First of all, I am fully aware of how “Small” of a world people think this might be sometimes. Yes. It CAN be small. Unfortunately for me, nothing compares to the Themepark Freakshow level of “Small” that I my world consisted of, back when I was still married to and regrettably sleeping with my former husband Mike *****. TBH I can even say that in my 39 years of life on planet earth, that no one has ever been, or will ever be, even remotely close to, THAT small. Who knew he would continue to make my world even smaller at my boyfriends New Years Eve party a few weeks ago. Let me tell all of you the new ways in which my EX-husband, even through DIVORCE, continues to fill the Microscopic Ness of my world, and you tell me if my world can get any smaller…
So this is my situation. I have never been a HOMEWRECKER. Not once have I dated a guy that ever got with my friends… but I ended up sleeping with a girls boyfriend over a year ago. The issue was… I didn’t know that he had a girlfriend and lied to me. Him and I met through a friend, he said he was with a girl for over a year and they were currently broken up but she would constantly stalk him and harass him. So I let him stay with me for a couple days because he said that they had a place together but she attacked him every time he showed up and went to get his stuff. My dumba** believed him. So he said that he was moving in with his parents but couldn’t move in for a few days. She then proceeded to message me a few days later showing proof that they were together and started calling me a wh*re, (he lied about her name when I went to search her on social media) but the message was her saying they were still together and when I confronted him he completely denied it. Said she was crazy. Well, she decided to message my family and friends calling me a home wrecker to them as well. When she showed me proof I kicked the guy out, and met up with her to show how he lied and apologized and told her how I had no idea, and I thought everything would be fine… it wasn’t. The woman proceeded to show up at my work and scream at me, she trashed the outside of my apartment, called my landlord saying I had all these people and drugs in my home, which obviously wasn’t true. She then called child services on me to take away my child, and even got a job where I worked at, that I had to quit consequently. Well the man, I found out, was completely crazy and everytime those two argued he would tell her how much better I was at this and that, and made accounts trying to add me on several different texting apps. She was quiet for a few months until he sent me a request and she then proceeded to tell my ex (who was actually my boyfriend at the time) that I was cheating blah, blah, blah. I Changed my number, made a new Facebook, got a new job, and moved out of my apartment to a new place. This woman has done nothing but make my life hell. She should blame her boyfriend. When I found out I woman’d up and owned my mistake even though I was completely clueless. I don’t understand why she’s not mad at him but doing everything to ruin MY life. I’m at the point where I feel like dying is the best option. I have no proof of her threating me so I heard it would be hard to get a PFA. I don’t know what to do… please don’t judge me because I’m not like the women on these sites wrecking homes. I honestly didn’t know… and now I have no idea how to get this crazy chick out of my life. I just want to move on, but I don’t know how to protect the new life I have had to make for myself… because of HER lying, cheating POS boyfriend.
Ok so I have been thinking about submitting this girl A***** to this website for a few weeks now. I had never been on Shesahomewrecker before, and since I’m still not sure whether I really need to be the one to post this girl, I thought I might just ask y’all for some advice first. I want to expose her, I’m just not sure how to do it, and I’m wondering what some of you might do in my situation. My ex boyfriend ( I should say fiancé we were engaged for almost a year…) and I have been broken up for a little while now. We took a “break” a few months ago and that “break” turned into him “breaking up” with me and getting back together with his ex. They had dated for almost 6 years before us so she thinks I was was a temporary fling basically. On more than one occasion she has told me that I might as well have been a one night stand, because thats how much I meant to him… WHATEVER. I’m not going to play into her mind games, even though she still TEXTS ME and sends ME PICTURES of the two of them. FOR THE PAST 3 MONTHS, WTF crazy. I mean come on take the W and let a girl move on with her life with some class and decency… but no not her, and that’s just the type of person she is. I actually feel bad for my ex. He is such a good guy, and he deserves better. He was one of my best guy friends for almost two years before we started dating, so I have been through all the A***** drama with him before. Only this time it’s a little more than drama and I really don’t want to be the one to tell him what she’s REALLY doing these days, but someone really needs to. He doesn’t want to see the bad in people, and I love that about him. I unlike her, don’t want to interfere in anyones relationship, and if I could just let him be happy, I would totally just do that, but this girl is playing him and has been lying to him for months. 