So I think my husband is having an affair with the next door neighbor and I need some advice before I fall victim to this potential Home Wrecker… This woman shows all the signs, and rumor has it she has already ruined two other marriages in two other neighborhoods. Apparently she has a thing for keeping her affairs local. Like within a hundred feet kinda local… You know those movies where the hot older lady is always watering her grass, or picking up her newspaper in sexy nightgowns and revealing lingerie… well this is her. Every time this woman walks outside her house she is wearing some sexy [email protected]# outfit. Like who TF sleeps in outfits like that. Seriously… what happened to a comfortable t-shirt. This woman is always strutting across her yard wearing matching bra’s and robes, and I swear she is trying to entice something. My husband is just dumb enough to fall for it too… the past few nights when I have been driving up to the house I have seen him coming out of her side door into our house. When I get inside he acts like nothing happened and he’s just been sittin there mindin his own beezwax,,, Um, no honey, I just saw you just walk in. When I asked him what he was doing over there… again he tells me that Mrs. Robinson over there has been having “trouble with her cable box” the past few days. Cable box my ass… he’s workin own a box alright but it’s got nothin to do with cable television…. He can barely tie his own shoe laces by himself let alone fix a cable box. For Christmas our 22 year old son bought us a new smart TV, and he had to call our boy to have him drive 45 miles to our house to help him set it up… I mean we’re talking about plugging a few wires in, WTF does he think he is that he’s gonna be able to fix her cable. Normally I wouldn’t think twice about some next door floozy tryin to throw herself at my husband, but last June it was discovered that he was having an affair with someone from his office at work and I just really haven’t gotten over that. It was a total nightmare. She was fired, and my husband was suspended for almost 2 months. He thought he was going to loose his job, and those two months were the hardest of our 20 year marriage. He was falling apart thinking I was going to leave him and he was going to loose his job all at the same time. So I did what a the “good wife” does and stayed, to help him get his act together and prevent the entire family’s welfare from being put in jeopardy. Well he went back to work and wasn’t fired. If you ask me, he should have been fired too… but I guess for our family’s sake he got lucky. How long did it take y’all not regain trust in your husbands…? For me it seems like every little thing has been making me think he’s having another affair and honestly I don’t think I could survive another one. We had actually been doing a lot better these past few months and I was actually starting to think that our marriage might not be completely in the trash and we might get through this… but after everything that we have dealt with this past year… for him to even put me in the position to doubt him again? That alone makes me want to leave. I don’t know what I’m gonna do but if I get even the slightest hint that he is cheating on me again, I’m gone. He can keep our neighbor, and her faulty “box”.