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Zdena Hajek Auburn, Maine

My story I guess starts like most others. My (now) ex-husband and I were having some problems on his part. We had been together since sophomore year in high school and before everything had started had just celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary. He went out for his 23 birthday and I woke up at around 2:30 to find he wasn’t in bed with me. I went downstairs and found him passed out and his phone was beeping so I checked the message and it was from this whore (he worked with her) and he was going on about how unhappy he was with me and blah blah blah. She told him to leave me if he wasn’t happy and he said he wished she would pick him up so they could go f**k! She didn’t respond and he passed out.

I woke him up by punching him and telling him that if he wasn’t happy with me that I would give him the f**king divorce and go stay with my parents with our son. He begged me to stay and said he didn’t remember even saying those things…blah blah blah. He started being really nice to me but was still very depressed (he had gotten out of the Marine Corps and landed his job back at Arby’s). We had agreed to start trying for our second child back in February of this year when I thought we were happy together. We had sex a week before he asked me for a 2 week separation. He was going to go stay with a friend of his and I would stay where we were living. While he was gone, I found out we were pregnant.

A few days before he moved back in, I told him I was pregnant and he seemed ecstatic. I thought things were going fine but they clearly weren’t. Looking back, I was a f**king idiot blinded by love and my own stupid belief in marriage. But I digress, In September; I moved back into my mother’s house and got the divorce papers. He would say things like, he didn’t know if he loved me anymore, didn’t know if he wanted me…Blah, blah, blah. In November, he took me on a date and during the movie, he got a text message from her saying ‘baby why aren’t you talking to me?’ Again he begged me to stay saying it was just a nickname, he wouldn’t talk to her…Blah, blah, blah. Our daughter was born in February of 2013 and he wanted to be there for the birth which was stupid of me but I figured, maybe this was a step in the right direction. In April, there was a family reunion and I found out (after he told me that he didn’t want the kids around his father’s side of the family) that he brought this bitch with him, and her kids! Again, he begged me to stay, telling me she was a friend, he only brought her because of their other friend. Blah, blah, blah. In May, I told him that either he had to sign the fucking divorce papers or had to start paying for an apartment for me and the kids.

He got me an apartment (knowing full well that if we did get the divorce, that I couldn’t afford it on my own). The kids and I moved in to the apartment, meanwhile, I was still hearing tons of rumors that He was with her, living with her, going to clubs with her, making out with her. He had also told me that he was living out of his car because he wasn’t staying with his mother anymore. He would drive until he got tired and pass out in his car. Fast forward a month, June 18, I messaged her on Facebook, after he begged me not to talk to her, and asked her point blank what was going on with the two of them. She said they had been dating since October 1 (3 days before my birthday) and he had told her he loved her back in August of 2012.

I told her what he was saying to me, that we were still having sex and she agreed we would confront him together. They showed up at my house that night, and he looked terrified, I walked outside with his bag (that he had left there saying he was going to stay over the following night) and slapped him across the face. He told her, in front of me, that I was the reason we were still married, I wouldn’t give him the divorce, blah blah, and then confessed to her that we had slept together the previous Saturday. She took off to her car, he chased after her and I was about to go back inside but remembered the divorce papers that he still hadn’t signed.

I walked towards her car to get him to sign them and she said, if you don’t tell her, I will. I asked what and he told me that her youngest daughter was his (8 days younger than ours. turns out they had slept together a week after he got me pregnant while he was staying with his friend.) I blacked out and beat the shit out of him. Then fell to the ground crying. She took off and he took off right after. I walked over to the gas station across the street from my house and he signed the papers, all the while she was saying, you’re going to pay child support up the ass, f**k you, I want nothing to do with you…blah blah blah.

He said he would still help me pay for my apartment. The next morning, she messaged me the next morning saying he begged her to stay, she was going to give him another chance and there was no way in hell he was going to still pay for my apartment let alone child support or anything else. Fast Forward to now, we are divorced, I’m still living in the apartment though definitely struggling. He is still living with her and unsure whether their daughter is actually his. She kicks him out every other day and he tells me he made a huge mistake and that I am his soul mate. BLAH, BLAH, BLAH! Anyway, that is my story. She is a cunt and they both can go to hell in my opinion.

She is legit bat shit crazy and has threatened me on more than one occasion. She can’t stand that we have kids together and finds excuses down on the days that he has the kids because she knows I don’t want her ugly Chewbacca crazy ass around my kids because she can’t take care of her own kids (3 kids by 3 different men, one of them supposedly my ex-husband….) So yea, that is my story. Careful for her because she doesn’t care about shit.

 

 

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23 Responses to “Zdena Hajek Auburn, Maine”

  1. sarey says:

    I hope that dirt bag is paying his child support and alimony. It’s amazing how many men plan children while they’re out being scum. Must be to distract the wife/girlfriend. And I’m sure he didn’t mind getting her prego so that he could keep her as his permanent side ho. Trust me if you didn’t divorce him he’d still be playing the same game. Kuddos to you for not putting up with it.

  2. Traumatized says:

    First I wanna say, thanks Ash..love that you post the pages for us. Keeping doing what you do!

    Ugh…my ears hurt..make it stop make IT stop. That is not singing buffalo heifer, that is off key and would drive me mad if I had to hear that shit everyday. I couldn’t get through Ironic. So she really is TRAILER PARK TRASH. literally ;) Love the excuse for hiding her pregnancy. Just wonder if she believes that shit.

