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Being featured on this website has opened my eyes to the way that we as women blame each other for our spouses or significant others cheating. When you google my name the first thing that pops up is this site. That’s pretty despicable. People’s families can see these sites, their children can see them. Why? Why would any one of us feel it nessesary to post about the supposed homewrecker, name, personnel info, job, etc? I’d love to hear some opinions of those who have posted and why, what did you get out of it? Did it help? Make you feel better? Fix your marriage? What if the person you called out made up something about you and posted it? For those people that are being posted about, what do you think? It’s all good cause they probably won’t post this to the page anyway since SAHW only posts the dirt on people…


Not Always Home Wrecker… X O X O -SAHW Admin.

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  1. Not StupidMay 18, 2018 at 2:19 pm

    The only times I believe the woman is purely inmocent is when she does not know he is married/in a serious relationship. Some men are dang good at hiding affairs with their job schedules, etc. The worst situation is when it’s a friend that betrays you. Just hold as much, if not more, anger toward the man as you do toward the woman trying or succeeding to ruin your life together. I had this skanky girl tell me she could take my man if she wanted and there’s nothing I could do about it…I told her if she can take him, keep him…because he wasn’t worth my time in the first place.

  2. Mrs. DamigellaMay 15, 2018 at 7:29 am

    Because you know it is wrong to sleep with a married man. Now you are ashamed and embarrassed. Then why did you do it. It’s funny these skanks act like they are are above the wives. Like we are the problem and there is something wrong with us being upset that out husbands are cheating. It is more the guys fault but these skanks have a huge part in it. I would never do that to another women.

  3. You're a homewreckerApril 5, 2018 at 10:58 am

    You should’ve thought about the consequences before you spread your legs to a married man! And what nerve you have to play “victim” on this website, and to actually expect someone to feel sorry for you! You’re a narcissist so you’re not capable of being remorseful or guilty of your actions. You clearly get the satisfaction of all the negative comments that are made about you because it’s still attention!

  4. BatcatApril 4, 2018 at 7:20 am

    The way I see it is if ur embarrassed to be on this site and have ur less than moral tendencies posted all over the internet then don’t sleep with married/taken men & if u didn’t know they were married/taken then don’t a little more research before u spread ur legs!!!!

  5. BrokenMarch 20, 2018 at 11:53 am

    Did posting her profile on here fix my marriage? No. Did it make me feel better? Yes. In fact it was a huge weight off my shoulders because she had been lying to everyone about what happened. She’s one of those perfect Christian girls that believes her sins are washed away by prayer. But her prayers don’t save my family that she has broken. Her marriage doesn’t involved children. She knew we had children, talked about being their stepmother and taking my husband and moving away with them. When he decided to come clean and tell her it was over she obsessively called him from dozens of numbers begging him not to stay with me. I’m not blind to my husband’s infedelity, he has felt the brunt of my pain and anguish. He’s ashamed and has cried so much, I’ve never seen him cry in our ten years of marriage. Now he doesn’t stop. We go to counseling. We are more open to one another now. But my anger towards her and the things I saw her say to him in all of their text messages , I needed an outlet and this site allowed that. It allowed her family to see the truth of what she was hiding. I sent everything to her husband too because she had still been lying to him. I’m not going to allow a Christian hypocrite to destroy my family. She doesn’t have children to worry about in her perfect little world. I do. And their world has been completely rocked because of this. She deserved every bit of this and more.

    • Healing HeartApril 5, 2018 at 11:01 am

      I’m glad you exposed that POS all of them need to be exposed

  6. DOUBTFULMarch 18, 2018 at 9:01 pm

    This woman who wrote this thinks she isn’t a homewrecker. The name Laura Anne Kemmerer came up. After reading it. I’m sure she is who wrote this. MORALS

  7. HOMEWRECKER EXTRAORDINAIREMarch 16, 2018 at 7:28 am

    Bessie Giesler of Cabot Arkansas is the likely candidate who sought solace and acceptance by writing this. What she didn’t say was “I’m sorry for being a whore and wrecking marriages and damaging relationships.” What she’s asking is for someone to say ‘it’s OK, Hun! You’re the victim, poor thing. All those many many men out there that you cheated on your husband and family with are the ones that are wrong. They deceived you”. If that’s what you were looking for when you wrote this, then I suppose you wrote it in the wrong place. Accept what you are or change! Make amends! Seek forgiveness and STOP screwing around. It’s cost you your JOB, your husband’s love and trust, your family’s respect and your integrity. Good luck !

