Valerie Walker Oliver Carthage, Texas

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My husband and I have been married for 19 years. When he worked as a night dispatcher at an oil field company he became friends with one of the drivers. His wife would bring him lunch and this is how my husband met her. During this time I was working for a company that I had to travel over an hour every day to our satellite office. I had to go thru the town my husband worked so I would stop and see him on my way home. So one night I was there and got to meet her. I instantly hated her and couldn’t for the life of me know why but I just did. I tried to be friends with her but just couldn’t because her husband and mine were friends. Anyway, I never ever could stand her and eventually I told her ass off and that was the end of that. Even though they still worked together I didn’t deal with them.

Well fast forward to November 2012. My husband got laid off and her husband got hurt at work and she and my husband began texting A LOT. I normally check my cell bill but didn’t because I had no signs or reason. But around February I began having some issues I felt something wasn’t right and I thought it was me. I had lost my dad October 1st and had had surgery in November that was causing hormonal issues with me and was also having other health issues and was in the hospital for a week in February.

My husband had started back working but was out of town during the week so we talked for a few minutes every night. Well for some reason during this time I felt like I just didn’t know what was going on with me and thought it was my marriage and had even mentioned divorce. Which my husband said no we could work on this. Well one night I checked the phone bill and I noticed a number that I just knew in my gut who it was. And I was right. It was her. I woke his ass up by shoving the iPad in his face. Now between nov 25 and April 18 there were over 25000 txt message between them and over 5000 talk min. I went left. He admitted it was her and they had had feelings for years but never acted on them and that he felt he loved her so I made him call her and had her on speaker I told him that he needed to make the choice so we both could hear and I would give him a divorce if that is what he wanted. He told her that he did have feelings and felt they could have a happy life but he didn’t think it was love it was more fascination of her because she didn’t work outside of the home and waited on her husband hand and foot and cooked all the time blah blah blah blah blah. I worked outside the home AND raised our children into grown productive kids. I have a son 25 and we have a daughter 19, both wonderful adults. She has three under 10. Ok.

So he told her he wasn’t leaving me and his family for her. She went crazy. Saying you told me you loved me more than anything in the world and wanted to spend the rest of your life with me. Ok she kicked her husband out thinking she was getting mine. NOT. Well after this I told her I would never ever be civil to her I would call her out EVERY chance I get. And I do. She even went and told her husband that the little baby under a year was my husbands. He swears they never got physical at all. I called bull shit but he swears. Ok whatever. But anyway. She tried getting his friends to make him leave me for her they all said f**k no.

Now we are better and are working every day to make things ok. Now know this I by no means are perfect. He and I both have had affairs in the past but mine was not a married man nor did I pass I love you to anyone. I told him I could have gotten over it better had it just been physical instead of him giving her a piece of his heart. I can compete with her ugly nasty ass but not the heart that is the ultimate betrayal. Now I know why I hated her ass from day one. And my husband wasn’t even the first friend of her husbands she messed with. She f**ked his best friend several years ago. Skank and she calls me a whore. Ok she can call me whatever she wants to from her miserable home while I lay next to my husband every night. He no longer works out of town either.

 

 

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  1. HashMarch 30, 2015 at 4:44 pm

    Both Brent and Valerie are skanks. Two dirt bags that now have each other and no one else wants.

  2. NadineFebruary 6, 2015 at 2:00 pm

    Update: I am divorced and happy. They are together but she drives him nuts. He is miserable and I love it. I told her I loved being the other woman in his life now. Lol. I do wish him happiness. Her I wish fleas to her crotch. But all in all its all good.

  3. PaulaJuly 16, 2014 at 2:30 pm

    Yea she tried to take my husband but love is more powerful than any homeworker!!!! I can’t stand her and if it wasn’t for her kids being there the night she tried I would have beat her Ass…….I hold a grudge and that is one bitch I can’t stand and will never be able to…..she’s nothing but a cheating hoe!!!!!!!