  3. I will..thanks to this site I’ve cultivated a few good info sites for peoples information. Very good sites. Anytime anyone wants them let me know but I haven’t posted them is because don’t want a ho-bag inadvertantly finding the cheater/wife/family with them. You actually (Braver soul than myself btw.) listened to them and surprise they’re as she looks haha scarecrow banshee skankasaurus.

  4. julie snyder says:

    Ash…I gotta say you rock! You should be a P.I.

    • I’ve thought about getting licensed when my kids get older. Few people on my own little list probably wouldn’t fare too well. I’d be a broke bitch though because some things I just couldn’t accept money for would definitely do pro bono work for the mamas. Thought be decent as a lawyer when I was younger now I just want to do writing maybe get something published but whatever writing ability I had think my dad killed it during my formitive years hell he almost did me. Pfft me and my damn sob stories.

  5. scornednbitter says:

    I agree, Ash is one badass bitch and I look forward to her posts on these homewreckers cuz she always kicks it up a notch lol..and wife take the ex for all he’s worth. Alimony, child support and anything else u can’t nail his ass for. And the hw whore isn’t worth any words. Just beat her ass n tell her to enjoy your sloppy seconds cuz u just can’t reason with welfare trash.

  6. why? says:

    I’m curious. Why does everyone say “take him for all he’s worth”? And include child support as something that will be paid? I know my ex husband doesn’t pay his…owes more than 50k, and because I get no state benefits (food stamps, medicaid, welfare, etc), they don’t pursue it. He does live in another state, (he’s in NC, we’re in SC), butt come on…if I stole that much from someone and crossed state lines, they’d come after me…

    • If you don’t pay your supposed to have a warrant issued from the state carrying the judgement but the other state has to accept and execute it. Garnishing wages and if the person files an income return or is listed on one the federal government is supposed to do a withholding forba certain sum and continue to do so until the debt isn’t in arrears anymore. Plus if he owes a certain amount it they should issue a non-compliance warrant and if he steps into the issuing state can be arrested. You need to go check a few things and woman be a bitch and make people do their damn jobs. I wish the best to you.

    • homewreckers are immoral says:

      There are private companies that go after child support in cases like yours. They take a sizable chunk, but if you have no other way of getting that money, you might as well try them. Something is better than nothing. Your kids can always use that money for college.

  7. fuckyoubitches says:

    You all have no lives Kristina you can have him apearently things never change

    • Wiccan Wen says:

      She doesn’t need to get a job. She is in school full time to give her two legitimate children a much better life than a fast food pay check, and loser father will give.

      She doesn’t want him back. She is with the nicest, kindest, most considerate man, Someone who adores her and her children. Why would she ever want to go back to the trashy ass face that you’ve been with. she has found filet Mignon, why would she want chopped beef.

      If the truth hurts Zdena oh well. You’re a grown up deal with it. You can’t believe two words that come out of his mouth and yet you still blame Kristina. If you fuck another woman’s husband and your going to be called a whore by somebody.

      Unlike you, I take my job as a mother very seriously. And even though my kids are all grown up…I will defend them till the last. You mess with my daughter or her children and I will mess with you. Not a threat, consider it a warning.

  8. fuckyoubitches says:

    Oh and also get a job

  9. bittersweet says:

    What I don’t understand is how the other woman or man is to blame when the one cheating should be considering he / she said “YES” when they could/should have said no. yes the victim now has a broken heart and it seems like the other person is the reason when their life is ruined bit its not. so grow up and actually hate on the person that made it all happen the fucking cheater

  10. whosethecrazybitxh? says:

    Wow, it truly amazes me how people only get one side of a story. And I would call half of this story bullshit.

  11. zdena hajek says:

    Ya well if she don’t take it down from here I will get a lawyer a sue her for defamation of character so just a heads up.

    • scornednbitter says:

      Defamation of character? What character? You lack character if u chose to screw a married man. Even if everything else is bullshit. Smh

  12. madmadworld says:

    This is ridiculous! How can you call yourselves adults?! It’s a sad world we live in where people take EVERYTHING to the internet, instead of just saying it to their faces. Get a life, worry about your kids, and quit bitching about the ‘other woman’. He CHOSE to cheat.

  13. zdena hajek says:

    He moved out because they were fighting and told me that they were separated then he chose to go back because she found put she was pregnant (the only reason he went back) then she moved out and him and I decided to be together for our daughter now they are divorced and I’m getting sick of the shit seriously. My life may not be picture perfect but no ones really is. So take this shit down or I’ll be talking to my lawyer.

    • Wendy Deschenes says:

      I agree, Zdena, that Justin duped the both of you. You are (were) just as much a victim as Kristina was. I guess my only issue with you is that you (and Kristina) are still blaming each other when Justin is the one to blame.

      He is constantly telling Kristina that you are a threat to her. He told her one time that you were so pissed off at her that you were going to the college to track her down and kick her ass. (she was a nervous wreck that whole day) he has told her that he didn’t want their children around you because he believed you would be a threat to them as well. What is she supposed to think?

      I think you are both still victims of Justin M Delano and until you guys start laying the blame where it should be laid (on him) this will never be resolved. (For the record, Kristina asked the administrator to remove this and it hasn’t been removed yet.)

    • wedding bliss says:

      It’s nice of Justin to keep his wedding pictures to Kristina on his Facebook :) does that piss you off just a little?

  14. Letitgo says:

    Is it necessary to continue this? Let it go. Kristina has requested that it be taken down. Quit trying to throw fuel on the fire.

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