  8. JessMarch 16, 2018 at 4:52 am

    I posted exactly what happened. I HOPE people look up her name and see this site. I HOPE it makes people question their association with her. She is ruining so many lives. I wish someone had warned me about her.

    Don’t like dirty secrets spread online? Don’t make bad choices.

  9. Intelligent wifeMarch 15, 2018 at 5:52 am

    A cheater CHOOSES to cheat.
    A home wrecker CHOOSES to pursue the cheater.
    A betrayed wife/husband DOES NOT CHOOSE to be cheated on. She/he is the victim.
    Now get out of here with your narcissistic bullsh**!

  10. She is a homewreckerMarch 14, 2018 at 3:42 pm

    Her name is Laura Anne Kemmerer. Now that the name is out. Go ahead ladies! We have found two names. One has her first name the second is with the last name. Did she really think posting this was going to build her up?

  11. BetrayedPsyD with no BS in BSMarch 14, 2018 at 8:51 am

    This post is meant to help you and not attack you, so please keep an open heart and mind as your read my words to you although they may be harsh. The proof of your guilt is in your writing. You never once said “I am innocent” or “I truly did nothing wrong”. You signature is “Not Always Home Wrecker” instead of “I’m not a home wrecker”.
    The wording that people use is often reflective of what they are saying in between the lines. Your avoidant choice of language is highly indicative of a guilty conscience. Secondly, your first concern listed is about how embarrassing it is that if someone googles you, your name comes up on this site. It seems that your only true concern here is that you’ve been caught and publicly called out for what you really are- A SELFISH AND IMMATURE HOMEWRECKER. And how much of an egomaniac must you be to assume you’re so interesting that people are sitting at home googling you? You’re probably also a narcissist; at minimum are either very immature or you have narcissistic traits. If you want to feel bad for someone, feel bad for the woman who’s home you wrecked. Please: get off of this site, go to a qualified therapist and at least confess what you have done there. That is the appropriate setting to help you sort through your issues and choices. It appears that you are not big enough to publicly right your wrongs but at least correct them within yourself. As soon as you can feel remorse, give some type of genuine apology (restitution) to those you have hurt and gain insight as to why you are making some of these poor choices, the happier you will be. You should view this situation as a learning experience and blessing in disguise. Being publicly shamed might be the only thing that motivates you to become a better person and I hope that someday, you find happiness in an honest relationship with an available man after you have sorted out your own issues. Good luck to you. As horribly painful as it is to be the betrayed spouse, I am grateful that I don’t have to carry the burden of being a cheating spouse or a home wrecker.

    • WOWMarch 16, 2018 at 6:08 pm

      This has got to be the best post.

  12. UnknownMarch 14, 2018 at 6:44 am

    Bottom line is….if you are married, get out of the marriage before you cheat on your husband. You’re wrecking your own home. Even If the guy your cheating with is single, you’re still MARRIED and it’s still wrong on so many levels.

    From now on, all the women around you will hold their men tight and not trust you to be in the same room with them alone. All women will be suspicious of your intentions with good reason. If you’ll cheat with someone else’s husband, you’ll be devious in your work and real life as well. Always trying to get the attention away from other threatening/gorgeous/smart women at your job, at your church, at your kids functions. It’s ridiculous what lengths a jealous serial cheating woman will do to demand the focus.

  13. Women are RUTHLESSMarch 14, 2018 at 6:33 am

    What do you think this is……A Women Unite /solidarity/Girl power site?? When a whore comes into your marriage and willingly sets her sites on your spouse, all bets are off. If you don’t have your own girlfriends to tell you NOT to sleep with married men, you’re screwed. Obviously no one gave you that advice.

  14. Serial cheaterMarch 14, 2018 at 6:22 am

    Yes it helps because bruises don’t last as long as your online presence. Be glad the WIFE of the husband you got on your knees for hasn’t come after you. This site lets them vent instead of the alternative. Hope the Fuc$ was worth it.

  15. Take the trash outMarch 14, 2018 at 6:13 am

    If you fall onto your back and KNOW the person you’re doing is married -you’re a wh*re. When you send a naked photo to a man within 20 minutes of starting a conversation, then you’re a wh*re. When you don’t question the lies that the married guy is spewing and screw him anyway, you’re a wh*re. When you know your actions would affect your own kids and your own husband and do it anyway, you’re a wh*re. When your co-workers have more naked photos of you than your own husband, you’re a wh*re. When you’ve gotten caught doing this before and continue, you’re a wh*re. When your kids grow up and see this as an example, they become wh*res.
    It’s a cycle. A self deprecating, low self-esteem, narcissistic, sad cycle. STOP FUC$$ng AROUND!!

