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So my husband and I have been legally separated for a year and a half now, and recently he actually had the audacity to give me an ultimatum. He told me that unless I let him move back in he wants a legal divorce and the right to see other people. I told him that he could see all the people he wanted to but he thinks I would use that against him in court if he did. He said that he misses his wife and wants to come home and be a family again. I’m just wondering… is there anyone out there that has actually been through this… a husband having an affair, and stayed together with it actually working out? I mean is it even possible? I don’t know how I could ever really learn to trust him again, then again I’m not quite sure I want him to be with someone else either. I mean, I love my husband and I can understand in a way where he’s coming from. He deserves to live his life and if I’m not willing to try and work things out and live that life with him, he should be free to find someone else. I just find it ironic that he has such a problem dating someone else while we’re separated, considering he had no problem having an affair with some hooker at his gym while we were married. Also, when I say hooker, I literally mean hooker. This woman, if you can call her that happened to have a thing for personal fitness and saw my husband as a perfect target for her ongoing physical enterprise. Surprised me… I thought hookers where more into doing drugs than doing squats… probably both for this home wrecker. When I confronted my husband about these weekly atm withdrawls he confessed everything… didn’t take a genius to figure it out, I mean he would always go to the atm on the same night he went to the gym. It was clear as day something was going on and he was just using the gym as an excuse to come home “dirty”. To my surprise he actually was going to the gym, only she was too. Afterwards they would meet in the parking lot, or even the locker room jacuzzis and saunas… so gross. On top of that my husband wasn’t the only client she was seeing at that gym. Sometimes she would see up to 3 or 4 “clients” in one night at that particular gym. My husband was just another middle aged idiot that fell into her whole gym sex scheme. Wow, I haven’t actually spoken about this in a long time and am just now being reminded of why we separated in the first place. This all happened over a year ago but typing these words and talking about it now makes all those emotions come up like it was yesterday. I don’t know if I am really ready to try again with him. I’m still so shocked and hurt that he could even do this to us and our marriage. Deep down I know my husband is a decent man that just got caught up in an indecent situation. By a professional none the less… my foolish simpleminded husband never stood a chance.

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  1. Survived BetrayalMarch 21, 2018 at 9:43 pm

    The SAME exact think happened to me. Would you mind saying what area you live in? Our stories are so similar!

  2. RiriMarch 21, 2018 at 5:23 pm

    If you want to make it work you have to put 110% in it you have to lock away everything he did wrong the affair & everything that when I’m with the gym SLUT and never bring it up again because if you keep bringing it up and all that it’s going to hurt more & kill you inside you’re going to end up getting a divorce my sisters going threw the same thing right now & all it takes is for you to start trusting him again because without trust there’s nothing .. hope things work out sending prayers ❤️

  3. Juan MartinezMarch 21, 2018 at 8:05 am

    The old saying is probably true – once a cheater always a cheater. If you have reservations now you will probably have them for the rest of your life. What kind of life is that?

  4. ReallyMarch 21, 2018 at 1:21 am

    Either you cant find anyone else or your a special kind of stupid. Couldnt keep your husband satisfied so noe your petty enough to put this gitl up on this dumb site. Look at yourself in the mirror. Maybe you werent a good enough lay. Thats why your hubby went searching elsewhere. Dont hate the player, hate the game.

    • KarmaApril 18, 2018 at 7:09 am

      I’m guessing you are a cheater yourself. You seem to be offended by her post. Are you trying to justify your own actions? An affair is a reflection of the cheater not the person who was cheated on.