    • NadineAugust 5, 2014 at 6:10 pm

      She told my soon to be ex that she dated your husband in high school and doesn’t know what you mean. Lmao I am sitting back waiting. She has already started her M O with his bf by texting long conversations about how she’s so glad he accepts them just wish I would so they don’t have to lie anymore bla bla bla lbs that is exactly how she started with my husband. I told him he better keep his eyes open but I hope he gets it in the ass good.

      • PaulaSeptember 9, 2014 at 12:46 am

        She knows exactly what I am talking about….. And that she’s gonna get him back that she was in love with him!!!! Your ex might be at the top of the list now but its about time for her panty change!!!!

  4. NadineJuly 9, 2014 at 7:14 am

    UPDATE: I am happy to say I have met the most wonderful man who treats me like a queen. He is a gift from God. He is in love with me and I am in love with him. He loves my kids and wants to make sure they have everything their hearts desire. He and I have known each other forever. We went to school together we know each other’s past. So no lies no hiding anything. Our relationship is building on truth not lies. I wish Brent and Valerie the best in life. I hope them happiness because I now know what true happiness is what true love is. Thank you all for the wonderful words of encouragement and support. If anyone is going thru this please keep your head up God has better for you just give him his time. He is always right on time.

    • JamieJuly 9, 2014 at 3:24 pm

      I wish you the best. You are so much better off without a lying, cheating man beside you. Brent and Valerie started their relationship on deceit not only on you, but on Valerie’s ex also. Their relationship is cursed from the beginning. God will never bless a union that caused so much hurt and despair. They will always have to wonder what the other one is doing, but they will finally get tired of each other.Valerie was so determined to take Brent from you that she didn’t care about her children’s feelings, and still doesn’t. They are both very selfish.

  5. HashJune 15, 2014 at 3:13 pm

    These two don’t care who they hurt. They have been screwing around for years. Nadine admitted her wrongs, while Brent and Valerie played innocent. They are both users. That’s right Val, you were not the first good friends wife he used and Brent is not the only one you played around with. You both have a history. I know you all. As soon as he finds the next good friend with a willing wife he will move on. Keep passing your nasty fluids around it will finally catch up. u two are super stupid.

  6. Jessica PregeantJune 13, 2014 at 4:32 am

    Wow Brent is a fucking loser Nadine you sound like despite whatever mistakes you had made in the past you were fighting for your marriage Brent you let your friends get in your ear about who your own wife was i hate this ending i am so sorry this cunt home wrecker decided to destroy her own kids life and your babies home life as well the grass is always greener huh val? id like an up date to see how happily ever after started with two marriages ending… sad thing friends like these rooting for a divorce its sicking i grew up in a broken home and id like to say that im 24 and just now trying to repair my relationship with my father and step mom shit i can imagine that this is more common then not. so many men and women leave there family’s instead of putting in the hard work it takes to make a relationship work… not always but alot of the time… i’m not saying all relationships should be kept especially if there’s family violence but i think this relationship was savable if only they would have had the right support system and fuck all those fake friends that were getting there kicks out of taring them apart. However i pray that all those involved find peace it sounds like they all have there own demons to face.

  7. NadineMay 12, 2014 at 12:50 pm

    Yes they both do. My husband left me in march and is with her now. But I am doing so much better. I am enjoying my life my kids and new friends. Was truly the best thing that happened.

  8. byrdApril 20, 2014 at 2:13 am

    Does Shaun live in deadwood

    • JamieMay 15, 2014 at 4:23 pm

      I know both Shaun and Valerie. She has never lived in Deadwood. They are divorced and Shaun’s main concern is his children. Valerie’s main concern is herself and Brent. These two cheats deserve each other. It’s just a revolving door. She broke up his home and he broke up his friends ?? home. These two cheats never considered the lives of the children they destroyed. Only someone who has experienced this kind of behavior can truly understand. Children do not forget what was taken from them.

  9. byrdApril 20, 2014 at 2:10 am

    Fuckn Carthage ppl and there damn drama. I live in this hell hole but I stay to my self and do my own thing lol

  10. udomyheadinFebruary 24, 2014 at 5:54 am

    Oh god after reading all this I think i need to see a councillor…..wife why why why do you bother answering such trash…..

