Tammy Kaiser — Vacaville, California

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Wow, where to begin with this whole mess. My husband and I have been married, going on 15 years. Yes we had problems in our marriage. We were disconnected emotionally and physically, issues with kids and job situations. No marriage is perfect. But I totally trusted him completely when he decided to become a truck driver. We were constantly in touch and he came home often. Well, it was in Idaho where he met Tammy Kaiser.

I now call her the company’s Lot Lizard. She fed him a real sappy story and that she needed to get back to California and get her car because she had doctors appointments. He fell for her story and much more.

On May 2, 2015, he tells me that he has a passenger and tells me her story which made me feel sorry for Tammy Kaiser. I wasn’t sitting too well with it. He had to shut down that night in Nevada, ok, no worries. He finally arrived home on May 3, 2015. We talked about her and her problems. Me, I am a good hearted person and I wanted to help. I ended up being the blinded fool. The whole time he was home with me, she was blowing up his phone with text messages and phone calls…

He then told me that Tammy Kaiser wanted to co-drive with him. I told him I was not comfortable with the idea. He said that he can make a lot better money team driving. I made him make promises that it would only be team driving, nothing more. I voiced my concerns and fears and he said that Tammy Kaiser was not pretty and that she was just like one of the guys. He wanted me to meet her and when I did, I thought, okay, no problem.

I finally broke down and agreed. Big mistake. He brought her home with us to spend the night so that they could leave early on the 7th, cause they needed to get a new truck. They left on the 8th on their first trip. I would call my husband and he was not answering the phone, nor was he answering my text messages. When he would finally call, he said that he was so tired because he was driving the nights while she drove the days. My gut was telling me something else. I sent a text message after a few days asking him if we were going to make it to 15 years, or did he have other plans.

Still no response. He finally came home on May 19th for a doctors appointment. I told him that when I get home from work we were going to do something together. He opted to go help her friend fix his laptop, but promised that he would be home when I got off. Never happened. He called to tell me that Kevin was making him a bbq dinner as a way to thank him for his help. He finally got home late and again Tammy Kaiser is blowing up his phone. I begged him to tell her to stop and that this was my time with him, he said nothing. I also noticed that he was not wearing his wedding ring.

I asked him and he said that it is on his keyring cause it was getting stuck and he was afraid of ruining it. I knew better. They went to the terminal on the 21st because they had a run to New Jersey. As of the 22nd they still had not left and I get messages from her on my Facebook that she was quitting and my husband was driving solo again. I did not know what to think. I then get a call late on the 22nd that they have a new job and I needed to bring our truck to the terminal to unload the truck. They said that they had to leave Saturday the 23rd for LA for Orientation. again, my gut is telling me other things.

Well they leave and then to my surprise my husband shows up on the 24th and spills the beans and tells me everything. He said that he is not driving with Tammy anymore and that he wants our marriage back and that he loved me. He said the affair began less than 24 hours after meeting her. After she told her story, he fed her some truths and untruths. He told her that he was unhappy and was thinking about leaving, as well as private and intimate details of our marriage. That was it, Tammy Kaiser latched on. She began showing him attention and caressing him. She asked him to rub her back and he did. She made sure her clothes were off at the time. That was the first time they had sex.

He must have been on drugs, drunk or pretty desperate to touch Tammy Kaiser. He then came home to me. I saw the flags and signals with his preoccupation with her calls and text messages, but I bit my tongue. He then said it happened 2 more times while on their run, but eventually told her that it could not happen again and that they needed to get back to their religion. He even admitted that the 2 times he tried to have sex with her, he was unable to perform and she had him use her vibrating dildo on her.

She was not happy cause she kept trying. Finally the trip to LA for the new job made him realize what he wanted and was trying to get away from her, so he played the game to get home cause she drove down there. She was demanding that he leave me for her, and that he needed to get all his personal things and money and they would find a place together. Hell, she even made him take her ring shopping while in LA. She was a leach that latched on because someone slept with her. WOW. Talk about desperation.

He admitted to me that he never planned on a life with her and never told her that he wanted to be with her. That night when I looked at his phone, all text messages were gone. He said he did it cause he did not want to hurt me anymore than he has. I went ballistic on him. I made him call her in front of me telling her that it was over. She then started texting me calling me names, saying that my husband did not love me and had been trying to divorce me for years and that I was trash who only wanted his money…What money???? Which I know was a lie. He even called her a messed up, crazy psycho and I told her so, which pissed her off really bad.

I can be a mad woman and I do go for revenge. You never know when it will happen. And I just found out that Tammy Kaiser took a job with another company as a local driver, I am on the lookout for her ass. My husband is by no means off the hook, he pays for it daily, but we are working at it. He even stopped driving long haul and is local so he is home everyday. I still monitor all accts and phones.

Tammy Kaiser needs to stop messing with married men, as it turns out my husband was not the first and it has happened before and people tried to warn him. She even tried to friend him on Facebook with a fake name of Nicole Robbins, I caught that one and let her have it. I even sent her text messages from his phone, bashing the hell out of her. Telling her what my husband really thought of her. She has since changed her number, but I am not done yet…

So Tammy Kaiser, you only made us stronger. I loth you and rue the day that I see you again. You are nothing but a lot lizard. Per someone that we both know, you look like a dog’s ass. One day you will get what is coming to you. You can’t keep sleeping with married men and expecting them to leave their wives for you. So go crawl back in the hole that you came out of and leave the married men alone. See you in HELL!

