taking fewer classes and spending an extra year in university worth an affair? Was putting one’s child first beneficial for the child when the couple are faced with an affair?

      People tend to deny or avoid or neglect their partner with impunity. They will never have an affair. Of course, we all too often discover they do and that’s only the ones that are discovered. Furthermore, not all dalliances evolve into a full blown affair. Some single men and women are a FWB to a married person and when the single person finds a partner they stop. End of “affair” and no one is the wiser.

      Also, not all affairs involve getting together on a frequent basis. Perhaps once every two or three weeks and no sappy emails. No one suspects anything because there is nothing to suspect. There is no pattern to their meeting.

      The point being people are going to seek and find sexual satisfaction. Your partner will find it with you or with someone else. The choice is yours.

      • Jamie La Reina says:

        You know my views on sex in a relationship. It’s VERY important so there’s no need to preach it to the choir. I’m just pointing out the simple fact that both spouses neglected each other. I personally don’t think it’s fair for anyone to blame the wife in this story for lack of intimacy because her husband is just as much to blame.

        As for the HW being some kind of porn star hottie… Well I don’t know about that. That is, unless she was a porn star in the 70s. She looks like leather.

        • dave1234ca says:

          Married people have to realize the importance of sex. When it stops being a priority in marriage it will remain a priority to one or both of the partners regardless.

          Simply put either they get sex in marriage or outside the marriage. It’s unfortunate some people don’t understand that.

          I’m not pointing at you, Jamie. :)

          • jolene says:

            Just have to say that during my husbands affair, he wasn’t meeting my needs at times and I was hit on by not one but two dark tall drinks of water ten plus years younger than him plus single and not that it wasn’t flattering, not that I didn’t think I could get by with it, the one even asked if my husband had cheated on me, and I responded that I expected so. I just couldn’t allow my self worth to be damaged bottom line. I knew I wont feel good about becoming a lying piece of shit , even taunted with a suspion. If I had these two chasing me daily that may have slowly eroded me who knows?

          • dave1234ca says:

            Hi Jolene. I view affairs from different angles. In your case I feel you would have been justified having an affair. Your husband “gave away” what he denied you.

            Then there’s cases when people just aren’t in the mood. It comes down to doing something for ones partner and what can be easier than going to bed?

            People talk about lying but is that worse than denying ones partner?

            “I’m going to be honest and tell you you’re not worth half an hour of my time.”

            That is what they are really saying. Maybe not in those exact words but that’s what it comes down to.

          • Waffles says:

            dave says: In your case I feel you would have been justified having an affair. Your husband “gave away” what he denied you.

            Seriously? You use *that* as justification? That’s utterly insane. There are other options before running out and cheating. The biggest gun in that arsenal being divorce.

            Again, affairs are WRONG. There are NO circumstance when an affair can be rationalized as WRONG.

          • dave1234ca says:

            Waffles, this is where we disagree. Divorce is the last option and the reason being everyone is affected. An affair concerns two people.

            I’m not saying I take affairs lightly or encourage them but if the choice is between an affair and a divorce an affair is much more preferable.

            If it is a choice. If there is a gulf between the partner’s libido to the extent it can not be reconciled a discreet affair causes much less damage.

            I don’t understand how people can take divorce so casually. It destroys the family. Not just the man and woman but destroys the children’s family. When one gets majority of custody the grandparents on the side of the other spouse will not visit as often. The children lose out on holiday dinners with extended family members. Cousins are alienated.

            A family consists of more than Mom and Dad. A family means more than Mom and Dad and people should consider everyone and not just themselves.

            People should not have affairs. That said IF THE CHOICE is between an affair and a divorce then an affair obviously affects fewer people. It seems absurd to me when people say divorce rather than have an affair. They have absolutely no consideration for their children, their parents (the grandparents) nor anyone else connected to the family.

            That does not mean flaunt an affair. It means don’t put ones sex life or sexual desires before everything else.