  11. ChristieFebruary 21, 2014 at 12:49 pm

    I JUST WANT TO SAY….Thank you so much for this, I am truely in a better frame of mind about life, people, friends, family, life and love due to this crazy ass group of people. And thank God I don’t live in Carthage anymore. 🙂

  12. shaun oliverJanuary 28, 2014 at 4:46 am

    She never called begging me back I’m done with all this crap I’m moving on with my life. I have my kids on my days off I am perfectly fine

    • JamieJanuary 29, 2014 at 7:24 pm

      Way to go Shaun. You deserve better!

    • JamieSeptember 9, 2014 at 12:09 am

      Just remember that God sometimes removes people from your life to protect you. Cheats are dangerous to your health.

  13. Skip ...January 18, 2014 at 1:19 pm

    Ahhh I’m so torn! I don’t know who I hate more!! The HW, the psycho skanky wife or the douche bag husband. You’re all gross 🙂

    • NadineJanuary 19, 2014 at 6:18 am

      Hate me more your nasty dick sucking butt fucker. But I bet you wouldn’t dare have the nuts to come say that to my face. All you son of a bitches hide behind a computer to talk shit. Meet me and say it to my face. Chicken fucks. THE WIFE.

  14. OutsTheTrollsJanuary 14, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    Holy Shit……ive struck gold

  15. NadineDecember 5, 2013 at 8:55 pm

    Priceless.

  16. NadineOctober 30, 2013 at 7:50 am

    I AM SO SICK OF ALL THIS SHIT TOO. I EXPOSED VALERIE FOR THE SIMPLE REASON SHE DID WRECK MY HOME. IT MAY HAVE BEEN PROBLEMS BUT SHE PUT THE BIGGEST DENT IN IT. SHE KNEW EXACTLY WHAT SHE WAS DOING. SHE KNEW HOW MUCH I HATED HER AND SHE WENT FOR THE THROAT. SHE KNEW IF SHE WORKED HER BULL SHIT AND WEASELED HER WAY INTO BRENT’S LIFE SHE COULD HURT ME BECAUSE SHE WAS MISERABLE IN HER OWN LIFE. THAT IS WHY I EXPOSED HER NOT TO TAKE ANYTHING OFF ME. I HAVE DONE THINGS IM NOT PROUD OF BUT IF THERE IS A WIFE I’VE WRONGED BY ALL MEANS EXPOSÉ ME. BUT THERE ISN’T. I WISH THERE WAS A WAY TO PUT PICS OF OUR PHONE RECORD TO SHOW WHO CALLED WHO SHAUN BECAUSE YOU HAVE CALLED BOTH OF US. IM NOT LYING ABOUT ANY OF THE CALLS I DON’T GIVE ONE RATS ASS WHY YOU LEFT OR WENT BACK OR ANYTHING I DON’T CARE IF EITHER ONE OF YOU WAKE UP AGAIN. I DON’T CARE I SLEEP JUST FINE EVERY NIGHT. I DO FEEL SORRY FOR ALL THE KIDS INVOLVED. BUT MORE MINE THAN YOURS. MY DAUGHTER IS HURT BECAUSE SHE TRUSTED VALERIE AND WAS HER FRIEND JUST TO HAVE HER DO WHAT SHE DID TO HER FAMILY. ALL WHO READ THIS CAN KISS MY ASS I YOU DON’T LIKE ME BUT BRENT AND I ARE AT A GOOD PLACE AND WILL BE BETTER THAN BEFORE.

    • hatez idiotzDecember 2, 2013 at 6:51 am

      This is so funny..Nadene has screwed evone n center..brent still talks to valerie..valerie brags at her job about them meeting other day and how hes moving his things to his sisters and soon leaving his wife..this val girl is a true whorw..but brent no saint

  17. shaun oliverOctober 28, 2013 at 12:14 pm

    This Shaun u need to quit using my name saying I called Brent and told him anything quit your damn losing and for the record I left when she told me she was in love with Brent done been cheated on once not going through it again u Nadine or text is the main reason I left u was right what u said . Now why would u want a man that wants another woman ask your self that that what u told me I don’t I’m done I’m sick of this shit you and Valerie need to grow up and go on with yaws life .

