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Well, Here we go. Im not too sure on when exactly the affair between my husband and this Girl began so, Ill start with how I found out. Saturday, Hubby and I are having a good time dancing drinking and just full of laughs at a local bar. I go to the bathroom and as I’m walking out I see this Girl standing drunk off her ass in the corner, holding the wall up. She screams at the top of her lungs from one side of the room to the other, My husband kinda ignores the call but she yells again, this time louder. I look and Im like ok, Shes excited to see him? So I nudge him and he looks over. The Girl does the whole finger call to him and tells him “now!” Well, My husband like an ass walks over and lets go of my hand. I follow and the first word out his mouth was, “who you here with?” Im like ok, why does that matter. She looks down and whispers, “my Boyfriend” I noticed my hubby was upset but couldn’t show it and tells the Girl, “ok, I’m leaving” she says “why? Who you here with” my hubby starts to walk away. Mind you im standing there the whole time, at his side like, WTF, Who is this chick and why is he so concerned. He proceeds to walk away, without me, as she pulls him in to her and kisses his cheek, she then whispers something in his ear. Now, I’m Livid. My heart is racing but I keep calm. I ask my husband, “who was that?’ Oh thats Velia, everyone knows Velia. No, that wasnt my question, why didn’t you introduce me to her. Husband said he thought I knew her…………..???? Ok, now im on suspicious mode. My mind is racing and My Investigator badge is out.

So the next day I do some research, they dated around the time we first started dating and IDK how long that lasted. So we get into a fight I kick him out and he leaves. And yup, Guess where he goes, to HER house. She starts posting on FB about her new man and how I should have “taken care” of my man and he wouldn’t be there with her. She sends me FB messages of nonsense about, He wanted her and talking about their sex and blah blah blah. Well, this whole time, he is messaging me begging me back asking me to meet him here or there, finding any excuse to see me. I never did. I was done. I had all I needed. So after 2 weeks he started to distance himself from me texts stopped coming in as much. It was like at 9am texts up until 5p everyday, she works from 8a-5P daily mind you. So whatever. then he comes at me about our daughter, he misses her he needs to see her. So we arrange to have him watch her while I worked. Everytime he would try to kiss me or go in for a hug. It was disgusting. He was disgusting.

Well, 3 weeks after our break up, something must have happened between them two. All of a sudden after all his lies as to why his texts stopped coming in he said his phone would die or battery didn’t work or he had no charger. All of a sudden on a thursday, texts were all day long up until 3a then at 6a again, good Morning Beautiful! and all day, all night. I told him, wow, funny how long this phone is lasting all of a sudden. what happened? He said it just started working he didn’t know why……………..mmmhhhmmm. So Saturday he comes over and begs, cries and swears he wants us back (kids and I) He sleep outside and of course, I can’t be so mean, I let him in. He hasn’t left since. But now, this chick is at it again with the messages. Seriously, how can she be ok with being the other girl? How can she sleep at night knowing shes not only hurting me, but his daughters! How can she be so selfish? Now I’m the Whore? I’m the Bitch? How the hell does she figure that one out? Hubby and I are still really rocky and sometimes I can’t look at him but, I did miss him. I really don’t know what to do in my situation. And FYI, Its not about the whole “I should have taken better care of him” I am a damn good wife and mother. I know this for a fact. My husband has not worked in years, can’t seem to find a job. Guess he needed to feel like a man for a little while or I don’t know. Maybe he realized it was the wrong way or if this chick didnt want to support a man. But then why is she still harassing me? Why does she take time out of her day to tell me what a hoe I am? So many questions I have no clue how to answer.



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  1. ManWhoreJune 17, 2014 at 3:57 pm

    If you can’t do better than that guy you should probably just accept that this is your life and it’s not going to get any better. Just stop whining, snooping, asking questions, etc… because nothing will ever change. You have no self respect, therefore he will never respect you. You will eventually come home from work and find women in your bed and unless you plan to do something about it (which you won’t) you should probably just ask her what she wants for dinner and get your ass to cooking.

    Of course you do have the option of finding your dignity and getting away, but you won’t.

    • JessieJune 17, 2014 at 7:53 pm

      This is the truest comment and that’s coming from a manwhore. I swear cheaters always have the best advice. Game recognize game.

  2. realdealJune 16, 2014 at 10:01 pm

    Dear wife,
    Suggestions for a better life.
    Stay away from bars, divorce your semi mystery man hubby.
    Good luck.

  3. Jay-DeeJune 16, 2014 at 12:55 pm

    Damn, I thought I was the only one who attracted unemployed losers lol. Wife, forcing yourself to stay in a marriage for kids isn’t going to magically make him man up and act like an adult.

  4. JessieJune 16, 2014 at 8:40 am

    Love is not suppose to hurt. Your confused because your with a ” NARCISSIST ALERT”. Your husband and this woman are feeding off your heartache. Get away from these losers and find someone worthwhile. Look for a man with character and integrity.

  5. GregJune 15, 2014 at 9:01 am

    You are to blame for your own troubles, wifey. You married this unemployed loser, you allowed him to cheat on you and then take him back. What kind of lesson do you think you are teaching your kids? You are somehow even more contemptible than this hussy.