            1. Talk it over with your spouse and try to settle it.
            2. If, for whatever reason, an agreement can not be reached then consider an affair before considering a divorce.

            This is assuming the marriage is otherwise good. Obviously if the couple are constantly fighting then, yes, divorce but divorce should be the very last act.

          • jolene says:

            I don’t know why some people take divorse or affairs lightly? I am so glad that even though I had oppertunity to have affairs I declined and immediately shared with my husband my proposals, as it certainly helped him end his affair with his older, demanding, unattractive bunny boiler. I found ways to snap him out of his midlife crisis, and it wasnt sex, without losing any self respect. Those guys even though rejected will never know the power they gave me.

          • dave1234ca says:

            Jolene writes, “..I declined and immediately shared with my husband my proposals as it certainly helped him end his affair…..I found ways to snap him out of his midlife crisis, and it wasnt sex…”

            I can understand it would make him jealous, however, if he had the affair due to a lack of sex at home and sex does not increase I don’t hold out too much hope for things to remain rosey. While I’m sure he doesn’t want to lose you it’s doubtful he’s willing to compromise on sex long term.

            Granted, some men do. There is a poster on this site who swears by “polishing one off” (masturbating) in the bathroom but that’s not my cup of tea, as they say. If my partner should ever become disinterested in sex I may as well live with any reasonable roommate because that’s all they would be.

          • jolene says:

            Sex is not an issue there is plenty, there was plenty all along. That’s why your theories don’t apply to many affairs. However I will say. Sex is like life… somepeople like the whore involved lay back and take a fucking well others get on and ride the hell out of it.

          • dave1234ca says:

            That’s when one needs a pair of dice in the bedroom.

            “Odds”——ride’em cowboy

            “Evens”—–lay back and enjoy the ride

            Sometimes it’s best to just go with the hands of fate.

    • Louniece says:

      …….like a few whores in your situation…..

  15. Helen says:

    Sounds like a bad marriage from the get go.

  16. bunker says:

    No one just “gives in” to another persons advances. She wasn’t twisting his arm, he could have asked her to stop…he didn’t. He wanted it too sounds like , he just didn’t want to make the first move…..

  17. shann says:

    Sorry wife you just Couldnt satisfy him

  18. Jennifer says:

    To everyone, especially Melissa Leach (who decided to make this all public) and Dr. Patrick Leach (the cheating husband), have you all forgotten that you have one side of a story here, the scorned wife’s. I happen to have been around Tara and Pat during this 18 month “affair” and I can assure you, all is not as Missy would like it to appear. I am not here to condone anything that has happened but it doesn’t seem fair that one person is bashed, publicly when the only people who truly know what went on are the two involved in the relationship. Tara did not pursue him in any way, it is actually the adverse, Pat pursued her and it was not after 9 months, it was 6 if you would like to be accurate. The long story short is this, Pat complains incessantly about his wife and how much he hates her, that he was only staying in the marriage for the sake of his daughter. This was also not the first time he tried to leave, Missy failed to state that. Pat didn’t just have an affair for 18 months, he convinced everyone that he was completely unhappy that there was no love, they were two people under the same roof, raising their daughter. He LEFT his wife and filed for divorce. He did not leave for Tara, he left because he hates Missy. The saddest part here is that Missy used her own child to manipulate Pat into coming back, for her safety he did just that. A parent would do anything to protect their child. According to Pat, Missy would tell their child that her daddy left her because he wanted a son, she also told him that their daughter wanted to kill herself. The worst part is, in the 17 years that they were married, not once did Missy tell her husband that she was molested by her step-father, yet she felt that this was the perfect time, making Pat think if his daughter had a step-father the same fate would happen to her, something he could never live with. Pat is truly a coward on all levels, he never told Tara he was going back, he texted her the night before, telling her how much he loved her. She was totally blind-sided by it. In Tara’s defense, she has not contacted either one of them since this happened, she has however been subjected to incessant harassment and threats. In Pat’s defense, he’s a coward that loves his daughter and will protect her any way he can, even if it means he has to stay with a woman he hates. In Missy’s defense, she’s scorned and knows her husband doesn’t want her, she’s grabbing on to whatever she can. I know that Tara has numerous texts from Pat that would blow Missy’s image of what truly happened out of the water, if she so chooses to show them. Missy is playing the victim, and she is to a point but so is Tara, after all she too believed in this man.