    • jamieOctober 28, 2013 at 5:03 pm

      counselor says: I think all of you have missed the point. The only one hurt from this behavior is the children involved, especially the young ones. The adults involved can move on, but the children will always have a void in their life. They love both parents,and do not understand when one of the parents is no longer in the home. Valerie and Brent should have thought about the husband, wife, and children they were going to hurt instead of their selfish desires. Valerie should have spent more time being a mother and a wife, and she would not have had time to chase after another woman’s man. Brent should have considered the friendship he had with the husband and put Valerie in her place when this started. It takes two people involved to make such a mess. If Valerie had already cheated with another best friend, her husband would always have a problem having a friend around. Brent, your best friend should have been your wife. Valerie, your best friend should have been your husband, the father of your children. Did you really believe this man was going to leave his wife for you? That seldom happens.

    • BrentOctober 29, 2013 at 10:36 pm

      First of all I’m sick of this shit to and it all need to be dropped but you Shaun have called me about this and I am not in love with any woman but my wife. You may have left now because of the txt but she did call begging you back after I told her I wasn’t leaving my wife. Why keep this going. Everyone needs to shut up and grow up. Yes I was upset when this came out but I understand why she did it. I’m sorry any of this ever happened good bye and good luck.

      • JamieOctober 30, 2013 at 9:15 pm

        If I am reading all this correctly, you and your wife are still together and happily married. Valerie and her husband have split, so who is the home wrecker here? You and Valerie made your choice. You chose to stay, she chose to break up her family. You made the right choice. Valerie should have chose husband and family so they could be together. God loves the family, and wants them to be together. All of this dirty laundry spread out for all to see is “sick.” Really sad!

  18. sad for allOctober 24, 2013 at 6:54 am

    Sad for all..says..i talk 2 Nadine each day..they are in a good place..they have both talked to my pastor..so let this mess all go folks so all involved can move on..

  19. sad for allOctober 24, 2013 at 6:31 am

    Sad for all..says…I know both Brent & Nadine..they are trying to work thru this…no ones perfect..we all make mistakes..but their marriage is getting better..good luck guys!

  20. A True Friend Of Brent'sOctober 22, 2013 at 10:39 am

    I call BULLSHIT on all of ya’ll. You all have made yourselves look bad and Brent look like a fool my reply to Yankydoodle goes for all of you so called friends.

    • Looking out for them both.October 22, 2013 at 8:45 pm

      I don’t believe your any kind of true friend to any one. Non of you are.

  21. You all a bunch of foolsOctober 21, 2013 at 2:43 pm

    I’m going to say, I think you are all a bunch of fools. Valerie because she is talking to, sleeping with whatever with a MARRIED man!!!! Nadine because she has slept around and now that her husband has done the “same” she wants to expose Valerie. She should be exposing herself too. Brent’s a fool for staying married to a woman who wants to air their dirty laundry the way Nadine has. Obviously neither party in the marriage is happy or they wouldn’t continuously cheat on each other, so why stay in a marriage you are not happy with? Thank you, that is all.

  22. Wise beyond yearsOctober 21, 2013 at 7:23 am

    Nadine. I don’t know you or anyone involved here but I do know I have been thru what you are going thru. I too had a hw. I also know that these so called people who are bad mouthing you are most likely your hw or one or more of her friends. Or even your sister in law. They enjoy making you look bad to bring the attention of them. I’m sorry any wife has to go thru this mess. If you and your husband are working on your marriage that is wonderful. I hope you the best. As far as the rest of this nonsense just ignore them they are only trying to upset you. I can almost put money down as to say that these people are waiting for you to fail. Prove them wrong. Good luck.

    • NadineOctober 21, 2013 at 1:26 pm

      Thank you we plan on proving them wrong.