  16. MushroomkrbMarch 14, 2018 at 4:42 am

    In my experience, the woman I posted about was just as guilty as my ex because she knew we were married. Her husband and my ex had been friends for 20 years. She came to my house to ‘help’ me after surgery because my ex is a truck driver. She actually slept with him in another room of my house while I laid knocked out from surgery a few rooms over while my kids were downstairs watching a movie. That’s despicable. My ex was absolutely at fault but so was she. It’s all good though cause in the 4 years since then, karma got her. She’s now in jail on drug, prostitution (shocker) and fraud charges. She doesn’t deserve anyone’s sympathy. If someone made up a story about you, that’s not okay but in some instances it is warranted so that other women know not to befriend the women listed.

  17. Not a homewreckerMarch 13, 2018 at 8:24 pm

    I was dating a single man…who i didn’t know he had 2 girlfriends…now my name pops out all over the sites linked to this site…i never knew anything even when one of them uploaded my picture and send the link to my fb …as soon as i knew about one of his grilfriends i put a end to are. Relathionship. late few months before the other one knew about me and she never got tierd of using my picture and laying about me…where is his picture? He was the one laying and cheating …..i was never a Homewrecker he was single..

    • AnonymousMarch 14, 2018 at 2:37 pm

      Well then I am very sorry for you as that is not being a home wrecker. This website and sites like it are meant to expose infidelity, as in women who have affairs with men that they know are married. Not knowing someone had a boyfriend is not even in the same ballpark and whoever posted things about you for dating a SINGLE guy is probably mental. I would report them to your local police and at least make a police report for harassment. If you had screwed around with someone’s husband then you’d deserve to be on here! But from what you’re saying, it sounds unwarranted and like cyber bullying.
      If I were you, I’d threaten the person who posted with a civil suit. You can make it look official by typing something up and mail it to them via certified mail requesting that they contact the website and remove your info within 30 days or they’ll have a civil suit. It may not work but it’s a good start. If you are a good person, don’t worry. This will fade away and you cannot let it get you down or obsess over it. They will get their karma.
      Ladies- if you have cheating BOYFRIENDS stay off of this site. The real commitment comes with MARRIAGE. Someone can not be a “home wrecker” because they f-ed your boyfriend- that just means he’s a jerk and you need a new boyfriend. Homewrecking means purposeful INFIDELITY. Consider yourself lucky if you found your boyfriend was cheating before you add a marriage, kids, a mortgage and decades of your life.

      • KatApril 24, 2018 at 4:03 am

        Love this comment! Such insight !

  18. JustificationMarch 13, 2018 at 7:23 pm

    Does it help? YES
    Does it make you feel better? YES.

    Sometimes, when someone is too embarrassed to confide in their very best friends because they don’t want to seem weak, sad, or pathetic for staying with the lying cheating bastard that was supposed to have committed their life of devotion and faithfulness to us, venting on a site like this lets off the steam and Keeps a person from beating the a** of the cheater/Slut that he was caught with.

  19. The TruthMarch 13, 2018 at 7:02 pm

    Yes, women should stick together and ultimately the bulk of the blame falls on the married cheater. But stop the pity party because this site is not used for unprovoked sl*t shaming. Ask yourself a simple yes or no question: were you involved in an affair or in an inappropriate relationship with a married? Because if so, YOU were not supporting other women, such as the clueless wife. While you were texting and probably screwing her husband, she was working, grocery shopping adhering to the vows of marriage and the responsibilities of raising children . We the betrayed spouses are the victims, not you as the other woman. I highly doubt that if your name is on this site, you have done no wrong. Maybe you should’ve thought of the potential repercussions of your choices before involving yourself in an affair.
    Unless someone was lied to and truly had no idea that their affair partner was married, they are also partly to blame (if I had to assign a blame percent, I’d say 10-20% of the blame falls on the other woman as a willing participant in hurting a marriage).
    Some cheaters cheat because they are bored. Some because they are insecure or having a midlife crisis. Some because they are egomaniacs who simply feel entitled to cheat. Others cheat because they are unhappily married. But the reasons are irrelevant- cheating is an avoidant, immature and selfish behavior and a huge betrayal. Any personal or marital problems a individual or couple may be having should be handled in an adult manner and not handled by initiating an affair. Plain and simple. As a betrayed spouse who had to discover my spouse’s affair, I cannot begin to tell you how painful it is. The air is sucked out of your lungs as the world you dreamed of and spent YEARS building is mocked as it crumbles before your clueless eyes. The stages of grief mirror that of a death and leave many betrayed spouses with severe depression, lots of therapy, PTSD, painful and expensive divorces and our children are the ultimate victims. So, why would a betrayed spouse put your info on here? Because whatever embarrassment or upset you feel by seeing your name on here, it is NOTHING compared to what the betrayed spouse has had to deal with every day since their discovery. For you it’s an inconvenience, for them it’s every second of their waking life that feels like torture and they have been rocked to the core. We cannot all just walk away from our cheating spoises either. Some of us have years of happy memories, children, mortgages and emotional and financial ties that you probably could not even begin to comprehend. If you do have kids, then you are even more selfish because you should’ve been parenting and not cheating. And yes, it feels good to “out” someone who took part in jeopardizing or destroying your family. So if you’re finding yourself on here, stop telling yourself that you are a victim and accept that you probably deserve it. Maybe next time you’ll be less immature and selfish and find attention and sex from a single person. Problem solved.