    • Meth Kills says:

      Thank you for the rebuttal. I knew all these great wives were lived, cherished, worshipped, and did everything right!!!

    • jolene says:

      Bullshit… There is one side he was married. Whatever he told his whore to make her feel better were lies. If he hated his wife and felt she was not a good mother, he would have not left without the kid… Wake up…

      If he didn’t love his wife why are they in love and back together now. Certainly not because of a child, if so he would have took the child and petitioned the court from the start.

      A whore will always believe what she wants… And its her own dam fault regardless, if she chose to have an affair with a unavailable man with a child.

      • Just because somebody blogs that they are in love etc does not make it the reality, it is the perception portrayed. Unless you know these people how can you say why or why not someone made the choice that they made?

        • Jolene says:

          Stats… and they are common. If Dr. Pat loved your friend, he wouldn’t have kept her a dirty secret, if he hated his wife, he would not be able to pretend for his kid for 18 month until caught. Truth is he loved his wife enough to marry her, your friend interfered with that and messed his thought process, but in the light of day, the fantasy wore thin and he never really knew you friend at all, as they never had a real relationship nor a mature one. One the other hand once he started working on his marriage, a real relationship and a mature one, you or friend is now just a bad reminder of a mistake, and embarrassment. Once your friend understands that, she will feel this same. Nothing real can come from nothing real.. And how you know they had a real relationship is that they got married and even through a affair they are still together… Not so hard to figure out. Your friend tried to hijack someone marriage and in the end she got hijacked by the husband. No sympathy as she came in with unclean hands.

          • This is where the reality is, she wasn’t a secret. They went out, in public, his friends in town ad out of town not only knew about her but hung out with them as well. His partners and office staff knew about her. The point is, you all do not know the facts, you only know or believe what the wife posted. I am not trying to argue or cause drama here. This is a website where people are bashed and slandered at the expense of facts and reason.

          • jolene says:

            She was a secret to his wife and daughter…. others keep the secret.. she was a secret.

          • Jolene says:

            She was a secret kept from his wife and daughter, his family. She was a secret…

          • Jolene says:

            To the comment about the wife not being perfect… Nobody expects that she be… and some are pretty close to perfect, who knows that’s beyond the point… When a marriage takes place it is said that no one shall come between. Who do theses stupid whores think they are when they say the wife wasn’t perfect, like a whore or anyone for that matter as the right to get involved in someone else’s marriage and say, well she wasn’t perfect so therefore. You have no business in that marriage at all as the motive is to break up the family, and judge a marriage you have no business being a part of. A betrayed wife has every right to scorn the other woman for involving herself in her marriage. Do these whores really think after attacking a family they get to just walk away, and no reckoning is due? ….

        • Kathy says:

          I love how Jennifer, Sarah, Tara are still trying to justify TarTramp’s sexual romps with that idiot. I’ll admit I love your posts; they are entertaining and I love the lame justification you have for Tara’s behavior. The funny part is you are doing her no favors by your posts and really exposing her and her trashy antics. But by all means, blog on.

          Now the logic is well everyone knew about them; so it is okay. So in your mind this makes the affair okay? The fact that this slut went out in public with a married man (knowing that his wife had no idea) makes her look even worse. What a great example that both parties set for their kids.

          You are consistently stating that the dumb ass husband hates his wife, only staying with her for the child ad nauseam. I am sure that is the line he is giving Tara. Let’s say it is true. It shouldn’t matter to you or Tara anymore. It is his and her marriage. Tara is the past; she was used and tossed aside. Get over it.