2 months ago A*****’s genius A$$ started working at the same place my brother works, AND SHE HAS… ABSOLUTELY… NO CLUE… WHO HE IS… OR WHAT TO HIDE AROUND HIM. I mean come on, he was going to be my ex’s brother-in-law and he cares just as much as I do about him. Now, in any normal situation you would be like OK, WHO CARES… she works with your brother SO what. Thing is my brother has been doing security for a certain GENTLEMAN’S NIGHTCLUB for almost 4 years now. He’s been there forever and is actually head of security so he sees and hears everything that goes on in that “establishment”. What goes on outside of it too because along with getting her MainStage on, she is also doing a some extra curricular activities with some of the customers that I’m pretty sure she won’t be able to count as overtime. At least not in this country. As soon as my brother found out that the NEW girl “Amber” was actually the CRAZY girl A*****, he wanted to drive over to my ex’s house and tellm’ himself. My brother says everybody at work hates her, she’s extremely unprofessional and doesn’t give AF about anyone… sounds about right. Some of the other girls/dancers/entertainers/employees/whatever at the club were talkin all this sh*t on her to my brothers boss because they know she has been seeing customers “after hours” and want her to get fired. One of the girls was even telling my brother how she has a boyfriend that thinks she’s taking night courses when she comes to work every other night! That’s how he found out who she was!! This is all so crazy, and even though it’s almost too good to be true, I can’t help but think what this is going to do to my ex when he finds out where A***** has been working these past two months. I mean, I can’t tell you whether or not those rumors about her and the customers are true or not… but I know for a fact he doesn’t know she has been working at a strip club, taking off her clothes and dancing on strangers laps every other night. In fact nobody does. She even posts on her Instagram all the time “studying for exams is so much fun!” type crap. Yeah don’t study too hard there sweetheart… makes me physically ill to even think about her or what she’s doing… but someone needs to tell my ex. I had to literally make my brother swear on my life that he wouldn’t go over to his house and tell him before I do. It’s been a few weeks now though and I still haven’t said anything. I’m starting to feel guilty just for carrying around this girls toxic BS. What should I do? Should I confront her myself and see what she says? Or should I just ask him to meet me for coffee or something and tell him… I just don’t know. I care about him, and this is going to be a nightmare for him, but it’s only a matter of time he finds out, and somebody else tells him what she has REALLY been studying so HARD ON.
So I was doing my husbands laundry and I noticed the jacket he wears to work was in the laundry pile. Last time I tired to wash it he had a fit, so I grabbed it and figured I would ask him myself this time. As soon as I picked it up something was off. I don’t know how to describe it but something about this jacket was just bothering me. Something was different… when I began to take a closer look I noticed that some of the stitching on the jacket was different, my husbands company logo patch, was completely brand new, the zipper for the inside pocket wasn’t broken anymore, and then I saw the tag. SIZE SMALL. My husband weighs 245 pounds and he’s never seen the inside of a size medium shirt in his entire life, let alone anything in a size small. When I asked him what happened to his jacket and why he decided to go fun-size, he said that this new girl Trina W**** from work accidentally grabbed his when they finished work and he didn’t want to leave hers on site. Apparently there’s a very high demand right now for the trend setting jackets Home Audio Professionals use, so it was a good thing he did. Now I’m not crazy about the idea of going through a total strangers pockets, but for the record that jacket was in my house, on my laundry pile, in my laundry room, in a home I helped pay for, and within a family, I helped create so…… possession 9/1o’s right… anyway so I started to see what this chick was workin with inside these pockets and I come up with the usual stripper, HOMEWRECKER party favors… Magnom condoms, Red lipstick, mini bottle of Victoria Secret, A BURNER PHONE, and a bunch of random telephone numbers written on multiple pieces of paper, all in her writing. To be honest I’m surprised I didn’t whip out a bottle of pu$$y glitter because that’s all this girl was missing from her little portable home wrecking kit. Oh and yes I checked the phone call/text log, no dice everything was completely erased. WTF IS THIS GIRL REALLY WORKIN ON ALL DAY? SHADY AF.
