I dated Brian back in 2009. He told me that his marriage was over, his “ex” was living with her parents, and the divorce was in process. He told me that marrying her was the biggest mistake he ever made. Fast forward 6 months, I found out I was pregnant. When I told him, he was furious and told me to “get rid of it”. I was completely confused and then came the words that started the nightmare “Well, so is my wife”. Excuse me?! The supposed ex apparently wasn’t the ex he made her out to be and was actually due a few weeks before me. After coming to grips with the fact that he played me for a complete fool, I had already made up my mind to keep the baby. I tried to make it clear to everyone including his wife that, while I was sorry for the situation this created, I would not have put myself in this position had I known the truth and that what Brian told me was about as far from the truth as one could get. However, despite the fact that I was lied to, I was made into the villain and Brian took no physical responsibility for my son. The DNA test he requested after birth proved that my son was his. At that point, he was ordered to pay $100 a month in child support (all while being paid under the table and not reporting it). When my son was 2, I met the man who is now my husband, and who adopted my son 2 years later. He is the ONLY daddy my son has ever known and ever will know because even 11 years later, Brian has never set eyes on him in person. I sent pictures, I sent messages, and I sent updates regularly to not only Brian, but his mother, father, sister, and brother for years and yet, every single one of them ignore my son’s existence. Brian now has 3 sons by 3 different women but only acknowledges and parents 1 of them, the 1 he had with his now EX-wife since, surprise surprise, she caught him cheating on her at least 4 more times that I know of with 4 more women before she got tired of dealing with him. He happily signed away his rights to my son back in 2014 and another of his sons just a couple of years ago while he constantly posts pictures of him and the only child he deems important enough to parent and preaches on his facebook about being a good father, loving your child despite your relationship with their mother, and makes himself out to be father of the year. He has been engaged at least 2 times in the last 4 years and both times those ended abruptly, another girlfriend went so far as to flee the state. DO NOT DATE HIM! He is very cunning but most snakes are. He says all the right things, has all the right moves, and will do whatever it takes to get what he wants. But when you go against him, you’re on your own. In my case, I’m left to explain to my son one day why his biological father wasn’t worthy of him and trying to ensure that he never for a single second feels he was unwanted or unloved. Brian Derek Carter is poison, he is a waste of air, he is possibly the most toxic, vile, sickening excuse for a human being I have ever had the displeasure of knowing. The only good thing that came from him is my son, who may look just like him but will NEVER have any of his or his family’s despicable personality traits. Brian and his entire family abandoned my son and are all morally bankrupt.
Brian Derek Carter Lying, Cheating, Deadbeat Dad
Sep 3rd, 2021 – 11:25 AM Share