I was with my ex-husband for 9 years. We have a 7 year old son together. In my son’s kindergarten year 2011 my husband started driving a taxi. He made a best friend that also drove a taxi. My husband and son and I had been out to dinner with his best friend and his best friend’s girlfriend Tara. I didn’t think anything of my husband going to hang out at his Buddy’s house. Little did I know he was going over there to see his best friend’s girlfriend.
The day after my sons 6th birthday party Oct of 2011, my husband kissed me and my son goodbye and left for work. He never returned for over 24 hours. I was worried sick I thought maybe he was in a car accident or something terrible had happened to him. I called his best friend to ask if he had heard from him and he said no and that his girlfriend was missing also. Finally when he called he said he was leaving me and our son to be with Tara and that he was in a hotel room with her the entire time he went missing, He came with the police to standby to get his belongings and him and his new home wrecker moved in with his mother. My monster-in-law was totally okay with this and knew of the affair and said nothing to me.
4 months later we were officially divorced. I was granted full custody and he gets 3 hours a week of time sharing and pays $80 a week child support. Tara has 2 sons that are my sons age and younger and she doesn’t have custody of them. Her ex-husband has them because she is unfit. That is the reason my ex-husband has limited time sharing. He doesn’t come around much anymore to see our son and has made lots broken promises and owes $900 in rears of back child support. I later found out that he would have sex with women that rode in his taxi. If a female didn’t have enough money for her cab fare he would accept sex in exchange for the ride. He also brought this woman to my house while I was working and my son was sleeping and slept with her.
This October will mark 2 years since we have split and I am happy to say that I found a new guy who treats me like a princess and treats my son like his own and we have never been better. Occasionally my ex-husband will try begging me to take him back or flirting when he picks our son up for visitation. It’s karma though. He made his bed and he can lay in it. To this day they still live with his mother.