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So I think my husband is having an affair with the next door neighbor and I need some advice before I fall victim to this potential Home Wrecker… This woman shows all the signs, and rumor has it she has already ruined two other marriages in two other neighborhoods. Apparently she has a thing for keeping her affairs local. Like within a hundred feet kinda local… You know those movies where the hot older lady is always watering her grass, or picking up her newspaper in sexy nightgowns and revealing lingerie… well this is her. Every time this woman walks outside her house she is wearing some sexy [email protected]# outfit. Like who TF sleeps in outfits like that. Seriously… what happened to a comfortable t-shirt. This woman is always strutting across her yard wearing matching bra’s and robes, and I swear she is trying to entice something. My husband is just dumb enough to fall for it too… the past few nights when I have been driving up to the house I have seen him coming out of her side door into our house. When I get inside he acts like nothing happened and he’s just been sittin there mindin his own beezwax,,, Um, no honey, I just saw you just walk in. When I asked him what he was doing over there… again he tells me that Mrs. Robinson over there has been having “trouble with her cable box” the past few days. Cable box my ass… he’s workin own a box alright but it’s got nothin to do with cable television…. He can barely tie his own shoe laces by himself let alone fix a cable box. For Christmas our 22 year old son bought us a new smart TV, and he had to call our boy to have him drive 45 miles to our house to help him set it up… I mean we’re talking about plugging a few wires in, WTF does he think he is that he’s gonna be able to fix her cable.  Normally I wouldn’t think twice about some next door floozy tryin to throw herself at my husband, but last June it was discovered that he was having an affair with someone from his office at work and I just really haven’t gotten over that. It was a total nightmare. She was fired, and my husband was suspended for almost 2 months. He thought he was going to loose his job, and those two months were the hardest of our 20 year marriage. He was falling apart thinking I was going to leave him and he was going to loose his job all at the same time. So I did what a the “good wife” does and stayed, to help him get his act together and prevent the entire family’s welfare from being put in jeopardy. Well he went back to work and wasn’t fired. If you ask me, he should have been fired too… but I guess for our family’s sake he got lucky. How long did it take y’all not regain trust in your husbands…? For me it seems like every little thing has been making me think he’s having another affair and honestly I don’t think I could survive another one. We had actually been doing a lot better these past few months and I was actually starting to think that our marriage might not be completely in the trash and we might get through this… but after everything that we have dealt with this past year… for him to even put me in the position to doubt him again? That alone makes me want to leave. I don’t know what I’m gonna do but if I get even the slightest hint that he is cheating on me again, I’m gone. He can keep our neighbor, and her faulty “box”.

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  1. DiJune 6, 2018 at 4:47 pm

    If you have already saw him with your own 2 eyes coming out of her house before you get home from work HELLO!!! What do you think they are doing? Pretend to go to work and spy on them!

  2. Not a superheroMay 17, 2018 at 7:02 pm

    I want you to think about something. She’s obviously looking for sex but, your husband is the one who chooses to take the bait or not.
    He’s already cheated once that you actually found out about. Evidently, he’s doing it again.
    At this point you either have to choose to leave or stay knowing what you know.

  3. AmandaMay 14, 2018 at 2:21 am

    Honestly, I think you already have your answer. There are red flags up every where in your head so that tells you throw in the towel. Why should you have to live your life in fear of him cheating again. That’s one reason I will not go back to my ex. He’s a habitual liar and cheater. Sorry I have better shit to do with my time.

  4. AlexMay 14, 2018 at 12:42 am

    Give him a blow job. If it tastes salty, your safe. If it tastes like, forgive me for being crude but pussy or if it doesn’t taste like anything at all – your in trouble.

    • Not a superheroMay 17, 2018 at 7:04 pm

      He could wash his d!ck in the sink before he left.