  6. JessJune 15, 2014 at 8:27 am

    Yeah, he sure does sound like a keeper. Only you know why you took him back and I can only hope you made the right choice… For your daughters..

  7. FromTheWifeToTheSidePiecesJune 15, 2014 at 1:49 am

    Ladies Before You Spread Your Legs Wide For A Married Man You Must Know This:
    ~The only thing he wants is sex.
    He comes & goes back home to his WIFE.
    ~ He is NEVER leaving his wife for you
    ~ After using you he will move onto someone else
    ~ Getting pregnant on purpose
    won’t trap him; his kids are at
    home with his WIFE
    ~ His money & property is for
    him & his family, why else would you pay for EVERYTHING??
    ~ Finally, You will NEVER, EVER be part of his future

    Why does the wife stay? Because we vowed better or worse, shit happens, you kick his ass and try to move forward… doesn’t make us stupid or desperate, it makes us women of our WORD! Just because he broke his promise doesn’t end the world, just means you have to rebuild your place in it again together… the sideline chic gets left at the garbage can where he found her, and you move on to better days.

    • JessieJune 16, 2014 at 5:08 pm

      Better days. Which days are those where he doesn’t love you and only loves himself. Where he uses you as his maid who does his cooking and laundry as well as raise up his children. Where he rather waste his time, money and sex with someone else. While he has you for available sex. Where your up at night wondering where he’s at and if he loves you. Well guess what these cheating men don’t love the homewrecker or wife they love themselves. That’s the only person they care about. They are users and abusers and until you realize that you will always play second fiddle to these women. It’s as they say you either put up or shut up. Once you start questioning him and demanding from him respect he won’t give it to you because you’ve been the doormat the whole time. These men if any one they have ever truly love was their first love. That’s the person that they let get so close to them. After this they have never had the guts to open their hearts again to any other woman. Until he means what he says and does what he says he will never change. It’s ongoing cycle and that is not love. That’s just a circus with a clown juggling different pins every day of the week. Wake Up he doesn’t love you nor respect you. Those vows were better said from a dog than that cheating bastard if anything they wipe their butts with those vows. Some people can change but it’s the few and it takes a lot of character and integrity. Other than that even when the homewrecker is gone you still stay with a cheater. The homewrecker has more chances of finding herself a single loyal man than the wife does.

  8. BelleJune 14, 2014 at 5:59 pm

    Ah, yes. You”re the who’re. Being married to him and the mother of his child and all. I wouldn’t argue with her, she clearly sounds like an intelligent and rational person.

    Wow, she’s like a whore and a moron at the same time. She’s a whor-on!

  9. gelicca4June 14, 2014 at 2:36 pm

    He only wants you back because this bitch aint trying to support his ass.and since your also a dumb bitch for allowing him to do you dirty most likely he needs you to support him.i mean h cany find a job really he lies and cheats. Yea he sounds like a really awesome dude.she maybe a hw but at least this bitch was smart enough to leave his ass or so because she dont want to support a douche

    • pppffftt....June 15, 2014 at 12:03 am

      Hey Gelicca4, Have you exposed anybody on here? Or been exposed, maybe? Who was it? I’d love to read your story. C’mon who was it? All these “dumb bitches” need to see how shits done RIGHT! You’re so good at attacking and slingin shit at the wives….well gah damn, you must be pretty fuckin close to perfect! Amirite?

      • 4 Sides To A StoryJune 18, 2014 at 4:01 pm

        Please explain to me why you (as well as many others) believe @gelicca may have exposed someone or better yet, (my all time favorite “comeback”) has been exposed on this site. Could it be because this person has a different opinion as yours?? I’ve got news for you. When you or anyone else uses that tired ass line, it makes you look and sound ridiculous. Although I may not agree with how they got their point across, I do agree with them. And no, I’m not a HW nor has my home ever been wrecked by one. It’s called having an opinion. Nothing more, nothing less… Shaking my head

  10. J.SJune 14, 2014 at 2:33 pm

    Hmmm cheats, lies and is really fucking lazy. Wow you have a real prize there.

  11. wait for itJune 14, 2014 at 1:17 pm

    Sometimes i don’t even want to bother but here goes: He doesn’t work. he cheats on you and dogs you in the club in front of her. he should have pushed her away when she kissed him in front of you. That was the least he should have done out of respect for the fact that YOU ARE the WIFE. He calls you and texts you when she is busy earning money to keep him. When she is around, he is perfectly content and doesn’t bother with you at all. Your theory that she probably kicked him out because she didn’t want to pay his way is probably correct, yet, you took him back. You have to be worth that that and so do your daughters. Get rid of him because he sounds like an ultimate douchebag loser. This homewrecker is a skank. I hope at least your husband is done with her.

  12. hmmmmmmJune 14, 2014 at 12:59 pm

    My question is…WHY did you want him back? I know you think you love him, maybe you really do, or maybe he’s what you’re used to, don’t want to have “wasted” this much time, etc. but if he “can’t seem to find a job”, but CAN find a side piece, both of you need to reevaluate his job hunting skills. Unless he was applying for a job as a gigalo. In that case, he nailed it. In more ways than one. You deserve better wife.