Wow, where to begin with this whole mess. My husband and I have been married, going on 15 years. Yes we had problems in our marriage. We were disconnected emotionally and physically, issues with kids and job situations. No marriage is perfect. But I totally trusted him completely when he decided to become a truck driver. We were constantly in touch and he came home often. Well, it was in Idaho where he met Tammy Kaiser.
I now call her the company’s Lot Lizard. She fed him a real sappy story and that she needed to get back to California and get her car because she had doctors appointments. He fell for her story and much more.
On May 2, 2015, he tells me that he has a passenger and tells me her story which made me feel sorry for Tammy Kaiser. I wasn’t sitting too well with it. He had to shut down that night in Nevada, ok, no worries. He finally arrived home on May 3, 2015. We talked about her and her problems. Me, I am a good hearted person and I wanted to help. I ended up being the blinded fool. The whole time he was home with me, she was blowing up his phone with text messages and phone calls…
He then told me that Tammy Kaiser wanted to co-drive with him. I told him I was not comfortable with the idea. He said that he can make a lot better money team driving. I made him make promises that it would only be team driving, nothing more. I voiced my concerns and fears and he said that Tammy Kaiser was not pretty and that she was just like one of the guys. He wanted me to meet her and when I did, I thought, okay, no problem.
I finally broke down and agreed. Big mistake. He brought her home with us to spend the night so that they could leave early on the 7th, cause they needed to get a new truck. They left on the 8th on their first trip. I would call my husband and he was not answering the phone, nor was he answering my text messages. When he would finally call, he said that he was so tired because he was driving the nights while she drove the days. My gut was telling me something else. I sent a text message after a few days asking him if we were going to make it to 15 years, or did he have other plans.
Still no response. He finally came home on May 19th for a doctors appointment. I told him that when I get home from work we were going to do something together. He opted to go help her friend fix his laptop, but promised that he would be home when I got off. Never happened. He called to tell me that Kevin was making him a bbq dinner as a way to thank him for his help. He finally got home late and again Tammy Kaiser is blowing up his phone. I begged him to tell her to stop and that this was my time with him, he said nothing. I also noticed that he was not wearing his wedding ring.
I asked him and he said that it is on his keyring cause it was getting stuck and he was afraid of ruining it. I knew better. They went to the terminal on the 21st because they had a run to New Jersey. As of the 22nd they still had not left and I get messages from her on my Facebook that she was quitting and my husband was driving solo again. I did not know what to think. I then get a call late on the 22nd that they have a new job and I needed to bring our truck to the terminal to unload the truck. They said that they had to leave Saturday the 23rd for LA for Orientation. again, my gut is telling me other things.
Well they leave and then to my surprise my husband shows up on the 24th and spills the beans and tells me everything. He said that he is not driving with Tammy anymore and that he wants our marriage back and that he loved me. He said the affair began less than 24 hours after meeting her. After she told her story, he fed her some truths and untruths. He told her that he was unhappy and was thinking about leaving, as well as private and intimate details of our marriage. That was it, Tammy Kaiser latched on. She began showing him attention and caressing him. She asked him to rub her back and he did. She made sure her clothes were off at the time. That was the first time they had sex.
He must have been on drugs, drunk or pretty desperate to touch Tammy Kaiser. He then came home to me. I saw the flags and signals with his preoccupation with her calls and text messages, but I bit my tongue. He then said it happened 2 more times while on their run, but eventually told her that it could not happen again and that they needed to get back to their religion. He even admitted that the 2 times he tried to have sex with her, he was unable to perform and she had him use her vibrating dildo on her.
She was not happy cause she kept trying. Finally the trip to LA for the new job made him realize what he wanted and was trying to get away from her, so he played the game to get home cause she drove down there. She was demanding that he leave me for her, and that he needed to get all his personal things and money and they would find a place together. Hell, she even made him take her ring shopping while in LA. She was a leach that latched on because someone slept with her. WOW. Talk about desperation.
He admitted to me that he never planned on a life with her and never told her that he wanted to be with her. That night when I looked at his phone, all text messages were gone. He said he did it cause he did not want to hurt me anymore than he has. I went ballistic on him. I made him call her in front of me telling her that it was over. She then started texting me calling me names, saying that my husband did not love me and had been trying to divorce me for years and that I was trash who only wanted his money…What money???? Which I know was a lie. He even called her a messed up, crazy psycho and I told her so, which pissed her off really bad.
I can be a mad woman and I do go for revenge. You never know when it will happen. And I just found out that Tammy Kaiser took a job with another company as a local driver, I am on the lookout for her ass. My husband is by no means off the hook, he pays for it daily, but we are working at it. He even stopped driving long haul and is local so he is home everyday. I still monitor all accts and phones.
Tammy Kaiser needs to stop messing with married men, as it turns out my husband was not the first and it has happened before and people tried to warn him. She even tried to friend him on Facebook with a fake name of Nicole Robbins, I caught that one and let her have it. I even sent her text messages from his phone, bashing the hell out of her. Telling her what my husband really thought of her. She has since changed her number, but I am not done yet…
So Tammy Kaiser, you only made us stronger. I loth you and rue the day that I see you again. You are nothing but a lot lizard. Per someone that we both know, you look like a dog’s ass. One day you will get what is coming to you. You can’t keep sleeping with married men and expecting them to leave their wives for you. So go crawl back in the hole that you came out of and leave the married men alone. See you in HELL!