  5. RoxMay 13, 2018 at 9:31 am

    It took me almost 2 yrs to fully move on and just not let it bother me. It took that long because the person he cheated with worked with him so I had to constantly put up with her daily. Honestly, I regret not leaving because I still don’t think he values me enough. I never bring it up, since I forgave him( but not forget) I don’t believe in constantly bringing it back. He hasn’t done anything since then that I am aware of, however if I have a slight feeling that he is doing it again, I will leave without hesitation this time. It caused too much stress, tears, and pain for me to take it again. We are ok now, but things will never be the same ever again. The respect is not there are it used to be at least from my side. I know that I can still leave but it wouldn’t be fair to do it now when everything is going good to where I should have left when it happened. I hope you make the decision that is best for you.

  6. BarbaraMay 13, 2018 at 7:17 am

    I would straight up ask that woman what was going on
    You will tell from her reaction what’s up
    It’s hard to give up on someone you have spent two decades with it may be innocent but his past behavior would make anyone doubt him
    I don’t know him or you but you approach her unexpectedly you will know by her behavior
    I hope all works out for you

  7. From a Man Point of ViewMay 13, 2018 at 5:55 am

    Speaking from the standpoint of a man who was married to a homewrecking wife. If he cheated last year he will cheat again. He is either board, courious, or has sever commitment issues. The fault is the fault of your husband the Slut next door is just providing the pathway to cheat. She is posing for any man in the neighborhood who will give her attention. That is the reason she “has affairs” with men within 100 feet of her door. We don’t know if it is accurate or not. What we do know is you have an instinct that I would listen to, your husband has a past of where it is ok to free Willy, and you have an enticement next door. The thing that separates man from the animal kingdom is where we stick our reproductive organs. Your neighbor could be trying to land the 19 year old stud around the corner. Your husband has control where he sticks his stick. She should have the decency to say your married stay away. He should have the decency to know he is married and stay away. In this case I would blame your husband not the slut and let him know you are not going through it again. You catch him over there again and you are dumping his shit on the front porch and he can live there.

  8. SueMay 13, 2018 at 4:44 am

    Go knock on the bitches door and confront her face-to-face and if you want to have your video recording her reaction because she can talk the talk but her face and her body language tell you the truth…she might just cave-in and admit it and then you could take it to your ass of a husband ( I got same kind) and tell him to go to hell and take her with him. Sorry so close but tell her without video you gonna jack her up if you so much as see her look at your husband or see him sneak out her house ever again. I’ve confronted every single bimbo my husband tried to get with or was with.. the ones I could find out about… tell her she can have him.. come get him… tell all his bad habits.. all crap he did that hurt you or disappoint you… by that time once th y see he ain’t mr wonderful… they literally run the other way.. I make more money than him.. no guarantee I would not pay spousal support or for how long so I’m not getting a divorce.. if that’s what you want.. make it miserable so he leaves.. why should you.. so far my husband stays cause he can’t afford to leave and can’t find anyone who can deal with his bs or make as much as me.. until then.. I’ll just aggravate the crap out of him til he breaks… good luck.. tell that bitch to back off if she knows what’s good for her health

  9. NatalieJanuary 26, 2018 at 4:50 am

    He has no business going into another female’s house alone in the first place. What do you honestly think he is doing? Why are you even playing his game?
    I’d let him know that you’re aware of it all. I’d leave. He should not be going to another female’s house alone. At all. This is so obvious to those who aren’t married and in your situation.

  10. IdeaJanuary 25, 2018 at 5:02 pm

    Next time he’s fixing the cable box, walk over with some refreshments and knock on the door, see what happens.

  11. KatJanuary 25, 2018 at 12:10 pm

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. Why wait for him to “do it again” the signs are there. Either you live with it or move on.

  12. GoghsMissingEarJanuary 25, 2018 at 8:34 am

    Honey, it takes two people to cheat. You’re naive to blame it fully on this other woman and to go back to your husband. Grow a pair and divorce his ass!

    • MyShineyCapeJanuary 28, 2018 at 3:39 pm

      Why beat her up? She asked for advice and/or support just by being on the page….That comment was mean spirited.

  13. Leaveacheater GainalifeJanuary 25, 2018 at 5:28 am

    Nanny cam?