My boyfriends ex Amanda ***** is trying to make up all this BS about how they are still seeing each other. Sending me pictures of the two of them and text messages. She sends me messages that are between her and some BS number that just has my boyfriends name on it. Then there are “the pictures” that are obviously old pictures. Does she think I’m that stupid?? My boyfriend just got a new truck three weeks ago and this picture that she said was taken “last weekend” has the exact same interior as his old truck. I told my boyfriend about his ex Amanda sending me all these texts and he flipped out. He says that she did this to the last girl he dated, and it eventually broke them up. He has her number blocked so it would be impossible for her to be texting him. He even printed out a copy of his phone bill, which I told him was completely unnecessary. He said he wasn’t going to let her come between him and another relationship. I’ll be honest this chick is definitely making things difficult. Why would someone put so much energy into something that was clearly over? I trust my boyfriend and even though we have only been dating for a couple months, he has never done anything for me not to give him my full trust. She does have me thinking though… can he edit which text messages come up on his bill? Could he be talking to her and then editing the phone records that he shows me? Anyone can take a bunch of screenshots of correspondence between two people but unless I see my boyfriend Brandon’s actual number… then it could be anybody… I don’t know this chick has my head spinning, she says they made plans this weekend and this weekend he happens to be out of town for his cousins bachelor party. I just want to get some advice from some other women that have maybe gone through something similar. What should I do? Like I said, I trust him but I also don’t want to get taken advantage of because he knows I’m not the type of person to go check his phone…
We just got back from our honeymoon, and since we have been back there have been all these rumors about my husband hooking up with my sister L**** after the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding. I went to bed early that night, but a few of the groomsman, along with my husband, went out to some club on the beach, near our hotel. While they were there apparently my step-sister L**** shows up, gets totally wasted and is like, all over the guys. She even tried to make out with my best friends husband who is married! At some point in the night L**** and my husband go to the bar to get some shots for everyone and then they never came back. He shut off his phone and his friends had no idea what happened to him. My best friends husband said he was on his balcony and sees my husband R*** and my evil step-sister L**** walking up the path from the beach together at 3am. The next day he asks my husband what happened to him that night and he said he decided to go back to the hotel and that he fell asleep on the beach by himself. He said some hotel security guy woke him up and his phone must have died. I know he got back at 3 am because their was a room service bill for a club sandwich and 3 lobster hand rolls at 3:15 am. He’s allergic to shellfish so I know he wasn’t eating. Whats crazy to me is that I am hearing about all of this now, because apparently they didn’t want to make me upset on my wedding day. My step sister L***a has always been crazy jealous of me and I always felt weird about her around any guy I was ever dating. When she gets drunk she is a total nightmare and will hook up with anything that gives her the time of day. I don’t know what to do, we just got married and already my sister is starting drama. On the day of the wedding she looked like total sh!t and said she was out with some guy all night. Turns out she WAS hanging out with some guy, MY HUSBAND! When I told my husband that one of his friends saw him walking back to the hotel with L***a he said I was just being dramatic and that they walked back to the hotel and had some food in his room, but nothing happened! I asked him why he told his friend that he went back alone and he said his friend must have misunderstood him. Then I asked my step-sister what happened that night and she says she has no idea and doesn’t remember anything because she was so drunk. I told her what about that guy you said you were hanging out with and she tells me that she was still awake from the night before ON MY WEDDING DAY, and that MY WHOLE WEDDING is just a big blur. The worst part is my step sister works for my husband so now on top of everything else I get to think about them hanging out together all day, and what he’s doing while he’s at work. I don’t know what to do, a part of me is almost glad nobody told me this until now because we had a beautiful wedding and this would have totally ruined it and I would have been so embarrassed in front of all of our friends and family. Then again now were back, the wedding is over, and I’m even more embarrassed now. The thought of them hooking up on my weeding night is just beyond words… What should I do?