    • keeping it real says:

      Married men who cheat are liars. Did you know that? They will lie to their wives and to the side slut. They will lie more and more, as time progresses and as the affair progresses. I’m sure your friend has many lovely text messages. How fucking romantic! It doesn’t mean shit, just like what this man said about his wife doesn’t mean shit. Remember, he is a liar by virtue of his affair with your friend. Anything that came out of the immoral doctor’s mouth for the duration of the affair is probably one big, fat lie after another. You, Jennefer, are being nasty. This wife does not deserve to have any of your friend’s wrath. Your friend carried on with a married man but she feels like a victim. Wrong. The wife is the victim and the only things you and your friend know about her is what her bastard of a husband shared with all of you. It doesn’t make it true.

    • the truth will set you free says:

      Jennifer aka Nicole. You are right the affair was not a secret. Everyone at work knew about the affair and most were disgusted. Tara walked around shaking her ass and flipping her hair like she was so important. When oat finally threw her to the side like the white trash she is her ass shaking hair flipping stopped and she started slithering like a snake. You say she left him alone, that’s total bshes. She took your car everyday for weeks to follow him and stalk him. He was smart enough to dump her with witnesses because he knew what a psychotic bitch she is. She brags that she went to her x husbands girlfriend and beat her up when he left tara. Why would pat want to put Missy in that situation. I am surprised she didn’t try to get pregnant with pats baby like she did with her x husband when he tried to leave her the first time. She even stalked Pat in the parking lot until he complained and she was forced to sign a form stating she would stop stalking him or lose her job. She is a low life bottom sucking gold digging whore. Tara will never be even close to the same level as Missy. Once a whore always a whore.

      • Meth Kills says:

        Calm down everyone, the details can sometimes differ, but question is did they fuck?? Seems like the answer is a big fat yes!!!!!

      • jolene says:

        Thank you for this post, the true nature of the homewreaker, I figured so. What a loser psychotic wrench.

      • dave1234ca says:

        The Truth Will Set You Free Writes, “Once a whore always a whore.”

        I wonder if there’s more to that. It’s like people say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.” I often wonder if the reason some people continue to cheat is the original problem is never solved.

        For example, if a person cheats because they are not getting sufficient sex at home it’s reasonable to believe that after an affair is discovered the sex between the husband and wife will further decrease. If the wife, due to anger, decreases the amount of sex then she may as well resign herself to her husband having another affair.

        That’s why counseling is so important.

        When it comes to whores I wonder if it is just a matter of them finding the right person. Would one person, the right person, satisfy them?

        • the truth will set you free says:

          He paid her $1500 a month while he was fucking her. I don’t know about you but anyone that gets paid to have sex is a whore!

          • Jennifer says:

            Even more comical, paid? Where do you come up with such bullshit again? You fail to recognize, these people actually have jobs. This was an actual 18 month relationship, don’t think for one minute that any money was paid. Pat lied to them both and pretty much everyone in their lives. Grow up and get a life.

          • Waffles says:

            Affairs are dirty little secrets, not “relationships”.

          • Kathy says:

            Seriously Jennifer; how do you call what TarTramp and Pat had a relationship? Just because it lasted 18 months only makes it a long-term booty call. Love how you tell others to grow up; yet you keep posting on here making TarTramp look even worse with every posting. Why don’t you grow a brain and stop defending TarTramp. Boy you and her just aren’t going to go sway peacefully. She is a low-class cooter call who got used, abused, and thrown in the trash (where she belongs). Aw was she in love with Dr. Pat? Did she think he would be a daddy to her kids? Boo frickin’ hoo.

