Violeta, when the man you lived with for ten years begs and pleads with you to move out for an entire year and then forces you out of his house, take the hint that he no longer loves you like he once did, the relationship is over but for the crying, you are no longer his girlfriend and move on. That is how mature, self confident, people handle such life events. He kicked you out in May 2015 and had cheated on you with Carol Barrett, you know her and you knew he was having an affair with her the entire time you were with him. You knew but your lack of self esteem made you delude yourself that you were not seeing what your eyes were seeing. You can read all about Carol Barrett by searching her name on this site. He was having an affair with Linda Borrie from Hamilton.
You can read all about that by searching her name on this site. And he was having an affair with Pam Bell, who also calls herself Leah Belmis, which you are also aware of. Now he is living with another woman which you are aware of. He goes home every night to her. They are seen together around town and at various functions and events together, holding hands, kissing, shopping, grabbing a bite to eat. It is no secret he is living with her and you know she is sleeping in his bed and that they are a couple because you never go over to his house since he kicked you out in May 2015 and she moved in. So you can stop pretending you are his girlfriend because we all know he dumped you. If you are still his girlfriend then why don’t you ever go to his house anymore? We follow her Facebook where there are posts of her and him together as a couple at the house. You can drop the act. You got dumped. He dumped you after cheating on you the entire time you were together.
Pick up what is left of your self respect and move on instead of continuing to look like a desperate old maid. Stop guilting him into helping you with household issues and find yourself a man who actually wants to spend the night with you and doesn’t go home to another woman. Notice he does not cheat on his new woman like he cheated on you the entire time you were dating and living with him. Notice she can disrespect you and dismiss you in front of him and he allows her do it. He has clearly picked her over you which was obvious when he asked you to move out in May 2015. You should have taken the hint then. Stop being a pathetic doormat because people you work with see you as weak and incapable of running your own life so your career, if you can call it that, is at a dead end. No one has respect for a woman who has no self respect for herself. After him kicking you out of his house, you knowing he is now living with another woman and sleeping with her makes YOU the cheating homewrecker in this scenario every manipulating attempt you make to maintain contact and the facade that you are still his girlfriend makes you the attempting home wrecking whore.
Although we all know he no longer sleeps with you because he won’t cheat on this new woman, no way, he values her too much to do that. And don’t think she is jealous of you because she isn’t. She knows that he would never have kicked you out of his house in May of 2015 if he had any real love left for you. The romance is gone and will never come back. Unlike the rest of the women he was cheating on you with, she wouldn’t have anything to do with him until you were out of his house. When he kicked you out in May 2015 it was perfectly clear to anyone with a brain that your love relationship was over. Let it go and stop pretending there is a relationship with him other than just friends. Let it go. Move on. Get a life. Stop being like the women who ruined your chance at happiness with him, his chance at happiness and most importantly YOUR happiness.