So my girl and I have been dating for about two and a half years. This whole time I have been building my own business working with professional athletes and sports teams, so to say that I might not have been the most attentive partner at times would be fair. Regardless she never once complained and has always been completely supportive and understanding. So when she said she wanted to move to Hollywood to become an actress, of course I told her that she should do it. I told her it wouldn’t change anything between us. Well… that was a lie, because it did. It DEFINITELY did. She has been out there for almost six months now, and even though it was really HARD at first, and she had no clue what she was DOING, a couple months ago she finally started getting JOBS. Or should I say, GIVING JOBS. I was working with one of my clients on Christmas Eve, he had a game Christmas Day in LA… well he starts telling me about this porn star NIKKI **** thats been hanging out with some of the players the past few weeks, and how wild this girl is. EVEN FOR A BUNCH OF PRO’S. Then I notice him constantly looking at his phone while were trying to work, so I ask him WTF he’s watching, He seems so interested, at this point I’m dying to watch it too. Let’s just say, I should have let him enjoy himself. He runs over to me and is like “my dude… my dude” “it’s her!” “it’s her!”… and he was right. It WAS her.
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Ok, so I already know this is going to be a huge issue for a lot of women, and people are going to hate me for it… but the fact is, I am strangely attracted to married men, and I think it is going to end up destroying me. When I say attracted to I don’t mean that being married makes a guy hot to me, or that I go out of my way to hunt down men with rings on their finger. Both of the married men I have been involved with never even wore a ring. I just mean for some reason, I keep attracting them, and unfortunately they keep attracting me. I don’t know, maybe I just like a man that has his sh*t together. Maybe I’m attracted to success. Maybe I get some kind of weird thrill sexually, participating in something that I know is wrong… and maybe I’m just a home wrecker that has deeper issues than I care to realize. Whatever the actual reason it seems like they are the only type of men I ever seem to date and actually fall for. I know what you are already thinking… it is wrong, ON SO MANY LEVELS, and I should be completely ashamed of myself. Well guess what, I AM. My first experience put me through so much emotionally that I quit my job, lost nearly 80lbs. and refused to leave my apartment building for almost 6 months. So before you judge me know that I have definitely paid the price. Mainly because in both of these cases I have been taken completely by surprise. I had no clue either of these men had a wife at home, let alone a family. After that first experience I swore to myself that I would never put myself, or ANY OTHER WOMAN for that matter, through ANY of that again. Yet here I am, almost 8 1/2 months into a relationship that was starting to bring me back to life, and I’m starting to feel like I’m having Deja VU. He lives in a different city so these past 8 months we haven’t been able to spend as much time together as we wanted, or at least I thought. After almost a year and a half of leaving the company I was working for, I have come full circle and put myself in a position to be offered a promotion and the chance to actually relocate from NYC to the same city he lives in… Los Angeles. You would think this would all be great news, and that the world was finally starting to balance out, but the closer I get to actually moving out to LA, the more distance he seems to be putting between us. He says it’s just crazy work stuff, which would be totally understandable except for ONE FACT THAT I CANNOT IGNORE… this whole distance thing only started at the time of me mentioning my promotion, and my possible move. With the way he has been talking to me this whole time it is so weird for him to be acting distant all of a sudden and I can’t help but to think that there once again, is just more to this story. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I will not let another man derail my career, or watch him put his family through what I witnessed a couple years ago. Whether or not I take this promotion and move to LA will be totally based on what is best for me and I’m not going to go chasing a married man halfway across the country. It scares me though because if I find out he is married, or there is something else going on out there I just might purposely not go to LA because it would just be too much. It would be such a distraction I might loose sight of why I moved there in the first place, and the promotion and the move would pretty much be all for nothing. Then again am I doing what I told myself I wouldn’t and letting another man derail my career? Don’t get me wrong I take full responsibility for what happened to ma a couple years ago. I have the therapy bills to prove it. I just don’t know what to do and I really need some advice from all of you, if you can forgive me for what I was, and see me for what I am trying to become. I don’t think this will all really come to the surface until I’m actually out there, but at that point, will it all be too late…
I’ve been married for two years now and I’m 92% sure my husband is having an affair with his co-worker. I need your advice because there’s still an 8% chance I’m wrong. I dated my husband for five years before we got married and during these five years we’ve had two breaks, during the first break he slept with my cousin and during the second break I slept with his best friend. So yeah, I’m not perfect either, but we both evened the score and promised each other it would never happen again. Well, all the sudden his new assistant 23 year-old Sarah ***** is constantly texting him at hours that are unprofessional in the business sense and every time she texts, like 11pm, he gets out of bed and goes downstairs to text back. I always ask him who and what and why??? He tells me it’s Sarah, she’s working late for a deadline. Well… Last night they were face-timing each other and he went into the bathroom for the conversation and locked the door. So what should I do? Because I really want to go to his office and kick her ass!!