          • Meth Kills says:

            The more comments the better ratings

        • Meth Kills says:

          Whores were abused and are broken for life

      • Jennifer says:

        LMFAO “truth” you are completely clueless. Are you jealous that it wasn’t you, no matter how hard you tried? The stories you fabricate are always interesting. Get your facts before you start running your mouth, I’m not talking about the ones you make up in that crazy head of yours. It’s hysterical how people will talk shit on a one-sided website but don’t have the balls to face a person. You don’t know shit and you certainly don’t know Pat or Tara for that matter. Keep running your mouth, the truth is already coming out, you’re just too ignorant to see it.

        • the truth will set you free says:

          Actually I do see the truth. Its quite clear. Missy kept her man and Tara got thrown out like the white trash she is. Pretty clear to everyone here.

  19. Waffles says:

    Pat went back to his wife because he wanted his WIFE over his MISTRESS. It’s that simple. No person goes back to a spouse they ‘hate’ for the sake of the child(ren). It’s a standard line the cheater gives the AP to keep them on the hook. Obviously, its working for Pat, isn’t it? ;)

    “Jennifer” states: This was also not the first time he tried to leave, Missy failed to state that.

    Again, not only do cheaters lie to their spouse, they lie to the AP. No matter how many times he ‘tried’ to leave, the fact remains he DIDN’T and was married. Tara decided to fuck him for 18 months ANYWAY. Now that the consequences are raining down, the little rat is scampering to find shelter.

    “Jennifer”: In Tara’s defense, she has not contacted either one of them since this happened, she has however been subjected to incessant harassment and threats.

    You get exactly what you asked for. Don’t fuck married men and you won’t be publicly reviled. Oh, well.

  20. Kathy says:

    Bottom line Jennifer/Tara etal – Tara messed around with a married man. How is she a victim? I mean how many times do men say I am unhappy, my wife doesn’t understand me, my wife is a mess, etc. Give me a break about he just staying with the wife to protect the daughter. Protect her from what????? If the wife was so bad, then he should have presented proof and filed for sole custody of the daughter. A lot of this is heresay on the husband’s part; he probably said all this crap to make his wife look like the bad person and justify his actions with a co-worker (who was well aware he was married).

    The wife claims Tara is has tried to contact the husband, you say she hasn’t. Who would know best, you (a friend?) or the wife?

    If he is so miserable, why isn’t he with Tara (not that I think the wife should have taken him back)? In reality – it is the tramp, Tara, and the jerk-off husband who are in the wrong; unless of course you are now going to claim that the wife messed around.

    The only people I feel bad for in this situation are the kids. Both parties should have thought of them before embarking on their overt trashiness. I mean after all, according to you, Pat is sooo concerned about is daughter that he is only staying with his wife because of her.

  21. dave1234ca says:

    As a general comment I frequently see people refer to the children when a parent has an affair. Even when the couple stay together they say it impacts the children. My question is, “Why?”

    Why do the couple make it family knowledge? Couples do not normally discuss their sex life with their children so how would the children obtain knowledge of an affair unless one parent says something?

    Families go through all kinds of crisis, financial for example, without discussing it with their children. However, I will admit I’ve seen more than one single mother discuss financial matters with their children who are far to young to understand and cope with it. I don’t think its appropriate. A child does not understand so is inclined to worry without having any knowledge of how to deal with it. But that’s a topic for another time.

  22. Sarah says:

    I’m so disgusted by this blog and with the person who decided to air their dirty laundry for the world to see. There are more lives at stake here then just your own. Like you stated there are 4 children involved. Yes 3 of which are Tara’s but then don’t forget your precious daughter whom you have used and manipulated to get what you want. If your daughter really was your priority, you would move on and “work on you marriage” instead of spending so much time trying to get revenge or whatever you want to call this childish game. Grow up and try having a little class. It might help you hang onto your mediocre loveless marriage.

    • jolene says:

      On the topic the kids… The kids do have the right to know what has caused their mothers pain, as lying to them is not the answer, furthermore the children have every right to be informed to stand up and fight for their family. As it is in their best interest to be informed and be able to express what they want. And they want a stable family with mom and dad working together and happy, and they want the home wreaker to go away and stop making their home unstable. A child does not want their daddy leaving them behind with their mother to have weekend visitation, while daddy tries a new relationship that most likely don’t last long at all, and with that there is little or no chance of repairing the home.