  23. Feels sorry for the both of themOctober 21, 2013 at 5:35 am

    This is so terrible you all act like the wife is so horrible. From the way I see it. This was about a hw who wrong the wife. If the wife has wrecked a home then the other wife needs to expose her also. Yankee you said you were one of many who she is seeing yet you speak of Brent like you know him well. What does that make you. You are not to concerned about him if your screwing his wife. How do you know what he would or would not do? If you know them both has tried to talk to the husband and you have proof if your such a good friend then show him and help him get out. But it truly doesn’t matter how many affairs have been had by either one was enough. If they choose to remain married then support them don’t try to keep destroying them. You all are not true friends. I feel bad for both of them if they have friends like y’all no wonder they don’t trust heck they can’t even trust friends. Smh.

  24. NadineOctober 21, 2013 at 5:23 am

    This is hilarious Yankee Doodle please by all means your more than welcome to call Brent. And yes you stupid sob we have had counseling. We just don’t tell everyone anything anymore. ASK HIM I DARE YOU. WHO EVER YOU ARE I DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN BY BRAGGING THAT’S BULL SHIT TOO. I HAVE ONE THING TO SAY AND THEN IM DONE. IF YOU THINK YOUR SO SMART AND KNOW ME SO WELL THEN PROVE YOUR SHIT. JUST SIT BACK AND PAY CLOSE ATTENTION TO THIS RELATIONSHIP. IM NOT GOING ANYWHERE AND NEITHER IS BRENT. SO TELL THE WHOLE TOWN TO KEEP AN EYE OUT. I SO CALL BULLSHIT ON YOU. LIKE BRENT SAID LAST NIGHT YOUR JUST SOMEONE WHO WANTS TO SEE US FAIL AND WERE NOT. GOODBYE AND KISS MY ASS

  25. knows both of youOctober 21, 2013 at 1:21 am

    hmm…interesting..certain guys? i bet you know names too dont you yankydoodle?

  26. YankydoodleOctober 20, 2013 at 11:49 pm

    You have hit the nail on the head!!! Nadine obviously feeds on the drama!!! Lol…,.and it proves it when supposedly when Brent replied…..accidentally under her name……lololol ok….tooo funny!!!! She is such a hoe and the whole town knows it…..,,,she actually brags at how she wd get rid of Brent for certain guys at the local bar!!! And there is no damn counseling !!! I repeat NONE!! She always wants to make out like she’s tryin but all along she a talkin and planning with other guys! And furthermore Brent wd not ever reply on something like this……it’s her trying to make believe he is backing her up!!!lmfao

    • A True Friend Of Brent'sOctober 22, 2013 at 8:34 am

      You have hit the nail on the head!!! I have no doubt you are telling the truth.If you have all this information and are sleeping with Nadine you really need to talk to Brent. I know he will be upset but he will not want to fight you that is not the way he is.You seem to know him so you should know that and how to contact him.STOP!!! letting her make him look like a fool.He deserves the truth don’t you think?

      • Looking out for them bothOctober 22, 2013 at 8:05 pm

        You people seem to be bashing the wife like she is this evil person. I seem to have read back a few that the husband was the first to start affairs early in the marriage and continued during. I can almost bet money that this has done some serious damage to the wife and is most likely the reason for her sins. If you are a true friend you will stop bashing the person he apparently loves because he is still there. If you are having an affair now to this day with the wife then you are a fool too who most likely will not come forward. This couple really needs a new set of friends because from what I see none of y’all are any type of friend I would want. I feel very sorry for them to have people like all of y’all in their life. My advise would be to move away from all these negative people that want to see you both destroyed

        • knows both of themOctober 23, 2013 at 11:38 pm

          no he did not start the affairs. you know nothing. she’s cheated since before they ever got married and he just recently has been finding out. dont even act like you know what’s going on. its ridiculous that she’s blaming their problems on someone else. if she hadnt been walking around pretending that she is perfect and acting like he’s the bad one then his freinds and her friends wouldve never got on here to clear things up and let everyone know where the problem is. Nadine has never been true to him.

          • THEIR TRUE FREIND YOUR NOTOctober 24, 2013 at 7:36 am

            You might want to talk to your friend because your info so wrong. You really don’t know them do you. Who ever you are is a complete db ass trying to hurt them more than either could hurt each other. You are no friend or you would stop bashing his wife whom he apparently loves because he is still there. You won’t though because he would know who you are and would be very upset with you. Really sad really really sad.