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So apparently the police are completely happy with some crazy psycho stalker woman harassing my husband, and could care less about me or my children’s safety. This woman has gone to insane lengths trying to get my husband to sleep with her and I don’t know what to do next… I thought showing up at the police station with a pair of her panties and a handwritten note that was stuffed in my mailbox would be enough. Not only that, but this is the FIFTH time she has done it! I literally have two bra’s and now three pairs of underwear from this woman that in all honesty do not make her anymore attractive whatsoever. She might as well have had her Grandmother drop off a few pairs… like who could possibly think these are sexy. Along with each of these chicks bra’s and panties there has always been a note to my husband telling him how handsome he was that day, how sexy she thinks he is, and then she sign’s her crazy a$$ name with a kiss. What’s even creepier is my husband has absolutely no clue who this woman is, and the only thing that has saved his a$$ in this entire situation is 1. -I trust my husband more than anyone else on the planet… and 2. -This woman even wrote on one of the first lil’love notes that she was his secret admirer, and that she basically just watches him all day and is too shy to actually talk to him! Too shy?? How’bout these panties I have of yours sealed up in a plastic bag by the front door… don’ seem too shy to me…!?? Little did I know that I should’ve been saving each and every contaminated article of this girls clothing and notes, and held onto them for posterity and safe keeping. The Officer, or SHERIFFS DEPUTY I guess I should say (considering his deputy Dooffy a$$ corrected me twice for saying it) that with the evidence I had provided him, I had not given him “sufficient evidence” that this lunatic was a “physical threat” to me or my family. How much more proof would be sufficient MR. Deputy, perhaps my husbands cold dead lifeless body strangled in grannypanties would do it??? Or maybe mine? How’bout the kids then? What is wrong with law enforcement and how far does someone need to go before something really terrible happens that can’t just be thrown in the garbage with yesterdays trash? Apparently pretty far because this sworn officer, I mean deputy, sooooo sorrrrrry, told me that I needed physical proof of her intent to do physical damage to my property or assault myself, my husband, or my children. Like how is this legal?? I’m not asking for the poor girl to be hauled off to jail for having a thing for my husband, and possibly being a little mentally “unstable”, I mean hell I get it baby girl, I have a thing for my husband too… but maybe some kind of order requiring her NOT to STALK my HUSBAND and our MAILBOX everyday and creep TF out of my family, might possibly be in order. I believe they call them the RESTRAINING kind… I don’t know, I’m not a cop or an attorney but I do known when someone is crossing very serious lines, and might need a little wake up call from whatever planet she thinks she’s living on. Deputy Dooffy even had the audacity to accuse my husband of possibly having an affair with this woman, and that maybe her “advances” on my husband could have been “warranted!” Pretty sure adultery is against the law in my state so even if my husband was slipping her more than her daily dose of psych meds, these advances are anything but warranted. This girl is obviously sick in the head and is need of serious psychological treatment. I have been doing background checks on every single girl with her name for days now and I haven’t once found the person I have been seeing trolling around my front yard… but you can sure believe if I ever see her again in any way shape or form I am going to do more to her than express my first amendment right to free speech, okay OFFICER… THANKS!!!