      Kids don’t like it when daddy and his whore says, “He is not leaving you kids, he is just leaving your mother”, the kids know this is bullshit as they are well aware that they are being left and will now see daddy on visits, and will not have uninterrupted parental time as the whore will be around. And no matter how sugar coated it all is, wither the mother says anything or not, they know the other woman is the whore that messed up their childhood and interfered. I personally never had this problem, but my friend did.

    • jolene says:

      BTW when my mom started her affair with her millionaire MM, I was ten. My dad never said a word as he didn’t know, my cousins enlightened me over the next couple months, I was introduced to him by my mother as her “friend” and quickly informed by brother he was not our friend. I remember well that even as a young person I knew right from wrong, and this man was a threat to all of us. I actually understood a lot. When this asshole tried to sweeten me I did respond by letting him know he wasn’t as good looking as my father, and his presents was unwelcome, and his money could buy us. I am glad I knew the truth from the beginning at the age of 10, it gave me a childhood.

      My parents healed after this two year affair, and will be celebrating their 40th anniversary this June, and my mother admits that her affair was a mistake and was never real love, and going nowhere and my father is the best man as they don’t even make them like that anymore.

      The millionaire MM is also still married to this day, after multiple affairs the last few still going on, and rich man will always be hungry, with time on his hands.

    • Meth Kills says:

      Sarah or Tara in disguise, this blog is freight, I mean gre8t

      • Sara2 says:

        You can tell the whore is full of scorn as she project onto the wife “her precious daughter” she is already resentful of the daughter, just think what a lovely step-monster she would have been to that poor young girl, thank god the wife fought for her marriage and ousted this monster. God bless this marriage and this girl that survived this horrible attack on her family. May this whore and her supporters be cast in their sick beds, as their preaching is based on nothing but lies and deception.

    • keeping it real says:

      Sarah, spoken like a true slut defender. The wife has every right to share her story. It is protected speech as we live in the United States. It is not immature (so laughable when sluts and slut defenders assert this). If that is all you got, you are as pathetic as these homewrecking skanks. Have a good day being a miserable bitch.

  23. Kathy says:

    Sarah/Jennifer/Tara/etc. Maybe you should be disgusted with Tara for messing around with a married man. Tara and the husband had no problem carrying on at their work place. If that doesn’t constitute airing dirty laundry, I really don’t know what does. Funny how you never mention that Tara and the husband were in the wrong.

    Didn’t it occur to her that her children might find out? You seem very concerned about the children involved; yet you wrote the wife has used and manipulated her daughter. That was a lousy thing to say. Yet you advise the wife to grow up and have a little class?

  24. Jolene says:

    The greatest gift of love a father can give his children is to love their mother… And the greatest gift of love a mother can give her children, is to love their father.

  25. It’s so easy for people to judge and blame someone that they don’t know. Painting a picture that you want everyone to believe is much easier than sharing the truth. What some of you aren’t getting here is that regardless of how the affair started, it happened. Was it right, no but that doesn’t mean the story portrayed is true or accurate. It’s easy to bash someone you don’t know. The reality is, it happened and the dynamics and details are only known by the two people involved. How you some of you can’t see that he played them both, is ridiculous. Pat regrets getting caught not being in the relationship. He has no choice but to say whatever it takes, to pacify Missy. By his own admonition, she is relentless if she thinks you have wronged her. He has and still is lying to both women. The only difference is that one is a vengeful, scorned woman who thrives on the attention, whereas the other has moved forward. You make assumptions based on the words of a bitter wife, without knowledge of anyone involved or of the situation. It is mind blowing that grown adults create and thrive on such drama.