          • Amazed at true friendshipOctober 24, 2013 at 8:26 am

            You must really hate her so much. I don’t know anyone that has show so much hatred for their FRIEND. I pray I never do anything to have my friends back stab like you have. I’m sure though if you keep talking they will fin out who you are and I wouldn’t want to be you.

    • Got Nadine's back. Fuckers!!!!!October 23, 2013 at 5:49 pm

      You stupid son of a bitch. You don’t know a fucking thing. They have gone to counciling because I went with them. They have seen one in nac. So you dumb mother fucker don’t know shit. All you are doing is trying to make Nadine look bad. She hasn’t done anymore than any other fucker. And Brent was the first to fuck around on her two years after they were married. So you stupid fuck. Unless you have the balls to backup your shit. Then shut the fuck up and that goes for any other mother fucker who wants to bad mouth my friend. Show your self say who you are so I can beat your fucking lying asses.

      • EmmyMarch 22, 2014 at 7:27 pm

        Hmmmm. Just gonna point out the fact this poster made the same spelling error as Nadine has repeatedly made: “counciling” when it should be “counseling”.

  27. NadineOctober 20, 2013 at 11:09 pm

    I will stop when some chicken shit calls Brent to see for them damn self he did say that and I also don’t give one rats ass what you white chocolate says or thinks. You can stop anytime too. And you know us both. Please by all means tell me more about ME.

    • knows both of youOctober 21, 2013 at 1:08 am

      I really dont think that the guys that you have been with would appreciate me naming their names on here because i bet they are embarassed to have ever touched you,and they havent done anything to me to deserve their names on here to be associated with yours. but dont think for one minute that i dont know the names of several and so does Brent.

      • NadineOctober 21, 2013 at 7:30 am

        Because you are full of shit. Just proves it. You are a fucking idiot and don’t know shit. Just trying to cause problems. I’m not worried about anything because I don’t have anything to worry about. Your so full of shit.

        • knows both of youOctober 23, 2013 at 11:13 pm

          here are some initials of some of the ones that i know you have been with and/or tried to be with in the last 2 years. maybe Brent needs to check into these initials cause you and i know the real names that the initials go with but for the guys sakes i will not say. S.P. B.W. a guy they call “Tank”. E.M. H.H. J.M.B and the only one you admitted to R from athens. and there’s no need to keep lieing about counceling over and over. i guess you have to repeat it to convince yourself its the truth because everyone else knows the truth. lol. do you need me to continue and say more? I am sure you would not like for me to because i know more. Thats only a few of the many. now try to tell me i dont know you. and keep trying to pretend to the world that all is well and that this Valerie person caused your marital problems. i think we all know the truth. now i think it best you shut the fuck up before i air out more initials for Brent to check into

          • Wow amazed at their so called friendsOctober 24, 2013 at 7:49 am

            Who ever this is you really just fucked up you put someone’s name on here that has nothing to do with this mess and could cause damage You seem to know nothing you might really want to talk to Brent because he knows you are full of shit. Really keep talking because you are going to get a lot of people hurt for what some kind of jealous vendetta towards Nadine why lie about people who have done nothing wrong.

          • NadineOctober 24, 2013 at 2:21 pm

            Keep going. I’m curious to know who else you want to drag into your bull shit. Your not hurting me or even Brent. But you are hurting people that have done nothing nothing to have to do with any of this. If you truly know Brent and me then by all means bring all your proof and lay it out in front of us. So the three of us can see who is going to be made a fool of. I know it won’t be me. Oh we’ve moved but I’m pretty sure you have already been to our new location. The more you say the easier it is to figure you out. Brent and I talked about you last night. Matter of fact you were here thi past weekend.

        • Crystal TinerJanuary 27, 2014 at 3:46 am

          Alll this is valerie and her trifling friends

  28. white chocolateOctober 20, 2013 at 10:48 pm

    You actually should feel real stupid because the more you comment, the more we all see the truth, and it makes you look like an idiot. Girl, have a little self control. Its more becoming of a lady. LOL

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