Ok so I just want to start off by thanking everyone for their advice and support. I asked the administers of this webpage to publish my story anonymously, so the fact that all of you chimed in and gave advice to a total stranger was so awesome. I just started following this site, but I think this is what it’s all about… empowering us women to take charge of our lives and maybe wake up a little by hearing what others think. You guys are awesome!! I kept seeing comments asking for updates so I wanted to write you guys and let you know what happened. After reading all of your comments I realized that the smartest thing to do right now, is absolutely nothing… you were right girls. To sleep with his best friend to get back at him for all may years of bullsh*t would have been totally beneath me. Not only that, it would have been stupid. While giving me the ultimate payback and satisfaction, sleeping with my husbands best friend would have put me in a losing position when I actually divorce his a$$ here soon. You guys are so right. I’m taking your advice, and I’m going to collect every bit off evidence I can find (all while he thinks everything is it’s normal sh*tty self) and bring it to a divorce attorney the first of the year. My husband has never even heard of this site so we’ll just keep it all between us at the moment K… 😉 I will definitely keep y’all informed and let you know what happens. This man is such an idiot and we can all kick back, enjoy the show, and watch this husband of mine hang himself out to dry.
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-Mrs. Movie Popcorn
My husbands gorgeous best friend has been trying to hook up with me for years… and considering the amount of times this idiot has cheated on me, I’m tempted to just do it. This man has put me through so much heartache, so much embarrassment, I want him to see how it feels. What better way than hooking up with his best friend. Who, did I mention is hot AF. This friend, who will remain anonymous (FOR NOW), and I have been spending a lot of time with each other recently because my husband owns a general contracting company and we are doing a huge remod on our home. My husband actually made his partner, his best friend the site manager on our house, so he could go hook up with this 22 year old high school dropout at a local motel while he knows I’m going to be distracted with everyone here. “I think I would kill myself if I didn’t get out of the house everyday…”, I believe were his exact words. Well yeah, he’s getting out alright… more like stepping out. Besides being his wife I also help with the accounting for his firm, and I found several charges on his company card for some sleazy motel near one of our other job sites. He said that he gets these rooms just to have a place to shower before he gets home! WTF! Who does that? Is it a coincidence that this motel is also across the street from the local strip joint where this 22 year old “entrepreneur” works 6 days a week? I doubt it. There have been rumors going around town about him and this girl being seen together at different places, but I really didn’t buy into all the gossip until I found these room charges. Every night there was a room charge there were also charges on his own credit card at different restaurants, so clearly he is wining her and dining her as well. Must be nice. We haven’t gone out to dinner together in almost a year. Probably because he is busy “entertaining” the “entertainer”. Well, he’s not the only one that is going to be entertained… because tomorrow when everybody comes to work on the house, that’s not the only thing his best friend is going to go to work on. He has been the only person in years that has made me feel attractive and desired. He makes me laugh, and he makes me smile. My husband had no clue what he was doing when he decided to put his friend in charge of this project. He has basically shown me how much happier I would be without him. His friend isn’t married and he isn’t in a relationship, and my husband never wanted to have children with me, so technically the only HOME I’ll be WRECKING is my own. At this point I’m done being taken advantage of, and believe it or not, I’m looking forward to getting “WRECKED” come Monday morning… 😉
When is enough, enough… I never thought I would ever be one to stay with somebody after they cheated, but there I was. 16 years of broken hearts and broken promises, I stayed. We tried therapy, made changes in the bedroom, and even started taking monthly trips because our therapist said we needed to experience new things together… Well, it’s a good thing he likes room service because those are the only meals he’s going to be eating for a while. I’m done. Every time I look at him I am reminded of a WHOLE NEW other woman, and I just can’t go through this again. These women who think they are stealing my husband are only fooling themselves. He would never leave me. The real question is when will I leave him? We have 3 children together and I feel like this always ends up being the deciding factor of me staying or going. I always stay for the kids, and even though I love my family, even though I still love my husband, it’s time for me to start loving myself, and caring for myself, since it appears I’m the only one in this relationship that will. He has thrown away years of us trying to rebuild and I just don’t get it. I know I deserve better. What I don’t know is how it can be so easy for people to destroy the hearts of those who love them most? It’s baffling to me, and I’m done trying to figure it out. My children might have a hard time with this for a while, but I can only imagine what it will be like for them in the future when they finally have a mother that isn’t sad, unhappy, and broken all the time. For years I stayed for the children. Well guess what… now I’m leaving for them… and their comin with me.