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  1. ZyrisSeptember 20, 2015 at 2:35 pm

    I just love reading through these postings. Some can be so hilarious, and the authors don’t have a clue as to where the real problem lies.
    After reading this post I can’t help but wonder who really is to blame here. I have noted several things here which I find rather interesting. Using the author’s own words I will point out what I see:

    01) “Yes we had problems in our marriage”.
    02) “We were disconnected emotionally and physically, issues with kids and job situations”.
    03) “I also noticed that he was not wearing his wedding ring. I asked him and he said that it is on his key ring cause it was getting stuck and he was afraid of ruining it”.
    04) “He told her that he was unhappy and was thinking about leaving….”
    05) “I went ballistic on him”.
    06) “She then started texting me calling me names, saying that my husband did not love me and had been trying to divorce me for years”.
    07) “I can be a mad woman and I do go for revenge. You never know when it will happen”.
    08) “…as it turns out my husband was not the first and it has happened before and people tried to warn him”.
    09) “I am on the lookout for her ass”.
    10) “My husband is by no means off the hook, he pays for it daily”.
    11) “She has since changed her number, but I am not done yet…”
    12) “I loth you and rue the day that I see you again”.

    01, 02, 04, 05, 07, 09, 10, 11, 12: I see a pattern here with your attitude. You mention religion in your posting, but tell me this…. What religion allows for such behavior? Where is it mentioned in any sacred scriptures that revenge is permitted? By your own admission you had problems way before Tammy came along. It seems that all she did was show the world your true inner self. And here you are proving my point.

    03: As for the wedding ring… I know several men who don’t wear their rings, myself included. Imagine the hell they would catch if they tarnished it or lost a stone while at work? Or perhaps they smash it around their finger. Now that would be a problem.

    06: Now why on Earth would he possibly want to divorce you? Could it be your attitude?

    08: As for number 8, I’m sure you can prove this, right?

    10: Maybe this is why he wants to divorce you.

    In conclusion I just want to post the following in regards to numbers 09, 11, and 12:

    CALIFORNIA PENAL CODE: 653.2
    (a) Every person who, with intent to place another person in reasonable fear for his or her safety, or the safety of the other person’s immediate family, by means of an electronic communication device, and without consent of the other person, and for the purpose of imminently causing that other person unwanted physical contact, injury, or harassment, by a third party, electronically distributes, publishes, e-mails, hyperlinks, or makes available for downloading, personal identifying information, including, but not limited to, a digital image of another person, or an electronic message of a harassing nature about another person, which would be likely to incite or produce that unlawful action, is guilty of a misdemeanor punishable by up to one year in a county jail, by a fine of not more than one thousand dollars ($1,000), or by both that fine and imprisonment.

    Have a nice day!!

  2. BetrayedWife2000August 10, 2015 at 8:44 am

    There is so much bashing on the betrayed spouse for giving their marriage a chance. I was betrayed years ago and we decided our marriage was worth a lot more. Today we are happier than ever. It takes a lot of work on both sides to make it work. Granted, I will never forget, but I don’t let it dictate my life. If she feels like they are stronger now than before, good for her. Sometimes it does take an affair to wake up a marriage. You hang in there because all will work out if it is meant to be. Don’t dwell on what has happened and do not let it control your life.

  3. F**khomewreckerzAugust 6, 2015 at 3:05 pm

    Ug-lee, desperate four-eyed slut.

  4. SadSong2009August 6, 2015 at 11:39 am

    Just another desperate manipulative old bag, butting her nose in another woman’s marriage, using the woe is me line. Just another dumb man, thinking with his penis, because he needs a little stroking and attention. Both are selfish asses. Deserving of being outed for their selfish behavior.

  5. Don B.August 5, 2015 at 9:18 pm

    Some guys will literally bang anything. Smh.

    • MagiAugust 5, 2015 at 9:55 pm

      Yep the poor old bastards will feck anything with a hole and pulse.

  6. LisaAugust 5, 2015 at 6:46 pm

    Not bashing you but that is every cheating man’s line “I couldn’t get it up, she’s ugly, she made me feel good, etc.” You say he didn’t get off the hook but he did, after 15 year’s of marriage he was able to sleep with someone he’s only known for 24 hrs and not just once and you stayed. I’m sorry hun but you need to get some self respect, because he sure as hell don’t deserve your loyalty, I understand you love him but he obviously didn’t care how this was going to affect you all he cared about was getting off. I’m just saying your better off without him. And as for the disgusting whore don’t waste your time karma will hit that ugly bitch worse than it already has, she has to go after married men because no man would actually date someone that looks like that, your husband is definitely desperate. You should get tested no telling what kind of stds that whore has!!

  7. Nor Cal 12August 5, 2015 at 4:53 pm

    Never in a million years would I have thought I’d see a whore from my hometown!!! Goes to show those nasties are EVERYWHERE!!!