  20. Dr lickMarch 13, 2018 at 5:20 pm

    Interesting. Especially if u were not involved? Did u do the crime? Was it a stable happy marriage prior ( no fiancé or bf crap) with kids.
    But I do agree as with any sentence at some point mark it paid in full and take it down.

  21. KristinMarch 13, 2018 at 4:51 pm

    thank God someone said it because I’m on this website too and i never deserved to be its the second hit on google and its been used against me at my job and with my boyfriend. Haunts me everyday.

  22. KrystalMarch 13, 2018 at 3:36 pm

    I put the blame fully on my husband he should know better he made a commitment to me not to another women he wants to have one foot out of the door and one foot in he can just turn around and remove him self from my life a man who will do that to his spouse doesn’t deserve to be married you can’t put blame on a women who yeah sure throws her self at a married man or flirts with a married man but you know your husband should be stronger to turn it down to walk away that is how I feel the only person who wrecked your home is your spouse if another women was allowed to enter you husband opened the door and invited her in just my thoughts on that

  23. Despicable MeMarch 13, 2018 at 2:59 pm

    Cheaters are despicable. What goes through your mind when you’re about to get down on your knees for a married man? Your spouse on your mind? Your kids? Your future? Your reputation? Your Job? Does being labeled a wh*re around town worth the lives you’ve ruined? Does being used make you feel better? What made you cheat? What screwed up psychology will you use to justify being a cheater? Poor childhood? No education? Family of wh*res? Tell us….what makes you cheat?

  24. Angry WIFEMarch 13, 2018 at 2:15 pm


    CHEATERS RUIN LIVES. If it makes someone feel justified/less homicidal/calmer to expose a CHEATER and warn others of their potential to hurt others, then booo fuc$ing hooo for your google search. You should have thought about that before starting something up with a married man with a brilliant/crazy wife. Actions have consequences – marriages, jobs, trust, integrity & honor. THINK about it next time.

  25. BiffMarch 13, 2018 at 1:43 pm

    Is this Mary Todd Lincoln?

  26. abcdMarch 13, 2018 at 12:32 pm

    Have you ever been cheated on? Because it seems like you haven’t….

  27. UnknownMarch 13, 2018 at 8:17 am

    So tell us your story! Let’s here your side.

  28. played4afoolMarch 13, 2018 at 5:23 am

    Awww. You are butt hurt (probably in more ways than one) because you got caught sleeping with another womans husband,lol. NOW you are worried about it hurting your social standing and possibly affecting your kids, but you didnt seem to mind affecting HIS wife or kids social standing with all of the gossip and rumors.

    I don’t think it would be good if someone made something up about you…but that’s not what happened is it?? No one made it up at all, and you just don’t like that people now know what you REALLY are and you can’t hide behind your facade anymore.

  29. leilamaeMarch 13, 2018 at 3:52 am

    If you don’t want to be on this site, don’t have sex with a married man!

  30. SuperSayMarch 13, 2018 at 3:07 am

    Honey. You slept with a taken/married man.
    You didn’t give us the full story but i’m Going to go with, you knew he was taken but you did it anyway. You wrecked a home… willingly. That’s not okay. Yes, the man should be put on blast two as it takes two people to cheat. He’s a scum ball for cheating, but you’re the home wrecker. It’s always going to be that way.
    And women post on here to warn other women of ladies like you. Sorry sweeatheart, but you’ll get what’s coming to you.
    If he cheats with you, he’ll cheat on you.
    And trust me, I, myself have wanted to post on here many times because of my diet bag of an ex boyfriend and all the tramps he had slept around with. But I didn’t. I honestly should have to warm the others.
    But long story short, you wrecked a home, now pay the price.

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