“Men are responsible for cheating on their wives, and many of the women do hold them accountable. These women have lives, children, homes with these men. They have invested many years with their husbands. They love them… it’s differ ”
-She’s a Homewrecker.com~
Personally, I agree 100% with S.A.H.W. and think this site is a wonderful idea. Maybe women will think twice before becoming involved with or attempting to seduce a man already in a relationship and/or a man who has a family. Also, this website provides us with a type of closure. I know I felt better once I got to say what the “other” woman did to me, my family and my life. Did she do anything criminal? Maybe not, but morally… you better believe it! What this website does is no different than the gossip that has gone ’round in many towns and communities all around the country. However, at least here, the story of what someone did is right there, told exactly how the writer experienced it. It isn’t twisted into gossip by being retold and retold from person to person. That’s when the information gets mixed up and muddled. Making these home wrecking women accountable for what they do to other women, to families, to children, all because of their selfishness and emptiness is commendable. Thank you so much for the daily S.A.H.W. Support articles. Giving us a support platform to ask opinions of you and the entire She’s a Home Wrecker network of people, provides a valuable service. Giving us a sense of what other women & men would do in our situations, and honestly makes me feel less crazy knowing their are other people out there that are willing to go to the lengths I would to save, repair, or even end a relationship… Keep them coming and thank you S.A.H.W. Support!!!
So my boyfriend thinks it’s totally cool for him to play with dating apps “for fun”. The other day I was sitting there watching a movie while my BF went to go pick up some Chinese food. About 5 minutes after he left I noticed he left his phone in the kitchen because it started “pinging” over and over again. I went and grabbed his phone and when I typed in the passcode it was changed! What he didn’t know is I scanned my own fingerprint in it weeks ago and saved it in the settings! So basically anytime I wanted I can go into his phone and see what his shady a$$ is doing all day without him even knowing LoL. Not proud of myself for that but when a girl has a feeling, she has a feeling… and boy was I right. When I opened his phone I noticed an application that I had never seen before, and it was Tinder!!! This dude is swiping chicks all day long while he’s at work!!! He didn’t have very many matches, LoL, but I clicked on the one he did have and it was this girl asking him which Chinese Food place he was going to! This MF… Can anyone be this stupid?!? Make sure you take your phone with you when you are trying to cheat on your GF you idiot!! Needless to say I broke up with him and don’t plan on ever seeing him again if I can help it. He tried to tell me that it was just for fun while he was bored at work. We’ll he’ll have all the time in the world now… I even told the chick on Tinder which restaurant he was going to. I hope she enjoys his less than average eggroll. Happy Tindering Everyone!!!
When is it the right time to move on? I have been a single dad for about a year and a half now, and I just have absolutely no desire to be in a relationship. Did my marriage end badly, yes. Am I still messed up about it, yes. Did she leave me for a 27 year old fitness model, probably. I mean she definitely did, I’m just saying I hope that wasn’t the only reason. I thought we were happy but when she started bringing issues of the Men’s Journal home for me to read, I probably should have seen the signs. That being said I have great friends, and they keep taking me out to these “single bars” and nightclubs and I just feel ridiculous in there. I have absolutely no business being in a club and those years are long past me now. Thank god. I have kids at home, and I’m thankful that I do. Whenever my wife and I did go out, I couldn’t wait to get home and see the kids. Don’t get me wrong, it’s nice to have a break, and now with them being with their Mother and Push-up Pete half the time, I have plenty of breaks. I’m just saying, I love being a father. Being a Dad to these kids is one of the greatest gifts I’ve ever been given. It’s what made me leave that whole party life behind. Trust me, I lived in that whole scene. Now when I’m out, I just think about going home, finishing up some work, and falling asleep watching AMAZON PRIME with a glass of wine in my hand. Regardless, I’m trying to move on. I really am. I’ve dated a few people in the past year, and we’ve had some fun, but whenever it comes to that next step, the real intimacy, I can just never seem to stay in that place with them. I guess it’s just still strange for me to be spending time with these women that AREN’T my wife. I don’t know when I’m supposed to get used to that. When I said those vows, I said them for life, and I meant them… they didn’t just stop because all of a sudden it would be convenient for me to get laid. I guess I’m just looking to you guys to vent a little, and maybe see if anyone has gone through the same. I know I deserve to be happy, and I would love to find someone great, but unfortunately for me I did, I married her, we had two beautiful children together and she left me for GYM TAN LAUNDRY.