    • Jolene says:

      The wife was involved also, (triangle)and has a lot more knowledge of her marriage than your friend rest assure, Pat played them both? Your friend new he was married and playing with fire and she got burned, she must be pretty scorned as you feel the need to post. I am seeing that the scorned one is truly your friend, as she is the one that got shit canned for a wife he claimed he hated?? That must really hurt, but exactly what she asked for, he loved his wife all along.

    • Kathy says:

      Gee Jennifer, Sarah, Tara you just don’t give up. We understand perfectly what happened. Bottom line – what you don’t get, your slutty friend messed around with a married man. We also get (which you don’t) is that she is a dumb bitch who fell for his lines. The rest of the details are meaningless. Now we know this is fact because neither you nor your personas have ever denied that TarTramp knew he was married.

      Your proclamations that he wants TarTramp but can’t be with her because of the scorned wife are amusing. You have been watching too many soap operas.

      Now you are saying Pat is still lying to your tramp friend. Let’s just say it is true. Why is she still in contact with him? Hasn’t she blocked his number; told him not to call/contact her anymore; get a restraining order? Yup thought so; she is still listening to his line of crap.

      • keeping it real says:

        Kathy, if this side piece is still communicating with the husband, it proves that she is a big old slut that can’t respect the sanctity of marriage. Her little friend is proving to the world that Tara is a homewrecker.

        • Kathy says:

          Yep Keep…her dip shit friend??? Jennifer did TarTramp no favors by popping off on this thread. Every time she wrote, TarTramp looked worse then what the wife wrote. Once she outed the wife and husband’s names, I looked the wife up on FB and they looked very happy. Tara and her friend realized that the husband played TarTramp and they are butt hurt and still trying to cause problems in the marriage. Yet Jennifer writes “It is mind blowing that grown adults create and thrive on such drama.” What a hypocrite!

          Well as the saying goes, hos of a feather flock together.

    • keeping it real says:

      ad·mo·ni·tion
      noun
      1. an act or action of admonishing; authoritative counsel or warning

      Trying to sound intelligent but failing miserably. It should be admission. In addition to being a slut defender, you are kind of dumb.

  26. Waffles says:

    Sweet, another HW troll. Preach on, Sarah. I love what you slunts have to offer in the way of marital advice. ;)

  27. Louniece says:

    Why is it that women are desparate for having a family but men could careless? DAVE 1235: These are ques for you. Men are useless. Other than cuming and shooting out their seed. We women are sooooo pathetic but understandable

    • dave1234ca says:

      Louniece, men want a family also but the difference is the children do not come before ones partner. We frequently hear the expression, “Children first.” That does not mean putting them before ones partner which frequently occurs.

      Mom and Dad have to come first as they are the ones who look after the children. Perhaps an analogy will help.

      Before an airplane takes off the oxygen masks are explained. If the oxygen levels drop in the plane and the masks fall down the parent is to put on the mask first. Why? Because if the parent passed out they wouldn’t be able to put on the child’s mask. So while both the mother and the child are suffering from a lack of oxygen the mother’s welfare comes first in order for her to be able to help the child.

      If people would transfer that way of thinking to marriages there would be fewer divorces. The priority is the mom and dad, the marriage, their union. That is the base on which the children stand. That is the oxygen. When the marriage thrives, when both mom and dad are getting what they need there is plenty for the children.

      When mom and dad say they don’t have time to do something for the children, say taking and watching them at hockey practice one week, then they finish the housework or whatever requires doing and going to bed a bit earlier for a little “under the covers game” they are putting the children first. They are strengthening the foundation upon which the children grow.

      Dad goes to work the next day happy. Mom’s big “O” has reduced stress and they both get a good night’s sleep.

      Unfortunately, many do not understand that. Their mind set is let’s divorce and drag the children down with us.

  28. Waffles says:

    dave wrote: That’s when one needs a pair of dice in the bedroom.

    “Odds”——ride’em cowboy

    “Evens”—–lay back and enjoy the ride

    Sometimes it’s best to just go with the hands of fate.

    I think you finally wrote something I agree with! :p

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