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Ok so this isn’t your normal Home Wrecking story, but either way it is something that is ruining my life. My live-in girlfriend watches porn at least 2-4 hours every single day, and I’m just wondering if you guys think that this counts as cheating. We barely have sex anymore and when we do, she has to have this porn on all the time while we’re doing it. At first I didn’t think this was that big of a deal, I mean who doesn’t watch porn right? But this whole porn thing has completely consumed her. She even just got a job as an online “porn Critic” so I just imagine it’s going to get worse at this point. I mean she has never cheated on me, but this feels like cheating. I mean she is literally watching other chicks and dudes all day long, and now she’s getting paid for it. I’s a total nightmare. On top of that she has started collecting memorabilia of these “Actresses” so now I not only have to listen to them all day and night but I have to see them strung up all around my house on top of it. This has to be some form of cheating and I just feel like I am at my wits end with the whole porn thing. It started off as something we were both into but now has just become almost an obsession with her. Because of that I feel like it is partly my fault but I have to put my foot down somewhere. She lives with me in my apartment and I am going to give her an ultimatum to quit with the porn or move out. There is no way in hell anyone else would put up with this stuff like I have and I’m just over it. Has anyone else had a similar experience, or even just some advice at this point would help…

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  1. AddictionMay 17, 2018 at 6:45 pm

    There’s actually something called porn addiction..
    I suggest that she goes to counseling, gets a job outside of the home or you leave.

  2. AissaMay 16, 2018 at 11:45 am

    Sounds like she has a porn addiction and needs to get treatment or you need to move on. Sorry. 🙁

  3. Caramel RedboneMarch 7, 2018 at 6:07 pm

    I think it would be considered cheating if she did it behind your back. The bigger concern however, is that this sounds like an addiction. Does she have a history of being sexually abused? From my own experience after multiple traumas you sometimes get desensitized to normal sex and move on to fantasy and more intense fetishes until you decide and acknowledge you have a problem and the root of it. Often promiscuity or porn addiction result from the result of being violated, it gives a false sense of taking back control of your own body. Either way it is a destructive path that will require counseling. Best wishes.

  4. Been there!March 6, 2018 at 1:51 pm

    I agree. It’s a form of cheating. And usually leads to the real thing. I’m talking from experience. I never held out or cut off sex. But they watched it every time I turned me back. And then they start judging you, nothing you do is good enough. Then they cheat and act like they’re the victim. I’d say cut your losses. Or give her an ultimatum. If she doesn’t care how she’s making you feel. And shrugs off your concerns. Leave, because she’s a narcissist and you’ll never matter to her any more than an object in the corner.
    Porn use has been proven worse than using heroin. And just as addictive. Find someone who shares you beliefs and values you as a real human being. You’re not photoshopped and fake. You deserve better!

  5. AddisonMarch 5, 2018 at 11:54 pm

    i, myself like you think of it as a form of cheating, I don’t watch it at all, never have never will. If someone has to watch it well having sex in order to hit their mark,yep, it’s cheating to me. But then again she may have the fantasy being a porn star herself if she’s going out a buying all that crap of other stars, you may want to ask her then tell her to hit the road cause your in a losing battle then.