I think my husband of 7 years is having an affair with one of his clients and I am terrified of becoming another cliché. My husband is a full partner at a reputable law firm, and has been involved in a legal battle with a certain publishing company for over two year’s now. This “client” was a PLAYBOY centerfold at one time in her life, so I’ll let you do the math. I don’t know what to do. Is this woman’s ridiculous body causing me to be paranoid? If it is I am very disappointed in myself. I have never been intimidated by another woman especially when it comes to my husband but they spend so much time together on this case that I’m starting to think she is getting more than just good legal council. Our thoughts??
I’ve been in a relationship for most 7 years. We have a daughter and a baby on the way. I have 2 kids from my previous relationship. Anyhow it started off with him saving pictures of girls with big boobs and big butts on his phone. I forgave him because I knew that moving in with me was a big change for him plus also living with me with 2 children on my own. Last year I found a memory chip in his wallet with pictures and videos of the same thing. I was upset I told him I find it very disrespectful that I wouldn’t do that to him. Again stupid me forgave him. A little bit after I found out I was pregnant with his 2nd child he was acting really mean to me and the kids to the point we did’t wanna be in the house when he is home. He also has been hiding his phone, trying to lose weight, hiding his money. I had a gut feeling he was cheating on me. I asked him about it and he said I am just tripping and it’s probably my pregnancy making me feel like this. Well I decided to look through his phone because I couldn’t help what my gut was telling me. I found him writing to a girl (on SnapChat) he use to work with. He was calling her beautiful, sexy and hot also asking her to sent him nudes and of course she did. SnapChat only saves so little but it was enough to see what him and her were writing to each other. She also said, “don’t let your lady found out” his response was… “oh no those are for me to see.” Then she asked him if they can be friends with benefits but since it’s SnapChat I can’t see what he wrote back. I confronted him… He said “oh you know who, that’s the girl I use to work with.” I said I know, I’ve met her before. So I showed him his phone he said why am I looking through his phone etc. He grabbed it out of my hand and things got ugly because he saw that I wrote to her. I told her “you’re a [email protected]*e for knowing that he is in a relationship with a baby on the way. Shame on you that you can’t find a man of your own.” I left him and told him I was done with him and that he can keep her. I asked him why he would do this to me and he said because “I had been mean to him lately.” I said I find it funny how you expect me to treat you like gold when you’ve been a real a$$hole to the kids and me. I don’t know what to do… I have no job… I’m high risk in my pregnancy… and I haven’t stopped crying. Please no negative comments, I know I should’ve never took him back. True love is blind AF and now I’ve seen too much…
My husband and I have been swingers for almost three years now and I think he has been seeing one of the couples we swing together with on his own. I know I set myself up for this but if we aren’t doing things with other couples together, it definitely is cheating. I was never a huge fan of this whole swinger idea but I wanted to satisfy my husband. I read recently on this site about a woman who was contemplating doing the same for her husband… don’t. It will always lead to something else if not at the very least cause some form of jealousy between you and your partner. The couple I believe my husband has been seeing without me were into some really far out stuff that personally made me a little uncomfortable. That is saying a lot considering we’re swingers, you would think there wasn’t much that could make me uncomfortable. Now he’s probably doing these things without me and I’m just devastated. We have been married for over 20 years so initially this was just a means to spice things up a bit but now I’m afraid things have just gotten a little TOO spicy for my taste. What do I do? Do I hire someone to see if he is cheating? Should I just ask him? What if he admits it and wants to keep seeing this couple…